Hannah is an performer, model, massage therapist and ever-relocating ex-pat. Her blog is a reflective, often poignant look at life as she travels through various parts of the world on her journey to self-discovery.
Homepage: http://hannahinmotion.wordpress.com/
Tags: cultural experiences, expat blog, expat life, female travellers, Perpetual Travel
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At the urging of a couple books and online articles I’ve read in the past months, I finally started a Bucket List, or a list of things I want to do before I die. One of the reasons for starting this list was to re-energize; to remember that feeling of being a kid and wanting with abandon because it’s inspiring. There’s a certain amount of harm we cause ourselves always being grown up and tampering our desires with reality. That's why most of us travel: to escape the everyday and feel like we're checking off some of those things on our own Bucket Lists.
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Posted on June 23, 2010 in Articles.
Bucket Lists, cultural experiences, Ice Cream, Introspection, living abroad, Settling Down
There’s a street just around the corner and down the footpath from the Churchgate train station. I couldn’t tell you the address of this place, but I could describe it as bordering one of Mumbai’s several maidens, or grass malls, and housing a line of cheap clothing stalls. It doesn’t much matter the address, as Mumbaikers generally describe locations based on what they’re across from or next to. A result of being a city in two languages, I imagine. And I’m certain the families who live on this street – who’ve lived on this street, up against the surrounding fences and in the nearby gullies for the past 40 years – don’t have any need for an actual address.
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Posted on April 15, 2010 in Articles.
children, cultural experiences, India, Mumbai, volunteer work
#1Peter Daams » August 2nd, 2008 at 1:19 pm:
Great interview Matt. You’ve got a great site with some excellent content. Good luck with the preparations for the next part of your ongoing journey!
#2jessie » August 5th, 2008 at 11:29 am:
What a great review! I’ll have to read it. Too often, we have this idealized view of a place, and it isn’t quite real, is it? Thank you.
#3DesertMama » August 7th, 2008 at 11:28 am:
No kidding, sounds like a great read.
#4Eric » August 8th, 2008 at 11:21 am:
That’s really where the book excelled – in the way it brought Rome down to everyday reality.
#5David » August 9th, 2008 at 7:15 am:
Oh, to be 23 again! This book review not only makes me want to read the book, it makes me long to be 22 again and experience a city like Rome the way that Michael did (although the expired visa part is a bit scary).
#6Sam Daams » August 15th, 2008 at 5:48 am:
“It means that whenever I run across anything so incongruous, so out of the ordinary, I have to try it.”
Great motto when travelling!!
#7Pilar Garcia » August 16th, 2008 at 2:40 am:
Hi Matt,
I Have liked your interview and the idea of planning a new
Trip for that lengh of time.
I agree that once you leave your home country it is weird to
come back. Being abroad you realise how differnt everything is
and you learn a lot about other people.
Best of Luck!!!
#8Peter Daams » August 19th, 2008 at 6:28 pm:
Nice list. I’d better subscribe to some of these!
#9Craig » August 19th, 2008 at 6:34 pm:
Thanks for the mention: travelblogs readers can always get in touch with Linda and me (from the Indie Travel Podcast) here.
Budacast is worth a listen if you’re heading to Hungary too.
#10Eric » August 20th, 2008 at 1:41 pm:
Budacast sounds like an interesting one, will have to add that to the list!
Eric
#11Cuckoo » August 20th, 2008 at 6:09 pm:
Nice list there. Will come handy. I will subscribe to some of them.
Though it is not a poadcast, my blog speaks of India in detail. You can check it at your leisure.
#12Cottages in Scotland » August 21st, 2008 at 10:09 pm:
I usually travel alone.. Sometimes it is not fun, but mostly I really like it. At least you are not connected with people who want to do something different from your choice and nobody is pressing on you with some idea.. You can enjoy your free time and decide where to do, what to do without depending on somebody’s choice. I absolutely understand you
#13Eric » August 22nd, 2008 at 12:21 pm:
True, it has its tough times, but travelling alone really does give you a freedom and liberty to do what you want, when you want.
#14Chris Christensen (Amateur Traveler) » August 26th, 2008 at 2:29 pm:
Thanks for the kind mention
#15SiLLy » August 28th, 2008 at 2:02 pm:
It is indeed a difficult quest… I just wish you all the luck in getting what you longed for.
#16juliana » August 29th, 2008 at 12:57 am:
Wow how brave……can I join you????
#17Kahn Arshad » September 2nd, 2008 at 2:19 am:
Together with my wife, we drove overland around the world from mid 2002 to early 2003, a complete circle covering 28 countries for nearly 50,000km. What an experience! I agree no one should shrink from such an epic venture; once you begin, everything runs almost smoothly with soluble hiccups. The route must be planned, documents acquired for border crossings. Of course hassles and dangers cannot be foreseen but with common sense all could turn out well. One thing we all agree is that the people of every country are helpful and nice, at times going out their ways to assist travellers. We made many friends.
Sloan and Amy have reasons to travel at a young age and this is a wise decision for I know they will do it again; the experience will linger on and the urge will pull them out again. No books can ever tell you the experience that you gain. All the best to you. We were restless after successful careers and the children were on their own when we decided in our late fifties to drive around the world. We are thinking of going out again, perhaps for a longer duration.
#18Beijing » September 3rd, 2008 at 9:46 pm:
This is a very useful list for anyone who loves traveling, especially for those who is planing a trip. thanks for sharing!
#19Beijing » September 3rd, 2008 at 9:50 pm:
I can see there are number of points listed here for the benefits, but I personally do not like travelling alone, I like to share the joy of travelling with someone I really like.
#20World Travel » September 7th, 2008 at 12:51 am:
Thank you very much for this info! Fantastic read.
#21David Brodie » September 7th, 2008 at 11:51 am:
Thanks for the mention and glad you have been enjoying my podcast.
David
Travel in 10 Travel Podcast – Your 10 minute Window on the World
#22[F]oxymoron » September 9th, 2008 at 4:27 am:
In terms of quality, verbally dense travel writing, this is my favorite blogger. And I’m not prone to giving unfounded praise.
#23Natalie » September 9th, 2008 at 11:28 pm:
How awesome!!!
My husband and I leave on September 30th to backpack to various countries around the world for a year or so.
As we have been planning for our adventure we have been updating a blog. http://www.nomadbackpackers.com On our “Why” page we discuss the “American Dream” and hint around the pottential of finding a new home in another country. We would love to have other opinions, ideas, encouragement, advice, helpful tips, and more left as comments.
Thanks,
Natalie
#24lara dunston » September 12th, 2008 at 9:17 pm:
Such thought-provoking stuff here. I love the juxtaposition of responses and ways of thinking about loneliness and being lonely and travelling.
What a wonderful idea, Eric! Thank you! Thank you for the coverage and thank you taking it to a new level. I did a little post and linked back to you also.
#25Peter Daams » September 12th, 2008 at 9:51 pm:
Great tips! My personal view is that the best way to avoid loneliness is by getting out there and doing something interesting – finding places to meet strangers and strike up a conversation is a good way to quickly kill any insular moments.
#26Travel Muse » September 13th, 2008 at 11:37 am:
I get lonely when I travel for business. To cope I usually choose a restaurant I’d like to try and go out for a nice meal. I find that I can always talk with my waiter and then I don’t feel so alone anymore.
Great post.
#27Lil' Boozie » September 14th, 2008 at 1:36 am:
I agree with Lara – there are some extremely thought-provoking notions here. In my opinion, the only way to compensate for lonely feelings is to be active, embrace your alone time, and really try to get to know yourself on a different level.
When I was abroad a few years ago, I had a week left in Paris all by myself as my program was a bit different than the others in my group. At first, I was terrified, but it really gave me a chance to demonstrate my confidence in my ability to really handle my own in a foreign country and apply everything I’d learned over the past 5 months.
#28maryam in marrakech » September 18th, 2008 at 6:31 pm:
This is an interesting series but I do hope that you will be featuring more thoughts from women. With the exception of Lara who travels almost always with her husband, I see only guys chiming in. As a woman who travels extensively on assignment (I am off to Rwanda next week – country 71), I do get lonely. Women face very different constraints that men do – principally harassment. I do not feel comfortable going out to restaurants by myself at night outside the hotel b/c the harassment is non-stop, esp in cultures where women traveling on their own is a complete oddity:-( I have had men waiting outside my hotel room, men following me and calling my room in the middle of the night (including hotel staff), etc. By day, I am fine but by night, it’s a whole different world out there…..It would be great if you did a series on bloggers talking about security when they travel.
#29Eric » September 19th, 2008 at 1:42 pm:
Maryam, good point, although the other posts had a few more women sharing their perspective, particularly part 2. I like the idea of a series about security, perhaps even specifically for women. I’m sure that would generate some interesting discussion!
#30Soultravelers3 » September 19th, 2008 at 10:37 pm:
Bring your family!! lol! We have been traveling the world going on our third year now and have had no loneliness whatsoever.
We find bringing home movies along and lots of webcam free skype calls home helps keep us connected to family and friends at home while we roam.
I do remember dealing with loneliness during my first extended trip to Europe when I was young and alone. Glad we have not had to deal with it on this trip.
We find kind friends everywhere and meet others online, plus our connection to home and all our time together. Kidlet finds friends every where and every age….weather they speak the language or not.
In todays world, I think it would be hard to feel lonely while traveling.
#31maryam in marrakech » September 22nd, 2008 at 6:51 pm:
Love this. So inspiring.
#32Vanessa » September 24th, 2008 at 6:38 pm:
Inspiring indeed. In the 70’s my parents did a similar thing and packed up 3 small children to travel for several months around Europe but back then without a PC or even a mobile phone – now that’s complete freedom! I’ve always thought I’d do the same thing one day but running my own business http://www.golearnto.com
even though it is a travel business, makes it harder to do so thanks for the tips on the kit that gives you internet access, with blackberry and some satellite kit there’s a way!
#33Craig » September 24th, 2008 at 9:03 pm:
Amen, Gary!
We’ve been doing the audio podcasting thing since February ‘07 and weekly video podcasts over the last three months. It’s really hard work!
Still, the people sending us clips and the emails we get help make it worthwhile. God knows there’s little money in independent podcasting
#34jamie » September 25th, 2008 at 2:36 am:
Here’s how new I am to podcasting: I thought podcasts were only audio.
We just shot a bunch of stuff on a weekend in San Francisco with our kids. It would have been funny if it hadn’t been so damn frustrating.
I went in with a plan (and loose script) which totally had to be thrown out the window (too windy here, lighting too low there), mangled the transitions, and looked like a total dork (I’m your polar opposite: I write better than I talk). I had someone to shoot, but no one to keep the kids (who had supporting roles) from running into traffic.
Learning curve was pretty much a vertical wall. Still, I was sort of intrigued by it all. Will post the results on my site soon.
#35Peter Daams » September 26th, 2008 at 12:23 pm:
Great post Gary. It’s obviously a labour of love for those taking the time to document travels like this. I think I might have to try this some day.
#36Jet Set Life » September 26th, 2008 at 12:25 pm:
Your blog is very informative and something I think my readers would love. I’ll be sure to pass it on to them.
#37maryam in marrakech » October 1st, 2008 at 12:13 am:
OMG, so complex. I have done a few podcasts but always with someone to help and no editing!
#38Family Smudge » October 1st, 2008 at 4:27 am:
Hey Maryam and Vanessa,
Glad you found it inspiring
I can highly recommend packing up and taking some time out!
You’re right though – travel with no PC or phone, that would be lovely! But then it would have to be a shorter trip as I need to make a little money!!! My parents drove in a combi van round Scandinavia in the 60’s with 3 kids … I think that’s where I get my travelling spirit from (unfortunately I came later).
I’ll check out your sites now.
Alice
#39Family Smudge » October 2nd, 2008 at 10:47 pm:
I can complete relate to Maryam. As a woman who has travelled extensively alone (and contributes a little in Part 2), there have been definite moments where I have felt unease. In Thailand, Tunisia, Japan and even Arizona, I have found myself in situations where I wonder “should I be in this part of town alone?” However, so far I have found that my ‘get out there anyway, walk in a focused manner and try to keep an eye on what’s happening around me’ attitude has, thus far, kept me out of any truly worrying situations. That said, it is an issue and I believe more so for women, especially in certain destinations, so I agree that I series about security would certainly make an interesting addition to this site.
#40Andy » October 5th, 2008 at 12:32 pm:
Its a very cool way to spend your life. I really want to know how these world traveler earn his money when they are exploring the world.
#41Candace » October 5th, 2008 at 3:24 pm:
hey, Surrey isn’t as ugly as you think. You’ve just been in the bad parts. So please watch what you say, sir!
#42Kara » October 9th, 2008 at 3:07 am:
I am so impressed. You are living my dream. I’m thinking as soon as a get my degree I will be on the road. Permanently.
Enjoy!
#43Beth Whitman » October 9th, 2008 at 6:48 am:
This is great in theory, but it’s very difficult to do.
I have been working towards paying my mortgage through my site and blog so I don’t have to “work”. But, all of my “work” is travel-related anyway, so is it really work?
Really, I just want to have the flexibility to come and go as I please and with the way the US news/fearmongers are going on about the economy, I want to hit the road NOW!
Beth Whitman
http://www.wanderlustandlipstick.com
#44Artis » October 9th, 2008 at 3:59 pm:
Hi Kim,
I read this all the way to the last couple paragraphs before I realized who you were. I look for you often. I take the bus alot, or I have been the past 7 years. I gave away my last ever car a couple years ago, so I bus and ferry and train and walk. I’m picking up a bicycle a few days.
Anyway, since that/those rides and one other a few weeks later, I’ve often wanted you to pick me up again so we could catch up. I live in Pete Townsend. I have a Section 8 flat, right on the water. At low tide and can toss a rock to the edge of the shore, and at high tide it’s under the building. No hyperbole.
You’re a wonderful person, Kim. You treat me kindly. Thanx. xo
#45Mitesh » October 9th, 2008 at 9:43 pm:
Great Interview and come lovely sound…. i like it.
#46Mitesh » October 9th, 2008 at 9:44 pm:
nice list. thanks for share with us…
#47Kyle Shields » October 10th, 2008 at 1:42 am:
Wow Andy’s is an amazing story. I still don’t understand though how he can make enough money on the road to perpetually travel. It sounds like fun, but I don’t think I’d have the guts.
#48Kent Walker » October 10th, 2008 at 4:03 am:
Beth, I think I see your problem in your post. How could you ever travel forever while forever tethered by being a homeowner? Even if it were paid off, you’d have to rent it, keep it fixed up during/after the lease, property taxes, etc. Granted in the current market this is easier said than done, but if you’re making enough through your website and blog to pay the mortgage, if you sell your house you are on your way. The common theme I see in people who want to travel forever but can’t is they’ve got themselves saddled with huge anchors like that but fail to see that that is precisely why they can’t do it. That’s the only thing that makes it difficult. We Americans are so driven by the need to possess things, and it’s a VERY hard habit to break.
Incidentally, I just sold a business in May, sold my truck, my motorcycle, and most of my TONS of possessions and bought a 27-foot sailboat, which is now the closest I have to a home. Break those chains, and when you travel to Belize, look me up! I’ll be in the pretty blue boat, hopefully anchored off Caye Caulker.
#49Joachim in Oslo » October 10th, 2008 at 6:39 am:
Impressed too!
I love to travel, although never thought of being away for so long.
Been away for 4 weeks at the most.
But what if more and more people are following this idea?
#50j » October 10th, 2008 at 7:24 am:
This sounds like a great idea:) It is good to see the world, no responsibility except providing food and shelter for yourself. Even so, I think it would get lonely doing it alone. But to see the world like that is great. But with rising food costs, don’t expect to spend only $5 a day forever!!! In Bosston, the only things you can buy for less than $5 is from the .99 meal at Burger King or McDonalds!
#51Erica Johansson » October 10th, 2008 at 8:22 am:
Inspiring interview and a beautiful photography. Thanks for this!
#52J Nizzle » October 10th, 2008 at 10:32 am:
5 bucks a day. I think that is totally possible. If you don’t mind those living conditions. How long can you sleep on the ground? Or better yet in some seedy places that work with a 5 dollar budget. What is the quality of food you are eating? How about not showering for a few days? Mexico, Costa Rica are not best places to be but I guess that you get what you pay for.
#53Melanie » October 10th, 2008 at 12:10 pm:
Mexico and Costa Rica are not the best places to be? Um, ok. I guess it’s all in the perspective. If you’ve bought into the standard American lifestyle deep enough, I guess other ways of living and other standards of living won’t necessarily work for you. But if you consider for a moment that maybe that attitude toward what matters in life isn’t the only one with value, well, perhaps Costa Rica doesn’t seem like such a “drag” after all.
For me, any opportunity to immerse myself in another culture for a significant length of time is beyond measure. To me, that’s the REAL measure of “quality of life”. YMMV, of course.
#54Eric » October 10th, 2008 at 12:54 pm:
Well said Melanie. This kind of lifestyle is absolutely impossible without foregoing a lot of stuff that people in the West think is necessary. In a way, that’s one of the most liberating things about it – the sense of ditching all the more or less unimportant stuff, in favour of the bare essentials: food, shelter, clothing, etc.
#55Arnold - Mr.Gadget » October 10th, 2008 at 2:30 pm:
Yes! I earn over $5 a day! Holidays here I come
#56Hardcore Geek » Blog Archive » Perpetual travel not for everyone » October 11th, 2008 at 12:04 am:
[...] Work Week proposes that we spend several months a year doing just that. This morning, I came across a story of a man, Andy, who’s been perpetually traveling for 10 + years. They’ve done it, why [...]
#57Traveller Thougts » October 11th, 2008 at 12:13 am:
lol i earn roughly over $50 a day and it works out on its own (no need for daily work), this looks like a possibility but even I don’t think that it would make sense to live off that – like $50 a day is lot but I mean I haven’t touched any of it – literally not even a dime. Straight into my savings – and yea I guess I’m building a nest egg. Doesn’t make sense how he could live off $5 – I mean hotel or boarding would be more. Unless you stay at some real dives or hostels, and eat garbage or whatever you can get. Kinda scary actually.
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#59Krazd » October 11th, 2008 at 4:44 am:
$5 a day pays for food/place to sleep? I would think it would be more in European countries
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#61Ross Hill » October 11th, 2008 at 6:04 pm:
I can’t wait to read this series, as I consider doing it myself.
#62hoz » October 12th, 2008 at 11:55 pm:
I’ve been reading Andy the Hobo Traveler for a couple of years. Though he did take sojourns through Europe early on lately he has settled on tropical areas around the world. Second and third world countries where five bucks goes a long way towards food and shelter. Still, I don’t think the 5 bucks covers all his expenses now including travel.
Nowadays I think Andy makes much more then that.
#63Darren Cronian » October 13th, 2008 at 3:09 am:
Part of the problem is you get used to the luxuries you have in life. I could resign from my job, and live off what I earn on my blog, BUT, I am used to the luxury of living in a nice apartment, travel 2,3,4 times a year, have the latest gadgets and live comfortably.
If I was to travel the world I would have to give all that up.
Yes, it would be great fun, meeting new people and learning about different cultures but do I want to give up everything I have, be it materalistic, to do that.
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#66Marrakech Holiday » October 13th, 2008 at 9:19 pm:
That sounds incredible! What a life. I could only imagine what that lifestyle must be like but I can also imagine you might miss the regular lifestlye and family and friends at home. Also $5 in this day and age won’t give you anything but a flat stomach! Like Darren said, you will have to give up all the luxuries that are now a part of most peoples lives.
Having said that, if I was in the position to do the same, I would love to give it a shot!
Thanks for the interesting post.
#67Chris Smith » October 14th, 2008 at 2:28 am:
I’ve followed Hobotraveler Andy Graham through his website and Travel Blog for about 8 yrs and he’s the real deal … he prefers $5 days like it says but with a burgeoning travel presence on the Internet he can spend like a flashbacker and get a room with cable TV, WiFi and a private bath (OK, maybe a Suicide shower) for $10/day. He lives out of a backpack and though there are fast winds about him but he doesn’t sleep on the ground any more than the rest of us. If he didn’t travel so often, he could rent a house and spend $5 or less, no sweat. The less he spends the longer he can travel, that’s the math. Adventure travel is an ordeal but the world’s so worth it, don’t tell yourself you aren’t cut out for it or aren’t planning to leave in the near future. Don’t kill your dreams, they’re for living out without excuses.
The Hobotraveler put me ｓｏｌｏ on my 1st Chicken bus with 80-90 Mayans and waved goodbye － Happy trails, hahah. Ask around in 2 wks and you’ll find me in Panajachel, Guatemala renting an apartment for USD $150/month or a house with a gardener for 2 bills a month.
- Chris Smith
#68Debbie Dubrow » October 14th, 2008 at 12:51 pm:
I don’t worry so much about the creature comforts. When we’ve done extended backpacking in the past, those things just weighed us down… yes you need new clothes every once in a while, and shoes are expensive, but by and large you don’t need much.
The expensive part is health insurance, and if you’re traveling to more remote locations evac insurance. I don’t consider that a luxury. Plus there’s phone calls to family back home, internet access, and the occasional plane flight to visit family.
So yes, I believe that the actual travel can cost $5 per day, but there’s a non-zero cost above and beyond the necessities of food, shelter, and clothing.
#69Eric » October 14th, 2008 at 12:57 pm:
Good point Debbie. Health insurance is an interesting one, and it’s one of those things a lot of people would not leave home without. I haven’t asked Andy or some of the other perpetual travellers out there what they do about health insurance, but it would certainly add onto their costs.
#70pam » October 14th, 2008 at 1:20 pm:
When I did backpacker travel in India, Pakistan, and the Middle East, there was this sort of competition amongst the travelers you’d meet – how cheap could you be? How far could you get and on how little money? Meh, I’m glad to not be doing that anymore.
That aside, because we’re a mixed nationality pair and are, from time to time, aggressively friendly expat types, we have friends everywhere who will put us up for free. Man, are we lucky. And hey, there are institutionalized ways to get a free bed, too, what with Couchsurfing and the like. But we’d be crappy guests if we didn’t bring our hosts more than a 5 dollar bottle of wine.
Geography matters too. Cheap digs exist everywhere, but cheap in Vienna isn’t the same as what’s cheap in Hanoi. Though it might be equally as seedy. Heh.
Also, while you can sleep and eat for five bucks, what about getting around? Is that part of the equation? Hitching is free, but not for everyone and even then, isn’t it good karma to toss in $$ for gas, buy coffee for the driver, etc…? If you’ve figured out how to sit in one place for 5 bucks a day, are you still a traveler?
#71Stuart » October 14th, 2008 at 3:22 pm:
Interesting post — easy to do if you sit at home all day eating fried rice day in day out.
I met a guy back in 2005 who’d travelled extensively — he covered 32 Thai provinces in fact — on 250B a day for three months. Now that’s an achievement!
#72Phoenix Lawyer » October 16th, 2008 at 6:27 am:
I can’t imagine living on $5 a day – maybe $25 a day, I think that would go a long way to getting you by even in 3rd world countries. I’ve never tried it, but I could see doing it.
#73john-travel » October 16th, 2008 at 8:18 pm:
The entire article is like traveling. I like the way you described Wade’s experience.I have really inspired with his deeds.There are many special things in his time. The most important factor is the way he earned money. I will definitely do one of those actions because even I am a passionate traveler
#74Dave » October 17th, 2008 at 1:26 am:
Great couple of articles on traveling finances!
Some very valid points about living on $5 a day mentioned by Wade. Staying away from bars is one of them for sure. Not to mention learning to save $5 a day!
Actually I think you pretty much have to limit yourself to staying inside on $5 a day.
I think $5 is pushing it myself. It is by all means possible, but not all of us are sharing an apartment with a girl in Thailand and splitting the costs. That said, it’s in context, so yes you can survive on $5 a day.
Wade’s on the right track with having a wide range of skills at his finger tips.
Best of luck to him.
Dave
#75jamie » October 17th, 2008 at 11:20 am:
Do you keep a financial cushion in reserve? What happens if you need to fly home for a funeral, or have an emergency root canal? Do you plan for that, or have you been lucky?
#76Wade » October 17th, 2008 at 1:18 pm:
Hello Jamie,
I generally like to keep a $2,500 cushion. Once my funds start dipping below this point I try to find a way to up my income. But this is just my preference and is sort of an arbitrary figure. I have traveled for extended periods of time with way less money than this, and have ended up completely broke on a few occasions. Lately, I have been keeping my expenses/ income ratio pretty constant.
Thank you for your good words Dave and John!
Walk Slow,
Wade
#77Bobby Rica » October 18th, 2008 at 4:38 am:
I am totally not sure if $5 will work for me in a day.As when i travel i want to enjoy to do fullest and $5? hmmm i really don’t know how…
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#80NewWrldYankee » October 18th, 2008 at 8:17 pm:
I have no concept of how this is possible – I am def going to check out Andy’s site and see just how he does it. Is that even possible???
#81NewWrldYankee » October 18th, 2008 at 8:24 pm:
Ok, that makes sense. I live in Europe, and I cant think of a conceivable way to live on $5 a day. And I skimp and save a ton. But I love any money saving tips, and maybe I can apply some to Europe, too. I get it now – Yes, of course when you live with someone, it is cheaper. And if it is a significant other, then you can share a room, or even a bed. So that makes it even easier to save money.
#82NewWrldYankee » October 18th, 2008 at 8:51 pm:
Definitely right with you on the bar comment. Going out to eat and out clubbing or to the bar can waste a week or more worth of budget $. I went out once this semester and ended up using half a month’s grocery budget. Never again.
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#84airportdrunk » October 20th, 2008 at 7:03 am:
Some great advice, although i wouldn’t discount internet income. Vagabond Journey is a nice site that could be making a lot more if monetized properly. A good information resource like that should be treated as both a hobby and a business.
#85airportdrunk » October 21st, 2008 at 8:50 am:
To be honest I’ve never really understood this competition between backpackers to see who can scrape by on the least… I’d rather save up a bit more a few more creature comforts on my trip.
#86Cameron » October 21st, 2008 at 3:39 pm:
Hi Wade
I was wondering what strategy you use for unexpected medical costs?
Travel insurance is expensive these days and I am curious what other options are out there.
In the past I have run the gauntlet yet appendix know how to reject ones body at the most inappropriate times!
Also, have you successfully used airhitch?
#87Jessiev » October 22nd, 2008 at 1:25 am:
Brava, Christina. This is a lesson we all need to learn.
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#89Wade » October 23rd, 2008 at 3:19 am:
Hello Cameron,
Medical care is not nearly as expensive in other countries as it is in the United States, and many countries offer free care even to foreigners. I have always been able to pay out of my pocket for all of the medical attention that I have needed outside of the USA. In India, I did a two day stint in the Harvard Hospital in Bangalore (which is one of the best hospitals in the region) and it only cost $100. Other times I have needed to buy medicines, but they have always fit into my overall expense pattern.
So I would not worry medical care, you will be able to get everything that you need for yourself somehow.
I also think that travel insurance is often not worth the expense.
Thanks for writing.
Walk Slow,
Wade
Vagabond Journey.com
#90Jenny » October 23rd, 2008 at 1:25 pm:
I have been inspired by the Alchemist too. Great job on your travels, good luck with the future
#91Aparajita » October 23rd, 2008 at 11:02 pm:
Really inspiring. Also makes us aware how we can learn and gain knowledge while enjoying and having fun while traveling to various places.
#92Cottages and Castles » October 27th, 2008 at 9:37 pm:
I copmpetely agree that this is not the lack of time or money that prevents people from travelling. The first thing one must have is a wish. Than one works out a strategy how to get where they want. So the principal thing is to know exactly what you want and then moving towards it))))
#93Lou » October 28th, 2008 at 1:13 pm:
Hi!
When do we get to hear about your trip to S. America?
#94Dave » October 28th, 2008 at 11:34 pm:
Firstly, many congratulations to both Eric and Bec!
I can only say from a single 30+ male outsider looking in I have seen a few travelers with kids. It’s crazy to think it is not manageable. But it is completely different. And I think that difference has to be taken into context.
We all change as travelers, either through age, experience, destinations or due to children. I think the two key areas are trying to travel with children like you ‘used’ to travel. Which in my mind is a mistake. And having a strong relationship with your partner, a good thing for more than one reason.
Anyway I see only one traveling Dad out above, so it will be good to get the view point of Eric once you hit the road, bottles, nappies/diapers, harnesses and all!!
Congrats again, and well done to all
Dave
#95Stacy » October 29th, 2008 at 1:53 am:
Congratulations, Eric! I hope you will share the experience of travel with your child, and then share the stories with us!
#96jamie » October 29th, 2008 at 5:07 am:
It’s unanimous! Travel with kids = good.
The number one reason people tell me they don’t travel with kids is that it will be wasted on them. The perception is that older is better for travel. Discuss.
#97Clint » October 29th, 2008 at 12:29 pm:
Some people say that traveling with kids is hard, but we’ve travelled with our three boys since they were little and they are excellent travelers. They love to fly, see new things, and can fall asleep on any floor mat we might end up crashing on.
And in terms of the perception that travel is lost on younger kids, I think it’s a huge myth. My 4-year old is constantly talking about the travels we’ve had and keeps asking when he’ll be able to go back. To know that our travels have left an impression on our youngest is validation enough for me that it is worth it, no matter how old your kids are.
#98Eric » October 29th, 2008 at 12:32 pm:
Thanks for the dad’s perspective Clint. It’s interesting you mention how much your kids love to fly and see new things. Do you think this is a personality thing, or is it something they’ve grown into through experience? To put it another way, can parents encourage that kind of love for travel in their kids?
#99Jenny » October 29th, 2008 at 1:05 pm:
Traveling with kids is good! They learn and have fun along the way.
#100soultravelers3 » October 29th, 2008 at 7:47 pm:
Thanks for a great post Eric, for including us and congrats! My husband agrees with me 100% on the traveling with kids issues, I just happen to be the writer in the family. If this did not work for all three of us, we would not be doing it. We have found it to be a strengthener for our marriage and family!
Yes, I do think parents can encourage a love of travel in their kids and also find ways to make it more educational and easier to remember for a lifetime. Books, videos, photos, discussions before and after are important for preparation and for later remembering.
There are amazing books for kids that add so much to travel & helps them make it their own. We have used children’s literature continually to create family itineraries which adds so much and are great fun!
Kids are natural travelers so do not really need much encouragement.One of the greatest things about family travel sometimes is just doing ordinary things in extraordinary places like our video above in the Sahara. My child was just 6, but that is not an experience that she will ever forget. Today at 8 years old, it is as fresh as the day she did it and a cherished memory for her and the kids we came to adore.
#101Sam » October 29th, 2008 at 9:58 pm:
I clearly need to get out there and travel more with Malia!! A recent idea is to visit the Solomon Islands with her next year as part of an Australia trip. It would be cool to show her the country her dad grew up in!
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#103Beth Whitman » October 31st, 2008 at 12:51 am:
Love it! Great roundup from some very insightful folks. No kids for me but I have a Little Sister (through Big Brothers Big Sisters) that I can’t wait to travel with!
#104jessiev » October 31st, 2008 at 1:36 am:
inspiring, and lovely to read. we love traveling, and i agree – i would MUCH rather travel with our daughter – she brings a new perspective!
#105Ombretta Zanetti » October 31st, 2008 at 1:24 pm:
Hi Erik
I love your web site. I love your passion, drive , enthusiasm and ability to question (check out our blog, as per above, I write and my equally addicted traveller husband, Alex, takes the photos)…..we share your passion.! Life, travel and writing have been my love and passion for a very long time now. Travel makes the home entertainment unit and the convertible porsche seem oh so very ho hum!!! So……………when are you coming to Australia? If you are ever down under, drop us a line, we would love to meet you!
Cheers
Ombi
PS Don’t worry about any of those pastors or born again…whatevers! Maybe if they travelled as mucga s we did, they would see the world through a “different evolution”.
#106madeira » November 1st, 2008 at 2:09 am:
brave! i guess it’s a great education for the kids though.
#107Shelly Rivoli » November 1st, 2008 at 6:50 am:
My husband and I always figured our travels would end with familyhood. Now I’ve changed diapers on four continents and a handful of islands, and I encourage anyone who loves to travel to share that love with their children. You might be interested in my book Travels with Baby: The Ultimate Guide for Planning Trips with Babies, Toddlers, and Preschool-Age Children (self-plug, but it did get a 2008 Gold in Parenting Resources in the National Parenting Publication Awards and was a finalist for two Foreword Book of the Year Awards!). FWIW, I also blog at http://www.TravelswithBaby.blogspot.com. Congrats on your forthcoming traveler!
#108Jane » November 5th, 2008 at 5:08 am:
I recently read a brilliant article by Kayt Sukel on TravelSavvyMom.com (http://www.travelsavvymom.com/). on this VERY sublect. It’s called “Why we travel” (http://www.travelsavvymom.com/blog/family-travel/why-we-travel/). It answered the question, should we take our kids to Disneyland or the Louvre? And got a big response.
Jane
#109Sam » November 5th, 2008 at 8:15 pm:
Great post. Travelling for a long time isn’t always what it’s cut out to be, especially if you’re travelling alone. Don’t get me wrong, it’s great, but there are some bummed moments on the road as well! Quickie friends; great new term and so very true!
#110Paul Moroney » November 6th, 2008 at 12:21 am:
Hi Matt,
Great that you talk of the down side of long term travel too, just to give a balanced picture.
I plan to travle soon, and its good to prepare for the highs and the lows.
As you say… a good deep breath, a beer, and to realise how lucky it is to be able to travel, and be in good health…puts every low into perspective. ;o)
Keep up the great work!
One question if I may…I am 47 years old, do you meet all ages on your travels, and do most travel alone or in pairs?
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#113Four Go RTW » November 6th, 2008 at 9:44 pm:
An important thing to point out is that travel with children is only fun if the parents think so too. While I obviously agree with the above having just completed a year long RTW with our children I know plenty of parents who think the idea just horrible. It takes all sorts to make a world.
#114Asha y Glen » November 7th, 2008 at 5:12 am:
We have been “training” our two daughters to be good travelers, but nothing beat what we did this summer… we drove from Boston into Central America, and although the first two weeks were tough, it changed us all. We shifted completely, connected as a family, and as a couple. I wanted them to see life outside of this incredibly privileged community in New England, and for us to be closer. I care less if they remember the details, but how could you not be affected (hopefully not scarred!) by traveling into communities where the food, dress, language, and culture is different from your own, no matter your age.
I invite you to take a look at our photos…
http://www.travelingfamilycircus.com
Thanks for this post!
#115Shelly Rivoli » November 7th, 2008 at 11:51 am:
Re: “Traveling with children gets easier the earlier you start and the more you do it.” Here-here! As I always say, strap ‘em on and go! There’s no carry-on like a baby.
#116JLow » November 7th, 2008 at 2:26 pm:
Some good advice!
Here’s my experience travelling with a 3 year old. She will be 4 when we are travelling again in a few weeks time!
#117Soultravelers3 » November 7th, 2008 at 5:59 pm:
Great advice! We did lots of traveling as a family, but never did a long haul flight until my daughter was 5 and we started our open ended world tour.
She is extremely active, so I was concerned. It was sooo easy and we just did two more ( she is 8 now) that were equally effortless.
My best advice is, if you can wait until they are at least 5, you should be able to fly anywhere with ease.
Now, the lady ahead of me with the baby, she looked really worn out by the end of the flight despite having lots of help and bulkhead seat and baby bed.
Oh, get them their own carry on bag with wheels and make sure they are use to lots of walking ( my daughter was by 2). They like the independence and it is a big help!
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#120Blended-Families.com » November 9th, 2008 at 1:16 am:
It’s no argument that travel is a great learning experience. People who are well traveled are more open minded than those who aren’t (this is just my opinion but i believe this is true). On the side note, how would you handle your kids traveling alone?
#121Sam » November 9th, 2008 at 11:28 pm:
Great post!
We found when flying long haul to Australia via the US with our infant (6 months), that feeding during take off and landing is *gold*! Swallowing opens up the throat and means their ears don’t start hurting. Same kind of deal as chewing gum, but obviously that’s not an option with really small kids.
We did break up the flight in both directions, but not by a few hours. Minimum of a two days at each stop. It worked well for us, not in the least to slowly help with jetlag adjustments.
Next June we’re planning a new trip to Australia, but the little one will be 3 already, so should be quite different. She’s active though, so I expect to be walking up and down the aisle several hundred times!!
Great post!
Sam
#122Jenny » November 10th, 2008 at 2:21 pm:
This is a good article. Kids are a handful.
#123Sharon » November 13th, 2008 at 4:39 am:
You can be alone without being lonely. I don’t know if I could spend nine years on the road, but it’s nice to get out and get new perspectives and meet new people.
#124Lil' Boozie » November 13th, 2008 at 1:38 pm:
I love Melanie’s blog – I found it recently, and visit daily. I’d encourage others to stop by as well!
Best,
Suz (a.k.a. Lil’ Boozie)
“3 Troopin’ Travelers”
#125Matt » November 14th, 2008 at 12:14 pm:
I have always wanted to drop everything and travel. With 2 kids unfortunately it isn’t possible. It’s good to see two people taking an adventure of this magnitude.
#126Dave » November 14th, 2008 at 2:53 pm:
“We wanted our child to be raised as a global citizen as we think that is something that is very important for children of the 21st century.”
A great way of thinking. Also important for the adults too. If only it was mandatory!
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#128Billy C. Haynes » November 15th, 2008 at 6:00 am:
Hello! Interesting article at the very least. I wish I could afford to travel constantly, that would be so much fun. I am currently trying to figure out how I am going to come up with enough money just for a cross country road trip, let alone so many countries…
Hope the fun doesn’t stop for you, good luck on your adventures!
#129AD » November 17th, 2008 at 7:15 am:
I’ve always been surprised that more travelling types don’t make an effort to earn extra money online… I meet too many people that work minimum wage jobs for 6 months at a time to save up enough money to spend the next 6 months travelling… I like my way better
#130Family Smudge » November 18th, 2008 at 11:44 pm:
Congrats on the baby news!!! and I look forward to reading about your own family travelling adventures in the future! Thanks for featuring us
#131Megalead11 » November 21st, 2008 at 12:46 am:
Hi
Your article has revealed a book that I was looking for. US20 is indeed the longest road in United States. The author has rightly mentioned it as Americas’s Great road.
Thanks
#132john » November 21st, 2008 at 1:50 pm:
Great advice… i have a 14 month old and one on the way and i’m sure i will use some of the tips you’ve given on my next trip. Thanks!
#133john » November 21st, 2008 at 1:52 pm:
great site!… keep livin’ the dream!
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#135Megalead11 » November 24th, 2008 at 4:35 pm:
Hi
You have given some tips on how to break loneliness. I respect your views. We generally make new friends while travelling. Be polite and people would be eager to talk with you.
Thanks
http://www.morvacations.com
#136Tajo » November 24th, 2008 at 8:27 pm:
I’ve been away for two years now, and I completely agree with the sentiment that once you’ve been away for too long, it becomes impossible to think of going home. For me, life is about having the freedom to stop somewhere for a while, get to know the people, and then when I feel like it, simply pack my bags and be off to the next place. To do that all I need is the clothes on my back, a camera, and a laptop, although to be fair I could probably ditch the laptop.
#137The Fitness Diva » November 25th, 2008 at 1:06 pm:
This is actually a dream of mine, and I’m trying to figure out how to fulfill it. I will definitely take some notes here!
#138Debby » November 25th, 2008 at 1:44 pm:
Thank you for these four comments. I do enjoy traveling alone, but I also enjoy traveling with others as well. Each has their positives.
Debby (Tea, Sugar, a Dream)
PS. Please click the link to my blogs for some Galapagos stories.
#139Sam Daams » November 26th, 2008 at 6:44 am:
Wow, some very inspirational trips there!
#140Car Hire South Africa » November 26th, 2008 at 6:27 pm:
Wow, makes you think about how boring regular organized tours are in comparison. I love the idea of doing something completely different.
#141Dan Roberts » November 27th, 2008 at 10:08 am:
Kiwi Rob Thomson recently completed skateboarding around the world: http://travelgeneration.com/blog/2008/10/an-incredible-journey-ends-switzerland-to-shanghai-by-skateboard/
All of these are so inspirational, when I struggle just to do the daily grind.
#142jasonA » November 27th, 2008 at 3:05 pm:
Inspiring.
Small typo: Chopin, like the musician, not Choping… Wait, they were married?
Also check out Jim Rogers’ adventures. World by bike, then again (on film, with wife and crew) in a custom mercedes 4×4 convertible.
#143Gil » November 27th, 2008 at 4:29 pm:
The pictures are great, I really enjoyed scrolling through your site, althoug I would like to see more pictures of those exotic places you visited.
#144Gil » November 27th, 2008 at 4:40 pm:
hope you find your “bottle girl” soon…
#145Tom » November 28th, 2008 at 1:58 am:
Wow,
And we are just traveling the world with common transport and have trouble organizing it. Must have been trouly hard but a big victory on these trips!
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#147Genevieve » November 30th, 2008 at 9:47 am:
Hi My husband and I are travelling with our 4, 2 & 1 year olds to Florida from Ireland in March 2009! Not looking forward to the flight at all-any advice or information that I should be aware of? Many thanks!
#148Tim Dodwell » December 2nd, 2008 at 4:41 am:
Really good article, Volunteer work has become more and more popular, and is a great way and different way to travel, learn a about a culture and feel you make a big difference.
#149Andy B » December 3rd, 2008 at 7:27 am:
Nicely done, Derek.
#150yaovi ahorlu » December 3rd, 2008 at 9:41 am:
nice to hear from your tremendous experiance
#151janice » December 3rd, 2008 at 5:12 pm:
hi.. i really love austria very much … i will go there once of my life…
#152Sam Daams » December 3rd, 2008 at 8:05 pm:
Wow, great post that resonates. This is exactly my kind of travelling too. This has got to be doable with kids as well. All I need now is to offload some of this work that can’t be done online and convince the missus!
#153Nomadic Matt » December 3rd, 2008 at 8:45 pm:
I am a avid flashpacker and written about it frequently on my website and for a few others. I love it. I totally agree. Shopping and toys are fun and you didn’t save money to not experience the finer things a country has to offer. You live once…live a little!
#154NewWrldYankee » December 3rd, 2008 at 9:48 pm:
I lovee to hear tons more about this! Now that is something I’d love to do – wonder where all the stuff goes in the end?
#155Bob » December 3rd, 2008 at 11:53 pm:
As a current backpacker I see more and more of this, but at this point in my life (and considering my resources) I still choose to see more and travel longer, trading time for comfort if you will.
But as time goes on (and I get older and less willing to endure the discomforts of budget travel) I may do more of this type of traveling.
#156Jenna Howard » December 4th, 2008 at 4:29 am:
Hello
I just wanted to stop by and tell you thank you for for all you are doing. I think it is amazing how you ventured out into the world and the only money you asked for was for others. My heart is with orphans, street children and well, basically just children in general and i was so excited to hear that you are helping the cause and cry of the orphans. As I have read through your blogs on children I am encouraged that I am not alone in this fight to help orphaned and abandoned children. I am the Director of Public Relations for a non-profit organization called World Orphans. We build church based orphan homes all over the world and our mission is simple E3 to reach each church…each child…each community. I would love for you to take a look at our website and let me know if you have any questions. (www.worldorphans.com) thank you again for your heart and words that you have written. I hope you will have a glorious blessed day!
Jenna M. Howard
-Director of Public Relations
http://www.Worldorphans.org
Jennah@worldorphans.org
http://www.JennaMarieHoward.com
#157Lil' Boozie » December 4th, 2008 at 9:55 am:
Curtis, so glad that you wrote this post. I’m definitely filing it away for future reference. Hope you & Lindsie are doing well – looking forward to Lindsie’s next post on “Flashpacking Wife”!
Best,
Suz (a.k.a. Lil’ Boozie)
#158Heather Wagner » December 4th, 2008 at 2:26 pm:
Derek.
I appreciate the tips on volunteering. I think there are a lot of people out there who want to go help somewhere, but don’t really know where to start. Your flexibility and willingness to just go is inspiring. Hope your next stop in Argentina is full of good stories!
#159Nero » December 4th, 2008 at 8:54 pm:
travelling is a pleasurable experience but it could become uninteresting expecially when you are traveling with kids, you have to prepare them for the journey and to cope with jetlag. I traveled to Dubai with my kids and the tips you gave really helped me in coping with the long flight. the idea of one person to a seat is simply great and the first thing i did was to ensure my kids were engaged in one game or the other to keep them busy just to overcome jetlag. Thanks so much for this wonderful tips.
nero
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#161Mexican Bob » December 6th, 2008 at 10:10 pm:
Wrought iron, not “rot” iron…
#162Alex Berger » December 7th, 2008 at 7:35 am:
Wonderful post! Each time I travel abroad I find myself packing less and less. My goal for my upcoming 16 day trip is to do it all with a carry on friendly backpack, and secondary day pack. Looking over my list from last years 3 month trek, i’ll probably be packing nearly the same for 2 weeks as the essentials I used for 3 months.
#163Ant » December 7th, 2008 at 5:22 pm:
Great piece guys. I’m still a bit bored of the term flashpacker, but this is one of the best defences I’ve seen for modern day backpacking. I just hope the travel insurerance market cottons on and gives us a fairer deal on complete cover.
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#165Curtis » December 7th, 2008 at 11:51 pm:
Thanks everyone for the comments, stumbles, and tweets, and for passing the article around — the response has been amazing!
And I’m honored to have the entire Daams family tuned to my Tweets.
@Sam: If we can do it, you can too… I’m definitely planning to keep it up after we have kids.
@Nomadic Matt: Thanks from one hardcore flashpacker to another.
@Yankee: Where DOES all the stuff go… well, as for the stuff we pick up along the way, I’d say 20% gets mailed home, 30% wears out and gets trashed/recycled, and 50% makes for half-decent gifts to people we meet along the way.
@Bob: I agree that going cheaper lets you go longer — good to find your own balance there.
@Boozie: We’re doing great, thanks! Wish we could make it to Morocco ourselves (how often will we be this close?) but Portugal is calling… Lindsie should be posting about Venice soon, so stay tuned.
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#167jessiev » December 8th, 2008 at 3:13 pm:
WOW! Fantastic – i love this article. bravo to you two! and inspiring…
#168Stuart » December 9th, 2008 at 2:31 am:
Flashbacker=backpacker with laptop
More comfort less hardcore
#169Mark Newland » December 9th, 2008 at 7:27 am:
I spent last year doing something similar (minus the sail boat) through an organization, and I’d just like to say you’ve hit it on the head here, this is great advice. And it makes the whole endeavor just a little more attainable for those that don’t know where to start. So thank you, well done, and keep up the amazing work.
#170Ranjana » December 9th, 2008 at 5:32 pm:
Hi,
Really impressed…I wish I could take off on my own sometime…
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#172Ant » December 9th, 2008 at 11:41 pm:
Lived up to my expectations with this one Eric, good on you mate. But what happened to Shantaram? I thought someone had nominated it. One more thing, what about your own – what would be your choice?
#173Eric » December 10th, 2008 at 12:15 am:
Hah, unfortunately the guy who said he’d review Shantaram never sent through the review! It was a popular pick though – 3 of you mentioned it. I’ve definitely got that one on my Christmas wishlist now:)
My choices… One of them is listed above – Into the Wild. Not so much inspired me to do what he did, but piqued that interest in doing something wildly adventurous. And at the moment I’m reading Mark Twain’s Huckleberry Finn. Twain always inspires me, mostly in his writing style and storytelling capacity, but also the people and places he depicts. He inspires me to travel because I’d love to write with the same level of astute observation that he writes with.
Eric
#174Diana Scimone » December 10th, 2008 at 2:18 am:
Reading this fabulous list, I realize how many of the books I love are really travel books:
) recommend the series I wrote to introduce kids to other countries and cultures and of course the joy of travel: Adventures With PawPaw (www.adventureswithpawpaw.com ).
Exodus, by Leon Uris
The Far Pavilions, by M.M. Kaye
Room with a View, by E.M. Forster
The Enchanted April, by Elizabeth von Arnim
Leaving Microsoft to Change the World, by John Wood
and the book I’m currently reading: Three Cups of Tea, by Greg Mortenson and David Oliver Relin
You didn’t include children’s books on your list, but I’ll (shamelessly
Thanks for a great list–I now have many more books to explore.
Diana Scimone
http://www.dianascimone.com
http://www.adventureswithpawpaw.com
#175Deneen » December 10th, 2008 at 2:49 am:
I was an English major in university and have always been a lover of everything British. Whenever I read Great Expectations, A Tale of Two Cities, Adam Bede, Jane Eyre, Wuthering Heights, Cranford, I want to hop on the next flight to England. I recently red a book set in the countryside of France (Bon Appetit by Sandra Byrd) that has grown a desire within me to travel to France.
#176Luanne Mattson » December 10th, 2008 at 2:59 am:
I applaud the inclusion of Bill Bryson’s books. He’s the kind of guy you’d love to travel with… so funny and weird stuff always seems to happen to him. My inspirational travel book is Blue Highways by William Least Heat Moon. Ah, a lovely look at people and places that really are off the beaten path!
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#179Rich » December 10th, 2008 at 7:47 am:
great post. comfortably roughing it… right up my alley.
#180Rich » December 10th, 2008 at 8:14 am:
A Year of Adventures by Andrew Bain is great. Adventuring With Children: An Inspirational Guide to World Travel and the Outdoors sounds like a great present for my wife.
#181Tanya » December 10th, 2008 at 8:27 am:
Great list! Adding some of these to my must-read list as I write
#182Sam Daams » December 10th, 2008 at 9:52 pm:
Wow, what a fantastic list! Will definitely be using this to tinker with my Christmas wish list
#183Lifecruiser » December 10th, 2008 at 10:12 pm:
Thx every one! Such an excellent list! Wow! That list may cause me to start reading books again. (I haven’t been reading for ages, because I prefer reading travel blogs instead
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#185PickledEel » December 10th, 2008 at 11:23 pm:
Thanks for this collection Eric. You set a high standard with Twain. But you are right – his powerful imagery embedded in my ten year old head still has me hankering for a visit to those parts of the US. Shame about Shantaram. All the publicity about Leopolds in the recent “kerfuffle” in Mumbai threw him back in the spotlight. It is a 900 page book you simply cannot put down – Christmas holiday reading to be sure. But if you want a feel for the sort of character the author is search You Tube for him. There are some public speaking clips of him. He is completely captivating – his verbal story telling is equal to his writing.
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#187Ariela » December 12th, 2008 at 9:29 am:
Amazing article. Thank you for sharing this list.
Cheers!
#188Ant » December 13th, 2008 at 10:51 am:
Pickled Eel – I’ve done the YouTube thing on GDR and thought the complete opposite, I was quite disappointed by the real him. A great story all the same.
#189Patricia » December 16th, 2008 at 7:43 am:
As to the comment about walmart. Pali, Mas x Menos, and Hypermas are walmart run businesses in Costa Rica. They are one of the very few grocery store chains in the country and Hypermas is, by far, the largest store I encountered while I lived there. Also, as to the beach and seeing los Ticos and the Americans, I remember camping with my family. We would take a walk down the coast and look at all the rich Americans living in either huge homes, or staying in grand hotels. Of which they would fly to and from other places by helicopter and hang out on there yachts. Meanwhile, los Ticos played in the water or on banana boats and camped in tents nearby. The drinking water depends on where you are. When staying in a hotel or eating at a business, the drinking water is generally okay. However, when it comes to people’s homes, and some small restaurants, tanks are used to hold the water. The tanks are not as clean and some Americans do experience some stomach issues. Costa Rica does do very well. They have some subsidized housing for the poor, but the government just cannot help everyone. One of the biggest problems Costa Rica faces is that of illegal immigration, which does take a toll on their economy. With Nicaragua being as poor as it is, and Costa Rica doing so well and being so close, Costa Rica has to deal with a lot of illegal immigration.
#190Travels With Two » Love Letter to a Reluctant Traveler » December 17th, 2008 at 3:46 am:
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#191Richard » December 17th, 2008 at 6:47 am:
That hits the nail right on the head. It’s a conversation that I suspect so many people wish they could have.
#192Ant » December 18th, 2008 at 10:22 pm:
I think I’d need a holiday after a letter like that… with the lads! haha. A great concept for a piece of writing though, and brilliantly executed. The theoretical sender sounds like he/she is better off without the recipient though.
I think a witty post-it note on the fridge would suffice ‘Dear You… the milks gone mouldy x’
#193Ant » December 18th, 2008 at 11:48 pm:
These posts should of been done around Valentines Day – I can’t imagine how many people feel even lonelier now! But rising emotions, like loneliness and love is a result of the partnership between TB.com and Melanie’s love note. I tip my hat at the photographers for the last two posts as well.
#194Brenda Du Faur » December 19th, 2008 at 8:16 am:
I got the name of Erik Gauger from the letters-to-the-editor of Vanity Fair January 2009 issue letter he wrote regarding big Golf persons wrongly and destructively developing Great Guana Cay in the Bahamas. Much I admire about Vanity Fair- its diligent articles on bush jr and what his policies have done to the environment and so many many other things like that… But I disrespect Vanity Fair for being part of making a big fanfare over wrong things, like unconscionable giant development- as Gauger wrote, “touting the Baker’s Bay Golf and Ocean Club”- “Bahamas Bliss”…and not bringing up the other very bad side of such things… People like Gauger who see all that is going on and are trying to do something about it are like wonderful and fantastical aliens to me. Destruction of land and over development are so painful to me that I, well, stay away from it. To give your all, and for years at that, which I have seen so many wonderful people do- and then maybe still see the bulldozer for another Walmart on the ground you were trying to save are things I feel like I wouldn’t be able to bare…maybe I could evolve to Gauger’s level of seeing it and being in it and actually trying to do something about it… I might need a molecular injection though… But I would take one voraciously if we humans could really reverse it all and save the habitat, the cultures, the people, the animals, the air, the water, the very soul of existence, the universe, the earth itself … … Brenda Du Faur, New Orleans
#195krista montalvo » December 20th, 2008 at 8:52 am:
I am helping a friend of mine who wants to come to Argentina with her twin 6 year old girls for a 2-3 month stay. I am helping her with a little research. I would love to email you to have a possible contact for her and to see what your opinion is? Can you help?
#196Andrea from Tux In Backpack » December 20th, 2008 at 10:25 am:
Congrats on the huge response, as mentioned before you are indeed great Flashpacking ambassadors. And to take it from your point 10 the best in Flashpacking still has to come. Happy Travels!
#197Audrey » December 20th, 2008 at 12:38 pm:
I would add on to #1 that traveling with your partner allows you to observe and learn more about a place. My husband and I will walk through the same market or square and each notice different people, architectural details and just have different cultural/social observations. This not only increases what you see and learn about that location, but it also teaches you a bit more about your partner along the way.
#198Jerry Haymaker » December 20th, 2008 at 4:52 pm:
I live in my van and get by but would prefer more world travel. I consider myself a minimalist. I use the least resources anywhere I go to make the most of my earnings. I visit interesting places on my way and see more of the country and world than most people. I just need an easier way to make money and was thinking of giving lectures on travel and other countries cultures at colleges and other venues.
Have fun and learn a lot traveling.
#199Honeymoon Ideas » December 20th, 2008 at 5:46 pm:
thanks for the great post,but this year because of the economic crisis,i cant go any where its really a hard time for me,will difenetly take time in the new year and try for a trip to venice and get our life some excitement,
#200angelina hart » December 21st, 2008 at 12:33 pm:
Thanks Debbie for The Little Travelers inclusion! I wanted to comment on Tales of a Female Nomad. This is the book that lit my fire for travel again and had me packing up the girls for Bali. Now we’ve just returned from Iran- a remarkably good location for family travel. Honeymoon in Purdah is a good funny read from a Canadian gal who pretends to be on a honeymoon with her gay friend as they travel through Iran. What I consider good bathtub reading.
#201Dave » December 22nd, 2008 at 2:29 am:
Yep, you can’t go wrong with Shantaram. Sequel or follow up is long over due. Though I hear Jonny Depp has bought the rights to the movie…
#202Brad Curtis » December 22nd, 2008 at 4:23 am:
I completely disagree. I travel light. 6kg for my last year long trip. And I laugh at anyone who thinks travelling with a laptop is a good idea. Rediculously unnecessary and the exact form of added weight you are trying to justify not carrying.
#203joshua » December 22nd, 2008 at 5:35 am:
Very interesting stuff here. I’m headed to SE Asia in April, plan on spending 6-8 months out there. I’d like to bring my laptop along, but am concerned about theft. What precautions do you take (and/or recommend) to protect against theft? I’ll be budget traveling, staying in hostels and likely spending a good deal of time in the countryside. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks!
#204yamgnos » December 23rd, 2008 at 6:43 pm:
I think that’s really useful topic for all mothers.
#205Ant » December 23rd, 2008 at 8:00 pm:
@ Dave – Johnny Depp was shooting Shantaram in Hampi, India earlier this year (March/April).
@ Everyone Else – Read it now, before Jack Sparrow ruins it for you!
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#207Heather Hapeta » December 24th, 2008 at 8:24 am:
you are a very funny writer! tks from a passionate nomad who is gentically programmed to travel too.
will check back for more when i want to be distracted and inspired. cheers from down-under
#208yamgnos » December 26th, 2008 at 1:26 pm:
Your post is really romantic, finding a person sharing your hobby is rather difficult but you have your husband to do all things: working and traveling etc together. That’s really happy.
#209Visit Dubai » December 27th, 2008 at 7:46 pm:
i read some of the most inspiring trips here. I am feeling like to pack my bags and experience atleast one of them!!
#210Audrey » December 29th, 2008 at 3:05 am:
I second (third?) Shantaram as a fantastic read – the descriptives and treatment of India (especially Mumbai) is amazing.
For Italy, I’d recommend “Within Tuscany” by Mathew Spender. His stories really give an appreciation and accurate depiction of life in a Tuscan village.
Another book that comes up often in discussion during our travels is “Guns, Germs, and Steel” by Jared Diamond. It’s not a travel book, but more of a macro history of the world. It explains how certain societies, cultures and regions developed as they did and how the development of (and who had) steel, weapons and infectious diseases changed the course of history in some regions. Although I don’t agree with everything in the book, it does provide a framework for attempting to understand the development and culture of some of the places we’ve visited.
#211Eric » December 30th, 2008 at 5:00 pm:
Well I’m pleased to say I got a copy of Shantaram for Christmas, so I’ve taken your advice and started that this week. Loving it so far!
#212soultravelers3 » December 30th, 2008 at 7:48 pm:
I am just now finding this. Oh boy, do I hear you Gary! I broke my camera 3 days into our open ended world tour, so I only had a video camera ( that took stills) and took all my picture like that ( almost all by myself…video & photos for almost the first 2 years.
We have taken tons and tons of great video and photos, but the editing process and time it all takes just does not allow us to get it all out there quickly.
We have managed to get 26 videos up on Youtube ( barely a dent) and almost a million views for our first one. We have not had time to figure out how to make them official podcasts.
We do have 2 adults with talent, but one has to keep an eye on the kidlet and homeschool her too as we roam ( oh yeah, we take a violin and piano with us too! lol) …so being more than one person doesn’t always add up to more time.
I had a friend ( Bill Bowles) who did a fantstic podcast as he roamed the world, but it was a pure all-hard-work type of thing ( he was a professional cameraman by trade) with top of the line equipment. He made it clear that it was a work trip for him and he spent all of his time on the work.
http://www.veoh.com/videos/v6336648hfaB5qQg?jsonParams=%257B%2522user%2522%253A%2522iambillbowles%2522%252C%2522veohOnly%2522%253Atrue%252C%2522order%2522%253A%2522mr%2522%257D&context=CHANNEL&viewType=user
That is just not sustainable kind of lifestyle for us or most extended travelers. Perhaps the technology will keep changing, but editing is one of the most important things and that takes time.
Luckily our audience does not mind waiting until we get to it, sounds like yours are fine with that as well. Why do travel if you are working the whole time?
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#214lara dunston » January 2nd, 2009 at 1:39 pm:
Thanks for this list, Eric. There’s quite a few there I missed because I’ve been so busy travelling myself. I’m going to check them out. Happy New Year!
#215Enduring Wanderlust » January 3rd, 2009 at 1:26 pm:
Interesting selections, Eric. $5 a day
Sounds like a Frommer’s book from 1962.
#216Craig of Travelvice.com » January 5th, 2009 at 2:48 am:
$5 is quite obtainable, you just need to change up your ideas of travel a little bit. With over 130 continuous nights of CouchSurfing under my belt in Eastern Europe (and still going), I’ve been spending, on average, only $7,8 or 9 USD per day in several regional countries. And that’s _with_ an infant (6-11 months) in tow! Over half of my budget goes to supporting this little guy, and without him I’d easily be hitting well below the $5/day mark!
…more on this in a post on travelvice later.
//craig in istanbul, turkey
#217A Maui Blog » January 6th, 2009 at 9:43 am:
Everyone who reads the “Van Down By The River” blog would be inspired to live their lives to it’s fullest, enjoying God’s creations and loving relationships with our family and friends. Joe and Rachel’s great writing style and sense of humor makes this blog entertaining as well. The photos in it beautifully captured a lot of the culture and traditions in the places they visited. Don’t miss out on this wonderful blog, I highly recommend you read it.
Although Joe passed away in May 2008, his memory lives on (and one day we will see him again in heaven).
#218Len Hough » January 7th, 2009 at 1:55 am:
We started our voluntourism website this time last year featuring holidays from providers around the world. It was hard to get enough straight Voluntourism holidays so we expanded it to include volunteer and “responsible tourism” holidays.
While it is working quite well it has not clicked with the voluntourism travellers as we had hoped.
I would be very grateful if any off you interested voluntourists could have a look at the site http://www.voluntourism.co.uk and tell me what you think is missing or wrong with it.
thanks
Len
#219Enduring Wanderlust » January 7th, 2009 at 12:22 pm:
Thoughtful article. It’s so important to give back especially since travelers gain so much knowledge from each country they enter. I also agree that it’s important to pick the right type of volunteering. A lot of people pick the location first instead of the actual activity.
#220South Padre Island Hotles » January 8th, 2009 at 6:24 am:
I agree with Enduring. Many people travel to places everybody goes to, not really looking into activies that the country or city has to offer. Volunteering is also important.
#221Doug Spencer » January 9th, 2009 at 5:04 am:
This is a must read! Give yourself a gift and set aside the time to read the entire “Van Down By the River” blog. It is a treat for the heart. I promise that you won’t be disappointed.
#222AnnaE » January 9th, 2009 at 9:37 pm:
Hi guys! And thanks for your comments.
Len, I took a look at your site and I think I know where the problem is. When I have a minute I’ll review the site on my blog.
Gennaro & South Padre,
Glad you agree! But still, today I got an email from two wanna-be volunteers, and it goes like this (and I quote) “Hi Anna, we want to go to India or maybe Kenya and do you know of any volunteer things in those countries?” LOL! Can these people read? It seems that no matter how much is written on this subject, it’s never enough.
#223margo sturts » January 10th, 2009 at 5:04 am:
Wow, I read your article in Mens Journal last monday, I am a 50 yr old woman with grown children who have their own lives now, I am single and you have inspired me to sell everything and set of on my own journey. Thanks, just let me now just one downfall, ha! Take care and be safe, Margo
#224Jay » January 11th, 2009 at 4:45 am:
Just got back from eleven weeks in Australia and NZ and took two pairs of pants, three shirts, one pair of shoes plus some Croc sandals for the showers. Took a laptop, two cameras, and cell phone.
Biggest problem? High cost of internet in both countries. It was never free and I paid an average of $6 (U.S.) an hour in the cheaper internet cafes and the caravan parks. Some public libraries offer free wifi, but it never seemed to “be working.” The laptop was useful for storing photos and for keeping a travel blog, paying bills, etc. But pretty sure I wouldn’t take it on a trip shorter than a month. I did worry about it being stolen and was forever trying to figure out the best place to “hide it” especially if my rental van was parked at a trailhead or other semi-isolated place.
I bought a phone before I left that the salesman assured me was “unlocked” and that I could buy a sim card for in Australia. It didn’t work and I had to buy another phone in AU. Then when I got to NZ, that phone didn’t work and had to buy yet another phone. Be smarter about phones that I was.
#225Bill Kepler » January 13th, 2009 at 7:34 am:
I LOVE THIS BLOG!! It’s easy to spend a couple of hours there. It helps us remember what an amazing guy Joey was. Thanks, Rachel.
#226AnnaE » January 13th, 2009 at 8:21 pm:
Haggle, haggle, haggle.
I didn’t come to an unnamed Asian country to pay full price. I don’t expect to pay the local price, but you can bet your last bhat, dinar or rupee, I’m not going to pay the tourist price either. And if I happen to speak the local language, then why not?
#227Curtis » January 13th, 2009 at 9:18 pm:
Good arguments on both sides, and even though I’m squarely on the side of haggling, reading the opposing arguments was enlightening.
In the end, I definitely agree with Melanie, Dave, and Gary — haggling isn’t about charity or relative income, it’s about doing business and following local custom.
When my wife and I traveled through Thailand last year, locals would quote us about four times the “Thai price” for pretty much everything. If you haggled, you’d get it down to about twice the local price, but seldom any lower. They enjoyed it as much as we did, and the practice often started new conversations and even friendships. We did plenty of repeat business with people after haggling through a first transaction, and certainly didn’t feel like we were exploiting anyone. At the same time, we saw plenty of locals snicker at the backs of farangs who paid $12 for a $3 T-shirt.
If it’s about relative standard of living, should wealthy locals pay more for goods than poorer locals do? They don’t. And what about the flip side — if wealthy shoppers pay more, shouldn’t poorer shoppers get a discount? As a Canadian, I often wish I could ask European shopkeepers to cut their rates for me, but I don’t. (I realize that I’m living above the poverty level, but still, where do you draw the line?)
If you feel guilty or sorry for people, there are a hundred ways to help them without treating their place of business like a begging bowl. Leave a tip. Recommend them to a friend (Pickled Eel: If you recommend a shopkeeper to your friends for any reason, he’ll probably appreciate it).
Why not offer to help someone manage or market their business better? It only takes a few minutes to correct mistranslated English on a menu or sign — and helping them understand why “Steamed Crap with Beer” isn’t selling will be way more fun than shoving a few extra bills their way.
Or you could donate your time or money to a worthwhile charity — there are plenty — or visit Kiva.org and make a micro-loan to help a struggling Asian entrepreneur succeed.
#228Curtis » January 13th, 2009 at 9:29 pm:
@Jay — I feel your pain. Australia was the pits for internet access: splotty, slow, and expensive. I went so far as to try a Starbucks (their wifi is free in most countries) and they wanted $12 an hour! That’s one well-paid router. And half the other places we went to were out of order.
Weird that Cambodia has faster, cheaper, more reliable connections than Oz. Whoever’s managing the networks down under — get it together, people!
A tip on unlocked phones: You can test a phone to see if it’s unlocked by asking the salesperson to put another SIM card in it — locked phones will only work with their original card. You can have a locked phone unlocked for a few dollars, but it’s often illegal and done at your own risk.
#229Jon - The DC Traveler » January 14th, 2009 at 12:39 am:
No need to be lonely on the road, just reach out to other people, especially other travelers, and start a conversation.
#230Lindsie » January 14th, 2009 at 6:53 am:
It never even occurred to me to haggle for food in Asia.
Goods? Of course! Food? No.
I LOVED haggling in Asia. If a vendor wasn’t willing to sell me something for the price I was willing to pay – I simply walked away. Eight times out of ten they followed…and I usually paid half (or less) of their original asking price.
The only time I didn’t haggle was at a market in Cambodia. The vendor quoted me a reasonable price right up front and I have to admit that I paid it – she was deaf and I just couldn’t bring myself to try and “talk” her down. I felt better paying my $3 for a beautiful silk scarf than I would have trying to get a deal.
The next time I was at the market and dealing with a young, very savvy vendor, she quoted me $8 for a similar silk scarf. I laughed. And the haggling began….we ended up having such a great conversation. I asked her if some people were really stupid enough to pay that much and she told me that some tourists will pay $12. They don’t even try to negotiate. I did get her down to $3 and told her as I was parting with my money that I knew I was still paying too much. She just smiled and gave me a look that said, “you aren’t as stupid as some of them, but yes, you are still paying too much.”
Definitely haggle. Then haggle some more. It’s fun!
#231Mark M » January 14th, 2009 at 8:36 am:
Interesting, I’ve never tried the Travelling Europe site maybe I’ll go check it out. I’ve always planned my trips on zipalong.
#232Travel for the Over 30s » January 14th, 2009 at 9:43 am:
Its funny to see the comments – people either get it or they don’t! Obviously if you can get a hotel room for $10 in somewhere like Asia you can get a longer rental for a fraction of that. Food is so cheap that the locals eat out rather than have kitchens. Unfortunately most in the western world need to surround themselves by “stuff”
#233Audrey » January 14th, 2009 at 1:45 pm:
Even though I didn’t respond to this panel question, the topic did spark a lively conversation with my husband. If I know I’m paying a higher price, I tend to haggle. It’s not the amount of money per se, it’s the principle of getting charged more than other people. If the vendor sees that a tourist knowingly agree to pay more than locals, where do the price increases stop?
When we were in Varanasi (India), I bought some food off a kid at one of the ghats for an older man. I thought the price was high, so I told the vendor as much. He halved the price immediately. It still seemed too much, but I wasn’t 100% sure of the market rate so I paid it. Two local boys about the same age as the vendor passed by and saw the transaction. They came up to me and told me that I had still paid too much and confronted the vendor to return my money (he did). The boys told me it wasn’t right for him to charge me more.
We’ve also found that prices change based on whether I’m the buyer (solo) or whether it’s my husband. I tend to get a more fair price right from the start. Guess the vendors assume the big, white guy has more money.
#234Ant » January 14th, 2009 at 9:47 pm:
Audrey I think you’re right. When I was in India I met up with my parents and my mum consistently got a fairer deal whereas me and my dad had to pull the sleeves up, smile and get haggling. So there you go folks, if you don’t haggle you’re (kind of) encouraging sexism (and probably a heap of other ism’s). Great debate, right through to some intelligent comments. Bravo, Eric
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#237Gennaro » January 15th, 2009 at 2:58 am:
Locals think visitors who don’t haggle are foolish. I’ve seen plenty poke fun at a customer who take the initial offer. They are not insulted by haggling. They are insulted in you’re not fair or if you haggle and walk away after they give you a fair offer.
That being said, be respectful and understand that you are much wealthier in their eyes. After a couple of “negotiations” let it go and pay their price. It is often less than a dollar we’re talking about.
#238Dave » January 15th, 2009 at 3:20 am:
Audrey & Ant,
It’s a really good point you guys bring up. Personally, I much prefer to travel with a woman for this very reason (amongst other reasons too). The toothless man smiling away at my travel mate makes for easy haggling from a two sided front. Her foreign rapture, my sheer pocket tightness. He gets his kicks, we get our bargain.
Likewise another way male & female traveling haggling tandem can work is when the lady likes to go shopping. The vendor knows the lady is the shopper, so most attention goes towards her. Meanwhile I knock back a few cheap haggles in the background.
Just to even things up, when it comes to bargaining for a room, I found as a male, it was easier to get a cheaper price. And a lot of girls I traveled with didn’t like to bargain for rooms, as there were sometimes unwanted comments attached from the hotel owner towards her.
Anyway, I now relinquish myself from any potential gender argument issues. Maybe it’s another debate in itself for a later installment!
Kudo’s Eric!
#239Austin » January 15th, 2009 at 9:53 am:
I say haggle for the fun of it. I’ve found haggling to be an enjoyable experience, even if you don’t get what you might consider to be a “deal”
Once, in Singapore, I spent almost an hour talking, haggling, and having a great time, all just to buy a new lens for my camera ( as well as a few extra things I needed ) My sales guy was awesome, he had a great sense of humor and took great care of me. I think both of us walked away happy, monetarily and otherwise.
#240Francoise » January 15th, 2009 at 10:05 am:
Full disclosure: I once spent 4 hours haggling over the price of a rug in the Mid East.
I have to say “yes” to haggling. The value of an item is the meeting point between how much the buyer wants the item and how willing the seller is to part with it.
Remember, it’s not a competition, but if you’re coming from a non-haggling culture, it’s easy to see it as a win or lose situation which can sour the experience.
In the end, as long as you walk away with a tasty meal, there’s no need to get too worked up about the price.
#241Audrey » January 15th, 2009 at 10:06 am:
Interesting discussion.
My husband and I use the opposite roles when we’re haggling at a shop (souvenirs, clothes, trinkets, etc.). The vendors assume that I’m the shopper – cliche goes that women like to shop – when most of the time we’re there because of my husband needs to buy a gift for a niece or other family member. So, the price keeps dropping as I sit there uninterested or antsy to move on (which is not acting). My husband uses my apathy and refers to me as the boss as a way to get a great deal.
You’re right about room prices. I tend to avoid that type of haggling – my husband is much better at it.
#242lara dunston » January 15th, 2009 at 2:10 pm:
Fantastic post! And some eloquent arguments presented. It’s a topic close to my heart – and wallet! – as I live in Dubai and write mostly on the Middle East.
I’ve got haggling down to a fine art here, where it’s an essential part of the culture, and if you don’t participate in the bargaining process to some sales guys you’re just plain boring. They enjoy it! They think it’s FUN! So don’t feel guilty. Especially if you’re bargaining over a carpet. As the bloggers say above – they’re not going to sell it for anything less than it’s worth to them.
Admittedly, I don’t always haggle – if I’m tired or simply can’t be bothered, I have days when if it’s not the right price I’ll simply walk away, or – if the price is ‘fair’ to me, I’ll pay. But when I’m in the mood, I enjoy it as much as the next carpet guy.
#243Rick » January 15th, 2009 at 5:57 pm:
So i’m wondering exactly what does a voluntourism business do? The price to get to these places is the same just going there alone…. You can volunteer to help people and probably help a volunteer organization while you are there, and not be set by a schedule to do it all the time. I see that as a problem with this system. If you are signing up to volunteer, it really shouldn’t cost a volunteer anything. Why pay someone to put you to work? That’s fairly backwards.
I kind of wonder if a government is paying the volunteer organization money to round people up like a temporary job placement organization whilst making the actual volunteer pay his/her own way.
#244Clay Mama » January 16th, 2009 at 2:30 am:
How beautifully you’ve stated the reasons for getting to know yourself and liking that person! Can’t wait to read Part 2. Give us more.
#245J » January 16th, 2009 at 7:04 am:
Wow, great writing on a great topic. looking forward to part 2. Best of luck.
#246kitt » January 16th, 2009 at 10:56 am:
say a person or couple was looking to set off for, say, a year. about much cash reserve should they look to go with? is there a way to make money on the road?
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#248Jon » January 17th, 2009 at 3:55 am:
Very cool concept and some great ideas for traveling light. I learned long ago, traveling light is traveling right!!
#249Jon - The DC Traveler » January 18th, 2009 at 8:24 am:
I think haggling adds to a shopping experience in any travel experience, as long it’s culturally acceptable.
#250lara dunston » January 18th, 2009 at 6:11 pm:
Hey Erik, just letting you know I linked to this great debate: http://cooltravelguide.blogspot.com/2009/01/to-haggle-or-not-to-haggle.html
#251Sahi » January 19th, 2009 at 7:03 pm:
I’ve once read a story about someone living in Saudi Arabia for a few months. The story was that he would sit down near some vendor’s stall every day and they would greet each other. Then one day he buys something without haggling. From that moment on the vendor stopped greeting him. He found out the reason, bought a packet of matches, haggled over it and from that day on he was greeted again.
#252Geetu Navani » January 19th, 2009 at 8:07 pm:
Simply brilliant!! Inspirational as well. Looking forward to part 2. Goodluck.
#253Beth Whitman » January 21st, 2009 at 3:45 am:
Thanks for all the great tips but what about Goldfish crackers? I never travel by car without Goldfish
#254Liv Unni » January 21st, 2009 at 8:26 am:
Nice to read some thoughts on volunteer work. I have worked as a volunteer with African animals for a couple of months in Namibia(www.x-plore.no)and are now planning to work with children this summer:)It’s my way of giving something back after years of just backpacking around the world. I would however like to give a comment to Rick who thinks it’s a problem with the system and that you should not pay to work. Well, first of all many projects are funded mainly by volunteers, meaning that when you pay to do volunteer work(food and accommodation)you also support the project so that they can keep on working with conservation, rehabilitation and so on.. Often if you are a wildlife volunteer, part of your project fee goes to a wildlife foundation. Second, if the volunteer work should not cost anything, there will be no one to give you training or information about the project, no accommodation.. Should people just drop by and do the hours they felt like, without knowing what to do? This is off course a little bit exaggerated. But, what about safety? You can’t have people coming and going at all times. The projects have to have some kind of record of you,who is gonna pay this person? And many times where talking about orphanage, shelters, farms, animal rescue senters ect. Places were you should stay more than a week not only to build up contact, but to actually contribute you need time. Anyways I’m one of those who don’t mind working long hours and supporting a project that I believe in, and at the same time paying for it! And luckily there are many like me:)) Hope you find a way to contribute without feeling that you pay too much money. Life is a journey:))Ciao!
#255Liv Unni Sødem » January 21st, 2009 at 9:05 am:
….and I so so agree with what you’re saying Anna:)It’s really important to know what you can do for the project that you’ve chosen.
And that it can also be a cultural shock for many people.
Ciao ciao;))
#256Lyns » January 21st, 2009 at 9:35 am:
Or a box of cereal! Best car snack food ever and if you’re taking a solo trip, no one can get annoyed by your munching!
#257Lyns » January 21st, 2009 at 9:37 am:
Sounds like such a brave expedition. I can’t wait to read more.
#258Lyns » January 21st, 2009 at 9:39 am:
Did you learn any native crafts from India or Nepal that would work well with your knitting craft?
#259Rebecca » January 21st, 2009 at 10:58 am:
I had the opportunity to teach in China for a short while (about 10 years ago). One of my Chinese students told me that I should never pay the first price quoted for anything. The student told me that the vendors would believe I was stupid if I didn’t haggle. They would also be insulted if I didn’t engage in the cultural activity of haggling.
My favorite haggling story was on the day I visited the Great Wall. After climbing down from the Wall, I decided to buy something from one of the many vendors that were there. My translator was helping someone else from my group when I found what I wanted to buy. I looked around for her, but realized I was on my own. I pointed to what I wanted to buy and the vendor told me the price. Of course, I didn’t understand. He then took out a little calculator and punched in the price. When he showed it to me, I shook my head to show that it was unacceptable. He gave me the calculator and I punched in a lower price. He shook his head…and so it went–calculator haggling for a couple of rounds. When I got done (I had been willing to pay the first price, so whatever we agreed to was fine by me), I took out my money to pay. He indicated he had no change for the big bill I presented to him, so I started making a pile of things from his booth and offered him my yuan for the whole pile–he shook his head to indicate that it was unacceptable, so I took a few bracelets off the pile. Again, a few rounds and we struck the deal. When I finished, I realized that all of the other vendors were standing right behind me watching the process–they all cheered when we were done. I asked the translator if I had done something wrong. She told me that they were amazed that I could do the negotiation that well without a translator and that they held me in high esteem! In a sense, I had honored my vendor by engaging in the local practice!
#260laura » January 21st, 2009 at 12:16 pm:
oh wow! i hope i someday get the time and money to travel this way! sounds so fun
#261SOITATAMI » January 22nd, 2009 at 12:41 pm:
Nothing seems to be easier than seeing someone whom you can help but not helping.
I suggest we start giving it a try. Give love to the ones that need it.
God will appreciate it.
#262fm » January 22nd, 2009 at 7:09 pm:
i am with you about fast food – it is best to avoid it
#263Heather ( nomad kiwi) » January 23rd, 2009 at 5:57 am:
Great discussion .. I often haggle for things but never for food. Laughter and good humour helps and so does being able speak or understand the numbers in the language.
However I sometimes haggle in Christchurch New Zealand (my home) too!
I have put a link to this site & discussion from one of my blogs – check it out on http//kiwitravelwriter.wordpress.com
kia ora from downunder in kiwiland
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#265Heather ( nomad kiwi) » January 23rd, 2009 at 7:02 am:
just letting you know I have quoted and linked to you in my (kiwitravelwriter.wordpress.com) blog about monkeys with suitcases.
#266Rich Whitaker » January 23rd, 2009 at 8:04 am:
I think #1 is very important…and you can’t forget the pretzel goldfish.
#267Caroline A. » January 23rd, 2009 at 8:05 am:
Hi Tammie,
I like the picture of the car on the road. I can almost hear the radio. Thanks for sharing the tips!
#268Oman » January 24th, 2009 at 3:03 am:
It depends on the original price, its apparent fairness, who is selling it and my own circumstances. So when I am buying something grossly overpriced, that’s relatively inexpensive – from its maker I don’t haggle so much. If it’s a bit of kitsch churned out in China from a ‘tourist trap’ then haggle away.
#269Travelanthropist » January 24th, 2009 at 3:50 am:
Very practical tips on finding a good placement match!
Often we get swept up with the ideas of doing good and forget there are practical implications that can make or break our travel experiences.
Anna, love to read more of your DIY voluntourism articles.
#270Craig | travelvice.com » January 25th, 2009 at 4:25 pm:
My response to Eric when he asked me this question…
“Isn’t there a third option? To walk away? Why waste the energy or money — am I that hungry?”
#271Lauren » January 26th, 2009 at 3:34 am:
I didn’t learn any specific crafts but I strike up a lot of conversations through knitting that I might not have had I just been sitting there reading or peering out of the window. Knitting seems to be the great leveller. It makes people feel comfortable with you right away.
Also I saw some amazing designs out and about that it would be great to recreate. Being in India and Nepal certainly makes you see how important craft out there is for people. They don’t just knit for fun.
#272Marius » January 27th, 2009 at 12:37 am:
Tammie,
You’ve mentioned every necesary thing but..how about a friend, or at least a dog?!!
#273Stephanie » January 27th, 2009 at 7:14 am:
Solo trips are a blast, for all of the reasons you just mentioned!
#274Enjoying Travel With Kids » January 27th, 2009 at 11:45 am:
Because we live in Australia, when we travel with our kids, practically all our flights are long haul. We’ve survived 13 hour flights from Asia to Europe, but without a layover, our trips to Europe from Australia would be about 20 hour non-stop flights…! Sometimes, layovers are completely necessary.
We always keep in mind that for the first two or three days, the kids will be grumpy because of jetlag – and probably we will be too! You just have to try not to expect too much of everyone.
You’ve got some great tips.
Yvette
#275Tammie » January 27th, 2009 at 2:11 pm:
mmmmmm….. goldfish crackers! I knew I left something out. I love the multi colored ones.
Thank you for all your comments.
#276Joie » January 27th, 2009 at 3:29 pm:
Very inspiring! Will try to make a solo road trip down to Texas sometime this spring! I’m curious, do you listen to music? Books on tape? Or just the lovely sound of your car on the open road…
#277Clay Mama » January 27th, 2009 at 3:49 pm:
Safety factors are soooo important. Good tips. Don’t forget the corn nuts! Only time I can eat them is when I’m alone. Too much noise!!! I feel like you have something else to say…kinda like I hear an and… Don’t leave us hanging! Give us more. How do you select the motel you stay in or the route you take?…the road less traveled? ….don’t want to even think about staying in the car. I’m 65 and you have me so charged up about taking a solo road trip. I have Santa Fe on my mind in a month or so. You are as refreshing as lime juice!!
#278Anthony Maw » January 27th, 2009 at 7:51 pm:
I’d like to point out an error:
On the last leg described going through Surrey, BC, one cannot ride a bicycle across the Port Mann Bridge. There is no sidewalk and it is illegal to ride on the bridge’s roadway (it’s a high speed freeway). Perhaps this was just a typographical error.
The easiest way is to just go straight north on King George Highway which takes you across the Patullo Bridge to New Westminister. After crossing the Patullo Bridge, go immediately westward along Columbia Street and then you can just follow the route of the Skytrain. 7-Eleven sponsors a dedicated bicycle path under the Skytrain route all the way into downtown Vancouver, about an hour’s ride (21km).
Don’t bother going through Richmond unless you really want to take the long way.
Regards, Anthony Maw, Vancouver
#279Craig » January 27th, 2009 at 8:01 pm:
It’s OK Ireland, Malta, South Africa…you’re all native English speakers too.
#280AnnaE » January 27th, 2009 at 11:10 pm:
and for jobs in Korea, there is a VERY stringent visa process these days – they require APOSTILLED copies of your university transcripts and diplomas, which is a major PITA to get.
You forgot to mention one more way of teaching English, and the easiest in my opinion – privates. It takes a while to get students, but once you have a few good ones, you’re set. Most people without valid work visas do that. Also, tons of non-natives teach that way. I’ve met Belgians, Swedes and even Russians and Iranians teaching English in Japan.
#281Scottish cottages » January 28th, 2009 at 12:21 am:
Children love travelling and i think it is one of the most fascinating and effective tips to educate children and to cultivate cultural tolerance.
#282Lisa » January 28th, 2009 at 3:44 am:
Great points!! By George, I think you covered it all…Now, just tell me what direction to point my compass and where are the Best Places to go?
#283Lisa » January 28th, 2009 at 3:54 am:
I get a “High” just listening to you. And the comment made about ‘fun should be shared’ that your friend said….That is true, I appreciate you ’sharing’ it with us thru your writings and your SRT’s that many of us can’t take but enjoy the thought! Thanks!
#284JJ » January 28th, 2009 at 2:42 pm:
Great stuff!!
to those of you who inquired about pets, friends, or suggestions on places you ’should’ see. A pet, depending on its level of maintenance could detract from the notion of solitude…man’s best friend is still a friend. Another person would totally destroy the whole concept of a ’solo’ road trip. And to Lisa, being told where to go is SRT sacrilege. ‘Best’ is a subjective term…Go wherever the hell you want to…this is about you.
#285Tammie » January 28th, 2009 at 3:57 pm:
Wow!! sounds like the subject of SRTs has the power to inspire, intrigue, and induce comment exchange. SRTs are a curious thing, and you really have to experience a true SRT (with nothing breathing in the vehicle except you) to see the difference between being totally alone with your thoughts and the spontaneity that results from that, and having even a pet on board. There’s a definite difference. As JJ said though, it’s all about you, so do what you want! I also agree it’s not about where to go. What’s amazing is what you find along the way to anywhere.
#286Tammie » January 28th, 2009 at 4:04 pm:
To Clay Mama, I’ve never been compared to lime juice. But I kinda like that!
To Joie, I do listen to music and sometimes a good book on tape. However, I’ve noticed I’ll have them on regularly at the beginning of the trip, but as the trip proceeds, often I have no desire to hear anything but the cogs in my head.
#287Tammie » January 28th, 2009 at 4:06 pm:
Thank you friends, for your uplifting comments!
#288Tourism Radio » January 28th, 2009 at 7:09 pm:
All fantastic tips!
A lot of people might think they sound like common sense but when you’re excited about a trip there are some things that can easily slip your mind.
#289Tom » January 28th, 2009 at 10:39 pm:
This guy is pathetic. His strategies often involve leaching off others, and he talks on one post somewhere on his site about only showering every two or three days.
Selfish, dirty and unoriginal.
How about a life approach, one of travel or not, that is self sustaining and that celebrates the human body by, like the best of close-to-the-earth cultures like Thailand (the real Thailand, not the ‘travelers’ heavily trodden path), staying as clean as possible.
Cheers and happy travels walking slowly and bathing often, Tom
#290Craig » January 28th, 2009 at 11:35 pm:
Word of mouth and church/family units are a great way to quickly increase private students. When we had our tutoring business in NZ, we’d give a free lesson after any referral had paid for a month’s teaching.
#291JB » January 29th, 2009 at 1:55 am:
I think everyone needs to take 1 SRT per year at a minimum. But this depends on a person’s set of family responsibilities. If you’re married and have young children or a single parent, you face additional challenges. You may have to start with a day long journey somewhere, anywhere. To the guys out there who need to take a SRT, offer to support your wife to take the first SRT and help her (if she wants) get ready for travel following Tammie’s tips above. But before she goes, make sure you’ve selected a date/time for your own SRT, and soon after her SRT. Seal the deal by taking her to dinner and proposing this idea. I’m in the process of trying this since I’ve been inspired by Tammie! Good luck to all of us who remain SRT wannabees.
#292JB » January 29th, 2009 at 2:04 am:
Hey Marius, don’t take the dog on a SRT. Take JJ’s advice on that one. I once did that driving from Oklahoma to Washington D.C. with a Siberian Huskie. Thought it might be cool. After he ate the first bag of treats (chicken and shrimp flavor), the war was on. And about Tennessee, the electronic motor that controls the window on my side died. LOL. Seriously, we have to leave people and pets behind so we can hear those cogs in our head. For me, that’s when I get things straight, set priorities about my life and think about what’s most important. One of the questions I’ve asked myself to get my cogs going is: If I died tomorrow, do I have any regrets? That tends to help me focus. Good luck.
#293Leigh » January 29th, 2009 at 8:04 am:
Wow, this is a great interview. Insightful and to the point. I love the last lines… ‘Taking the leap is the hardest part, don’t procrastinate, things are always clearer in the free fall.’ I agree totally.
#294JH Snowfish » January 29th, 2009 at 12:59 pm:
Hey Girl: I think sometimes in life we have to travel our own solo road trip internally as well as the wonderful adventures that you post. I know without actually travelling, I feel that I have been on a solo road trip sans the serenity of the road. Sometimes life takes us on those journeys as you well know. Self discovery is the ticket, but a world awaits us ahead–maybe just over the horizon?
#295Zoe » January 29th, 2009 at 9:20 pm:
No degrees required for teaching English in Vietnam, Thailand, or Laos…
#296Linda » January 30th, 2009 at 3:59 am:
Wonderful article and so true! Years ago I took my first and only solo trip. I went to Europe for three weeks with only a backpack and a Eurail Pass. I came face to face with myself, overcame many fears and had a blast. The ability to do whatever the heck I wanted at any moment was both frightening and amazingly liberating. I think it is well past time for me to take another solo trip…or ten!
#297Enjoying Travel With Kids » January 30th, 2009 at 8:01 am:
Fabulous article. Couldn’t agree more that travelling with kids is a terrific thing to do. When I was little, my parents took us on a month’s trip around Australia. We were out of school for that time, but we learnt SO much about our country. Now that I have my own family, we take our kids with us on all our holidays, and I couldn’t imagine it any other way. They are such sponges for knowledge, and travelling is a great way to soak it all up. And one of the best things you can do to foster great relationships is to create shared memories together. “Do you remember when…?”
#298Tammie » January 30th, 2009 at 10:56 am:
JH Snowfish, your point is exactly why I began the solo road trip website. While it’s taken off in a literal direction, the initial vision was something less literal. Eventually, I hope to take it more in the direction with which you identify. We do each walk a solo journey, regardless the number of people we manage to connect ourselves to along the way. Life is a solo road trip. And that fact seems to be most appreciated by those who recognize it, aren’t afraid of it, and embrace it. I’m hopeful the serenity that’s absent in your current solo journey, is indeed just over your horizon.
#299Pops » January 30th, 2009 at 11:56 am:
Goldfish, cereal, dog, no dog… SRT’s are just one of those times when no one but you and fate sets the agenda. BTW, my personal SRT is topped off with Corn Nuts and a carton of milk. (Whole milk, if my consience will let me). What I like about thes tips are the fact that there as deep and as simple as the Boy Scout motto “Be Prepared”. So whether your SRT is in your mind (I often do that), 5 hours, 5 days, or 5 months long, the point is to always be ready to set your “own” compass to discover yourself as you discover new places and things. Well done.
#300JH Snowfish » January 30th, 2009 at 1:33 pm:
I believe and have deep faith that the serenity is just over the horizon and my next SRT begins. Hopefully, it’s not the bug on the windshield. Oh Wait-I’ve already been the bug on the windshield. You know me too well.
#301Kerrin » January 30th, 2009 at 9:07 pm:
Oh, DEFINITELY haggle! It’s part of the experience, immersing yourself in that culture, doing as the locals do… Not to mention paying the prices locals pay – or at least close to them. The vendors expect you to haggle! And don’t worry, right off the bat, you’ll know if they don’t! Ask other locals about typical prices before you go to a market, so you know what’s “fair.” And depending on what the vendor then offers you, you know how much haggling is needed. You are not trying to cheat anyone out of well earned money, you are just trying to continue the commercial exchange at the right level.
And most of all, have fun. For me, haggling in Istanbul, Botswana, the Peloponnese, Brazil, even NYC… and tons of other spots around the world, led to interesting conversations, rich interactions and a more lively experience overall. I mean, who has been to Morocco and was not invited inside for a cup of sweet mint tea. “Come in, my friend, nothing to sell you, just a cup of tea with me, we talk, my friend…!”
Great topic – and really excellent replies from all bloggers, on both sides. Great comments too…
#302Lisa » January 31st, 2009 at 4:00 am:
Great points for all…and JJ, I recognize that these trips are just as you spoke, SRT’s and just do it! I also encourage that we need to not forget about the good beef jerkey to pack or the great (and remember when) SlimJims? Anyhow, so I get on this SRT and the truck just takes me to where it should point…How the heck do I find my way home??? Tammie, do you suggest a great Atlas for us that can help us find our way home, that is if we want to return, LOL.
#303Pickled Eel » February 1st, 2009 at 9:33 pm:
Just back from a week in Hong Kong where I led a group of teenagers helping out at Crossroads (an excellent charity at http://www.crossroads.org.hk) and spent two days with them in various markets – we stayed away from the shopping centres. They ALL had enormous fun haggling for their trinkets and baubles, taking on the grizzled veterans of haggle central in the Ladies or Night Markets. It was an interesting cultural experience for them with some hilarious conversations and interactions. These are “Westfield shopping centre kids” – they were never going to get into a serious haggle – but 10-20% off here and there made for some lively shopping, and them happy. Let’s now see just how long their haggle specials stay out of the donation bin at home!
#304Tyrone Tyson » February 3rd, 2009 at 8:15 am:
Hello anyone,
I’m a 32yr old man who has lost custody of his son. His mother comes from lots of money and was able to strip me of my life. Now I’m left feeling empty and have the need do something that is fullfilling. I’ve thought long a hard about it and I feel seeing the world and giving myself to help others would be the best thing I could do with my life. If anyone can help or lead me in the right direction in order to make this possible please reply
#305Tammie » February 3rd, 2009 at 8:24 am:
Lisa, I’d purchase an Atlas with the spiral binding. They’re great! Another suggestion is to use a yellow highlighter and mark everywhere you’ve been. It’s fun to look back on. The state of Wyoming is almost solid yellow. Makes me proud!
#306Schnell Abnehmen » February 3rd, 2009 at 10:07 am:
What an incredible story! After seeing Andy travelling perpetually with a 5$ budget a day, I’ve just realized how badly we are ripped off in our daily lives: we couldn’t even live in the same place with 5$!
#307Peter Daams » February 4th, 2009 at 12:02 am:
Wow, what a great bunch of responses! For me, a tourist is simply a subset of travellers. Yes, all tourists ARE in fact travellers. But not all travellers are tourists. Some travellers are business travellers, some are backpackers, some are tourists. Etc, etc.
Traveller = everyone who travels.
Tourist = someone who is predisposed to holidays organised by someone else (ie, the travel agent, a tour company, etc..)
I think what many have in mind when they compare “travellers” to “tourists” is in fact, “independent travellers” vs “tourists”.
And yes, I do believe there is a difference between those two groups. But I don’t subscribe to the notion that tourists don’t enjoy the journey or don’t rough it.
#308Craig » February 4th, 2009 at 12:39 am:
I have to agree with Gary…when you arrive somewhere, you are a tourist no matter how you travel or how long you travel.
#309Eva » February 4th, 2009 at 1:40 am:
Wow! Thanks, Gary, Pam, Lara and the others who so eloquently argued for “There’s no difference at all!”
No offense to the rest of you, but I’ve heard this debate turned into an excuse for judgment and snobbery so many times I’ve become convinced there’s nothing more to it. It’s very rare that I get through a discussion of it without feeling like all of my family members and friends (none of whom fall into most folks’ definition of “traveler”) have just been thoroughly insulted and put down. I always have to put a stranglehold on my urge to judge everyone who buys into it, in return.
Sigh. Rant over.
ps: For what it’s worth, this was one of the least judge-y and most thoughtful treatments of it I’ve read. But still, I think the discussion needs to die. It’s even more tired than charming villages nestled in snow-capped mountains, y’know?
#310Francoise » February 4th, 2009 at 3:34 am:
Great collection of ideas on the eternal tourist/traveler debate!
Tourist, traveler, visitor, explorer, they’re all only labels with definitions that can interpreted many different ways which all intersect at some point.
It’s easy to conjure images of the tourist as being herded like sheep and not taking an active part in shaping their travel experience. It might not be how I would like to experience my journey, but it’s just that, a choice.
Many travelers “tourist” at some point on their journey. Even the most down-and-out backpacker has gazed at some famous monument or building if only from a distance or casually hung at the back of a tour group to catch what the guide was saying.
#311James Love » February 4th, 2009 at 9:58 am:
Don’t forget to trade stuff that you don’t need anymore. Both with travelers or locals.
If you don’t need that swimsuit for those Asian beaches then trade it for someone’s light jacket. Yes, lots of people don’t care if a bathingsuit was worn by someone else. Just wash it first. LOL.
#312The London Spy » February 4th, 2009 at 10:22 pm:
Gotta love the toilet paper analogy!
So true + so simple lol
#313Alex Berger » February 5th, 2009 at 5:09 am:
To me it’s a huge tossup and in part heavily dependent on the destination.
There are without question certain behaviors that both groups share and that cross germinate between the two. I know a lot of people that do the 1-2 week thing and travel to a destination with the sole intention of sitting on a beach doing nothing. They are there to escape as much as they are there to actually experience the destination. Most of these people would be just as happy with their own home, food and bed transposed into the beach side hotel. To me, these are tourists.
I don’t think that visiting a museum or major locations necessarily makes travelers tourists or vice versa. Visiting major cultural sites is all part of the experience. It’s what you do with the rest of your time. The traveler typically seeks out the culture, unusual experiences and non-whitewashed elements of their destination. They are there to push their understanding of the local environment and people while developing their own experience. The tourist typically is there to fulfill a pre-conceived expectation and gets pleasure out of the stereotypical experience – in fact that’s not only what they expect it’s what they want. We all had to spend time as tourists before we were comfortable enough to begin moving towards a more traveler oriented frame of mind.
I love what one of the others said about the different ways people would use $500. Though I would add that it’s not so much about the financial side of it, but the ideology behind how that money is put to use. Beyond that, let’s face it – to make the money last you’ve gotta be willing to experience something vastly different than what you may be familiar with back home. For some people avoiding a dirty shower or meal cooked by a street vendor. For the rest of us – that’s the very fiber of the adventure.
#314Marika Ujvari » February 5th, 2009 at 6:15 am:
I love your writings and your gorgeous pictures!!! I love to bake, and since I’m from Europe I make mainly European pastries. I also fell in love with the Kigelhopfs in Alsace. They are the best. I bought a cookbook there and following the recipe it turned out excellent. It takes a little elbow grease, but it is well worthed.
Marika in Windsor, Colorado
P.S. I also love to travel!!!
#315Jonathan’s site (of rainbows) » A rethink of tourism » February 5th, 2009 at 10:08 am:
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#316lara dunston » February 5th, 2009 at 1:23 pm:
I’ve got to agree with Eva on all aspects!
What great responses (yes, yes, I know mine’s among them) but lots of thoughtful and thought-provoking stuff here!
#317Audrey » February 6th, 2009 at 3:21 am:
Great article, Julie!
We definitely fall into the latter category of traveler (we’ll figure it out as we go along), but the one thing we are actively planning in advance for this next segment in our journey is intensive language courses (Guatemala). I don’t want to spend a year or more traveling through Central and South America if I can’t chat with the taxi driver about politics or talk with woman selling fruit at the market about her family.
I love that you include being a better ambassador as one of the reasons to learn a local language. I couldn’t get over how curious people were in the Caucasus and Central Asia about America – in many places we were the first “real” Americans they had ever seen. They wanted to know if what they saw about America on TV was really true (they have a high distrust for their own governments and news). If I hadn’t been able to speak basic Russian, I would have missed out on this great opportunity to share my own country. As I answered their questions about America, I was able to ask how things were in their country regarding these same issues. Although, at times when the entire market was gathered around to talk with us it became a bit intense!
#318Gennaro » February 6th, 2009 at 5:59 am:
It’s semantics. Everyone has the right to arrive at the destination as they wish. Be it chicken bus, air-conditioned private car, or helicopter. Traveler or tourist has the ability to have a authentic experience either way. Either can meet and socialize with locals. Perhaps, it will be different one’s, but it’s still an exploration outside their normal routine at home. Isn’t that the point of travel?
I would say, however, that there is a difference between a traveler/tourist and a resortist. If we define resortist as one who goes to a secluded resort of another country and never leaves its grounds. Even then, you can argue that they’ll be meeting locals (staff) and other foreigners (guests). Again, an experience only had by leaving home to travel.
#319previously.bitten » February 6th, 2009 at 9:49 am:
While there is not always the time to learn a language, just taking a moment to learn a few key phrases is key. Before I headed to Japan for the first time, I spent a number of hours learning basic sentence patterns, a handful of words, and some introductory grammar.
Not only does this make it easier to convey your ideas – you also know when the people on the train are talking about you!
#320Carrie » February 6th, 2009 at 4:04 pm:
I’m with Gary on this one. Well said! The beauty about travel is how it is experienced. It’s not up to us to label those experiences by calling someone a tourist or a traveler. Being either one is better than sitting at home in your backyard dreaming about how you wished you had the time to travel.
#321lara dunston » February 6th, 2009 at 5:22 pm:
Great points! Agree that learning a language is the best prep you can ever do, but like previously.bitten I think the minimum prep should be a few essential phrases, including greetings, taxi directions, and how to order a meal – for starters.
#322Gary Arndt » February 6th, 2009 at 8:24 pm:
This all falls apart if you are visiting more than one place where more than one language is spoken.
Learning a language is certainly a good thing if you are going to spend a long time in a place with one language, it is hard to do if you are going to say SE Asia, where you would have to learn Thai, Khmer, Vietnamese, Lao, Bahasa Malaysian, and other smaller dialects.
I’ve found locals usually more interested in practicing their English with me than trying to each me their language. I’ve had entire English classes swarm around me to practice.
The reality of travel is there are two languages in the world: whatever the locals speak and English. If English isn’t your native language, learning that will do the most good.
Learning “hello”, “thank you”, “please” are fine for anywhere, but the investment you put into a language will depend on the time you will be spending.
Also, not all languages are equal. Most major European language will probably have study guides available. Smaller languages will be impossible to learn before you get there (I haven’t seen many books on learning Fijian)
#323Michael Esposito » February 7th, 2009 at 8:07 pm:
There are a lot of great comments and insights here!
In my 30 years of traveling, I have been every category imaginable: foreign student, traveler, tourist, independent researcher, business traveler, worker (I taught for a year at a private school in Bogotá, Colombia), family member (my wife is Colombian and so when I stay with her family it seems to be a different category altogether), and crime victim (I was once held up at knifepoint in the Caribbean). The only thing I haven’t been, thank goodness, is prisoner, though I once was almost taken to jail by the military police for not having my passport with me.
I can’t, in good conscience, criticize the person that falls into the category of “tourist,” though I do dislike seeing people, especially my fellow Americans, behave badly when they travel overseas. I must confess that I do get frustrated when, after 30 years of trying to hone my Spanish, I sometimes get lumped in the same category as someone who has arrived for the first time and knows no Spanish at all. I have to remind myself that first of all, I have been extremely fortunate to be able to travel often, and second, the person who judges me by appearance doesn’t know me, and often there isn’t time to enter into a discussion (and besides, I shouldn’t try too hard to honk my own horn).
#324crissy » February 8th, 2009 at 4:21 am:
Learning local language is hard but worth the effort. Short time travelers could learn the basics while those staying long can appreciate the importance of knowing it in dealing with the locals.
#325Huckleberry » February 8th, 2009 at 4:53 am:
Bravo! I couldn’t have said it better myself. Helpful too. I never knew that there were free language websites out there.
happy travels – Huck
#326bridget » February 8th, 2009 at 8:25 am:
just about to go to thailand with 3 kids under 5 – have been advised to take a few small presents eg, colouring pad and pencils, wrapped up to give to the kids when they start getting restless or bored. a pillow and a window seat are always a good option as are a small wheelie bag that they can pull along with their own toys and snacks inside. A ds or tune player can also be a good source of entertainment. if i learn anymore tips i will report back!!
#327Bjørn » February 8th, 2009 at 8:57 am:
The creature in the photo is not a chameleon, it’s an iguana.
Oh, and I subscribe to the notion that there isn’t really any definable difference between being a tourist and a traveler. Sometimes I go away for 2-3 months, other times it’s just for a long weekend. Sometimes I stay in hostels, other times in a tent or in nice hotels. I’ll always be a traveling tourist in the eyes of those who live wherever I go. Also, in their eyes I can be a nice, thoughtful tourist, or I can be an obnoxious stranger. I try to be more of the first.
#328Greg Wesson » February 8th, 2009 at 12:16 pm:
I must admit that my comment in the article was a little cynical… all right, a lot cynical. It is easy, as an independent traveller who has been at if for a while, to dismiss anyone who thinks that independent travel is special as being arrogant. After all, the more we travel the more we realize that we are just travellers, and we can never really fit in.
However, I read this article and was reminded that there is a different view that the independent traveller takes that separates them from the package tourist. I still don’t think we should look down on the package tourist, for if that is what someone wants from their week off, who are we to say otherwise. But I do think that perhaps I was too quick to dismiss any difference between the package tourist and the independent traveller. As the article points out, there is something to be said for the interaction between you (the traveller) and the locals that the tourist doesn’t get.
http://almostfearless.com/2009/02/07/watching-someone-discover-travel/
Maybe there is more of a difference between tourist and travellers than I originally allowed.
Greg
#329Julie » February 9th, 2009 at 2:56 am:
Thanks for your feedback, everyone.
Clearly, when you’re traveling to many countries, you won’t be able to learn all the languages. But what I’m advocating (albeit subtly) here is not just learning other languages, but taking a slower, more engaged approach to travel rather than just rushing from one place to another.
#330Eric » February 9th, 2009 at 8:27 am:
Bjørn, well spotted:) Changed that.
#331Ant » February 9th, 2009 at 11:27 am:
Awesome! A well deserved entry into the TravelBlogs hall of fame. [F]oxymoron’s writing is a real treat, and his commenteers deserve a mention too but take some time to delve back into his archives to get a fantastic insight into Asia, especially India.
#332Thomas » February 10th, 2009 at 8:01 am:
Great post! I can certainly relate to your Costa Rica experience. As a Spanish speaker I was surprised by the differences between my own Spanish and the local language in rural (and urban) parts of Costa Rica. During my two years in Costa Rica I wrote a dictionary of Costa Rican Spanish terms and still blog about Costa Rican language and culture (almost) on a daily basis.
My experience also inspired me to create CityDictionary.com, which captures local language in the US.
Needless to say, I am on board with your argument. Thanks for the great post. I particularly like your latest comment, which is spot-on. You’ll never be able to learn all languages, but that shouldn’t prevent you from trying to make connections between how people communicate and the broader culture. While no one is equipped to make those connections after a few days of travel, it can be enriching to seek out proper sources beforehand and try to make the most of your adventures.
#333Steven Roll » February 10th, 2009 at 1:33 pm:
Agreed. I studied Spanish like crazy before my trip to Costa Rica only to find that most people in Costa Rica speak English. But at one point the owner of the B&B we stayed at sent us to this restaurant that was very far outside of the city. Wherever we were, no one spoke English. I’m happy to say that it was my Spanish (as poor as it may be) got us back home.
#334RennyBA » February 10th, 2009 at 8:17 pm:
Indeed a very readable and very true post. I really liked the words: travelling is about ‘learn about yourself and about the world‘ and then you have to act a bit humble and with respect to others, their culture, traditions and habits.
#335Lunarts » February 11th, 2009 at 12:32 am:
I understand this article very well, I have been in South America (and BA) several times. I was always impressed how the Argentines (and others) manage to survive and be friendly at the same time. AND Buenos Aires is a magic place to be.
#336Purl Interrupted » February 11th, 2009 at 1:13 am:
Sounds like a fabulous idea. Just joined Twitter myself. Sadly I don’t own a sofa for him to kip on.
#337Michael Esposito » February 11th, 2009 at 7:43 pm:
I also understand this article very well. I made an attempt to live in Colombia 20 years ago with my wife, who is from Bogotá, and young daughter. I quickly realized how difficult it was, even with my wife’s family as a huge support network. Since we made the hard decision to return to the US (we managed to stay there for a year), her family, especially her mother, has been very dependent on the remittances that we and other family members can send. What seems to be a little from our end goes a long way there.
#338Harry » February 11th, 2009 at 11:47 pm:
I have generally been pretty lazy in the past. I am out in the Philippines at the moment and making an effort to learn Tagalog. It really does make a difference and leads to a lot of laughs – and I think a little respect. Only problem is that as soon as I get out of Manila into the provinces, every province speaks a different language!
#339Calfran » February 12th, 2009 at 11:13 am:
For me “travelers” look at tourists the way PETA looks at meat-eaters. With a healthy dose of contempt. And the locals of the countries visited don’t care about the holistic or materialistic reasons one visits. If being a “traveler” means I adopt a contemptuous attitude towards tourists who are usually middle class hardworking folks back home and don’t have a lot of time or cash to stay for months at a time, then sorry I won’t be part of your group.
When Rick Steves says “assume you will return” he must be also assuming that we have more cash, more time, no kids to support, no mortgage, no saving for retirement, no harsh realities of life etc. And “travelers” look down on these people for getting the package deal? Get real folks…
#340Bartolino » February 14th, 2009 at 9:16 am:
I’m currently in San Miguel de Allande and I can attest that there is not much of a scene here at all. There’s not much cruising or eyeballing going on either. I went to the only “gay disco” last night (I admit it was a Thursday) and it was pretty dead…about 6 people. a big guy at the bar, who was trying to act straight, sid it got hopping on Friday’s & saturdays..but I don’t expect much.
#341C.Sykes » February 14th, 2009 at 1:03 pm:
I think a lot depends on how you haggle. I would do the same thing I do if I’m trying to get a lower price on a garage sale item here in the U.S.
First, don’t insult the seller or the item. “That much for this junk?” If it’s junk, or bad food, or not worthy, why do you want it? Instead, look a bit hesitant, explain that the food looks delicious but you have a lot of other groceries to buy and see if the vendor offers you a lower price. If they do, thank them. If it’s an item you’re buying, tell the seller that it’s almost exactly what you want and you’re tempted….would they accept a little less?
If they say, yes, thank them and buy the product.
Cheaper prices, no insulting the seller or vendor, no rudeness.
#342Michael Esposito » February 14th, 2009 at 4:46 pm:
I looked through your blog and concluded that the itineraries you’ve had are fascinating. Then I look at myself and think: how do I, being married and with two college-age kids, even remotely get close to doing something like what you’ve done? The conclusion: do it in little chunks and seize every opportunity to do so! That’s what I’ve tried to do over the past 30 years. Also, live viscerally through your friends’ experiences when you can’t do it yourself. I have a former colleague who, as we speak, is trekking through Southeast Asia and sharing his photos.
#343Nichola Cacaburas » Blog Archive » Of Travellers and Tourists » February 15th, 2009 at 1:48 pm:
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#344soultravelers3 » February 16th, 2009 at 8:05 am:
I agree with you wholeheartedly Julie! It is true one can not learn every language, but when you know a language well, it makes a TOTALLY different experience than when you do not know the language.
Even in many parts of Europe, we fine MANY places where locals speak NO ENGLISH. Often the people who do speak English are people connected with the tourism or housing industry, so it keeps one from connecting to the real local culture.
I so agree with you too about going slower and immersing deeper and language is a part of that and it WILL get better just by doing that.
We experience this very clearly, because we see how much deeper we can connect with the authentic native culture in Spain ( where we speak the language) and say France or Germany where we do not.
Even Italy and Portugal are easier for us and we can connect more deeply, because our Spanish helps.
The better you know the language, the better you can know the culture and local people. We see that clearly too because my Spanish is the weakest, I can see how I am left out, compared to my daughter and husband.
Tim Ferriss has some cool ideas on how to learn a language quickly and I know people here who have become fluent in Spanish in 5 months.
#345Stuart at Travelfish » February 16th, 2009 at 3:21 pm:
I thought this was a great read until I got up to the bit telling the reader that:
“We all have a responsibility to be representatives of the countries where we were born.”
Really? Why?
#346the candy trail ... » February 16th, 2009 at 11:33 pm:
Hi
Greetings from Korea … I find $5 way too very lean a budget, I find work along the way so life is fun on the road. I’ve been traveling, wandering since 1988, since age 21 – originally from New Zealand but since been to Iraq to Antarctica to Sierra Leone, to about 100 countries beyond. I am an extreme global nomad …
Regards – MRP AKA thecandytrail.com
#347Beijinger » February 17th, 2009 at 6:55 pm:
As for me, I could not tell the difference between the travellers and tourists. So this post is a good defination for me as well as other people who mix the concept.Nice post!
#348Beijinger » February 17th, 2009 at 7:16 pm:
It is a good point,learning a local langauge is a easy way to improve the mutual understanding with local people when you are traveling and get better experience from the trip.
#349Scottish castles » February 18th, 2009 at 1:50 am:
I don’t imagine my trips without a lap top. It doesn’t matter where I am, it is possible to find a point of wi-fi access or ust connect via adsl and co-operate with your contacts and information you need. It makes sense. About internet access tips: Seoul and Pusan (South Korea) – you can have free wi-fi in Lotte Mart department store
#350Craig | travelvice.com » February 18th, 2009 at 3:58 am:
I’d strongly recommending doing full-disk encryption on laptops and external hard drives carried for travel. There’s practically zero slow down, and if stolen, they may get your machine or disk, but they’ll never get your data.
See: http://travelogue.travelvice.com/united-states/laptop-external-storage-encrypted/
#351previously.bitten » February 18th, 2009 at 5:19 am:
I’ve been thinking long and hard about this, myself. The idea of a little netbook does seem appealing in some cases. Especially since not all hostels have computers, but most do have Wi-Fi. I was so set to not get one, but now I’m thinking again.
#352wandermom » February 18th, 2009 at 10:08 am:
Great article!
Personally, I’ve got a Vivenne Tam HP netbook on my xmas wishlist for next year. I’ve traveled enough with a full-size laptop (for work) to know that I don’t really need all that weight & functionality. But, I can’t imagine traveling without something to write on, upload photos to, etc etc.
#353BunnygotBlog » February 18th, 2009 at 2:25 pm:
Hello,
I think there is a problem with most of the salesmen abroad.They don’t like to wait on you and if you are a tourist, the ruder they are.
Cheers
#354Tim » February 18th, 2009 at 4:09 pm:
I travel with one when I have to on assignment as a writer, but not when I am traveling for pleasure. It’s an isolation device and an umbilical cord to home. Almost anything you can do with a laptop you can do when you really need to at an internet cafe or through the services of another human. They key phrase is “need to.” The non-working travelers I see lugging a laptop are the ones most likely to be holed up in their room and are the least likely to be interacting with other people, reading a book, or whiling away the hours playing backgammon instead of watching DVDs they could be sitting at home on the sofa watching like they do each week when working. Travelers found places to stay just fine in the pre-Internet days and unless you are going to Europe in the summer, you can do it just as well now without ever logging on.
#355Donna Hull » February 19th, 2009 at 1:00 am:
I can’t imagine traveling without my laptop. It’s invaluable for downloading/backing up photos while on the road.
#356fetzig! » February 19th, 2009 at 3:27 am:
additional reasons why you shouldn’t bring your laptop:
4. You can blog.
5. You can keep up with friends and family by email.
6. You can call home for free (or very cheap) with Skype.
7. You can work.
8. It’s an entertainment alternative. (no alternative at all. sitting in front of the notebook instead of actually being somewhere you never where before.)
9. You can store your trip photos. (and wait when you get home and try to review them when your notebook is broken/stolen and you have nothing on your sd card(s))
Who says these are only pros. For me they are pretty much contra points.
10. You think about something you (maybe) shouldn’t/don’t want while travelling (”I need a power adapter, man!”)
#357Rob » February 19th, 2009 at 3:42 am:
If my trip is less than 2 weeks in duration, the laptop stays home. A Moleskine or two works just fine.
#358Lisa » February 19th, 2009 at 3:55 am:
Thank God for Google ‘cos it’s easier to find Artis now. I live in Australia and we’ve been friends since he came here in 1988 to perform in the Expo World Fair in our city. We sometimes lose touch but always manage to find each other again. Last time I heard from Artis was 4 July last year. Good to see he’s survived until October 9.
I’ve got his email and have sent him an e-card but I also did this post thinking he might find it and be surprised. Artis I wish for your liver to be cleansed and your brain to be regenerated with healing, soothing, magical elixir. I’ll dedicate tonights meditation to it.
#359Dean » February 20th, 2009 at 2:56 am:
I think if you’re travelling for a long period of time, a laptop is a must but personally, if I was only going away for a few weeks I really wouldn’t want the headache of worrying about keeping my laptop safe when I wasn’t using it.
#360previously.bitten » February 20th, 2009 at 10:03 am:
thanks for the tips. I’ve been thinking about getting a netbook for a while. i think this is swaying me.
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#362Dave » February 22nd, 2009 at 11:25 pm:
There no doubt a laptop or net book is a huge benefit, especially for longterm travel and security However there are times when it’s not practical to use it, or something happens to it.
The above can help out if something like that is the situation. It happened to me, so I had to learn along the way
#363Lara » February 23rd, 2009 at 12:31 am:
One way of making travel blogging easier is to use a simple travel diary tool such as http://www.mapness.net – a tool like that makes blogging your journeys much less work.
#364Melanie Waldman » February 24th, 2009 at 11:51 am:
Hi, Lindsie! Unlike you two fancy flashpackers, I haven’t yet blogged from the road — I download, type up, and share when I get home.
I’m all about my iPhone and little writing pads on trips; the iPhone for checking Facebook, Google Maps and schedules, and the pads to throw in my purse and take everywhere for surreptitious jotting. My iPhone has a Notes feature that looks just like a digital yellow pad, but honestly? I like to actually write, with a mechanical pencil, while I’m in the midst of brand new experiences.
But between you and me, I hope to someday have a laptop/travel lifestyle. It will force me to leave that extra pair of shoes at home!
#365Craig | travelvice.com » February 24th, 2009 at 8:52 pm:
Again, a tip of the hat goes to Eric for approaching me on this. Thanks!
For those interested, I’ve written up yearly a review/summary every December. Most recently, it covered 2008: Three Years of Travel. Previously: Year Two, Year One.
Want a quick visual snapshot of where I’ve been these past 3+ years? Take a peek here.
These posts have some pretty pictures to look at: The Textures of Eastern Europe, High Dynamic Range Travel Photography.
The travelogue has heaps and heaps of stories after such a prolonged period of time. Unfortunately, I’m still struggling to get current with entries, as over half a year of nonstop CouchSurfing (much of it with Tatiana and months-old baby Aidric in tow) has stretched my time very thin. I’m working such things as quickly as I can.
#366Audrey » February 25th, 2009 at 3:39 am:
Thanks for sharing your story, Craig! I think it’s wonderful and inspirational that you are able to continue with a young child.
Although we do have supportive family and friends, I completely relate to “the ‘long vacations are what retirement’s for’ mindsets” and the idea that we are throwing away our “potential” by leaving our stable and comfortable jobs/lifestyles. Life is short, so everyone needs to do what keeps them engaged and fulfilled.
Good luck and enjoy the rest of your days abroad!
#367Beth Whitman » February 25th, 2009 at 3:42 am:
People in high-paying jobs are usually bogged down with payments of all sorts and can’t imagine walking away from it. In fact, they CAN’T. (Or, think they can’t.) Resistance to long-term travel often comes from these folks because they got the golden handcuffs keeping them chained to their desks.
I think that there IS a culture of acceptance in the U.S., you just have to find it. I’ve managed to surround myself over the years with people who totally “get” the fact that I need to travel for weeks, a month or a year at a time. Sure, sometimes they are concerned about my safety, but all in all, they have been very supportive.
Kudos, Craig, for having the guts to take off on such a journey.
#368Craig | travelvice.com » February 25th, 2009 at 5:00 am:
Thanks Audrey & Beth! “Golden handcuffs” is right!
For those interested, here are two travelogue entries on what I’m hauling around these days:
What’s Inside My Backpack for Europe, and Beyond
Essential Baby Backpacking Gear
#369Jack » February 25th, 2009 at 9:18 am:
Thanks for sharing the reasons behind your ‘trip’. I follow your writing on Travelvice, but haven’t before dug into the beginning of the posts on there so I don’t know if you’ve written about this before. In any case, it’s inspiring to see the guts to shuck all that stuff and do something more fulfilling.
#370Mark Wiens » February 25th, 2009 at 3:32 pm:
I migrate around the world, eating, and hanging out. Up until now I have neglected to take a laptop so I could have the least amount of responsibility.
However, I recently decided it would be a good idea to begin blogging, and sharing photos and experiences with friends and others. I’m also trying to make a little online money so I can remain traveling for years at a time, and not have to get a 9-5 job.
As much as I dislike the responsibility, my laptop has become a necessity.
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#372Craig | travelvice.com » February 25th, 2009 at 11:57 pm:
Thanks Jack
You know, there’s another fun interview on TravelBlogs (from about a year ago) that speaks a little more things…
The Perpetual Wanderer: Interview with Craig Heimburger
#373previously.bitten » February 27th, 2009 at 3:58 am:
My favourite part (I know – there’s so much depth here, that I shouldn’t stay so shallow) is how you’ve summed up Travel Boards in three small questions!
#374Jimmy Ku » February 27th, 2009 at 7:00 am:
You make some excellent points there. But, you can do most of those things using your mobile phone as well. So, a laptop may not be necessary. I have an iPhone and I can do most of what the laptop can with less bulk.
1. You can blog – I can blog from my iphone and I can even use travel microblog from GoPlanit to write about my trip while I’m still on it so I don’t forget. Here’s my latest trip to Hawaii. I blogged the whole time – http://www.goplanit.com/l/0r
2. Travel planning is easier – I can do a search for nearby things to see, restaurants to try, or even hotels using the mobile application – http://iphone.goplanit.com/ or http://m.goplanit.com/
3. Keep up with friends/family via email – Ditto. Email at my fingertips.
5. Store trip photos – Laptops do this better, but you can also take photos and send them in to your trip journal directly using a mobile phone with a built-in camera. This saves you the step of having to upload pictures.
6. Keep trip journal easier – Send your journal entries directly into the trip journal using microblogging. You can also rate/review things from your mobile phone. My trip to the Grand Canyon – http://www.goplanit.com/l/0h
8. It’s entertaining: The app store + games all at your fingertips.
The only things I can’t do are:
4. Call home for free with Skype: Nope, can’t do that… yet.
7. Information storage: Small amounts of info can fit on your phone, but the laptop is better.
9. Work: Do you really think this is a good thing though?
#375swertres hearing » February 27th, 2009 at 9:12 pm:
WOw, that was very informative… thanks… I enjoyed reading it…
Ow did you eat just 1 cricket? I heard it’s pretty tasty. Haha!
#376soultravelers3 » February 27th, 2009 at 11:38 pm:
A laptop is absolutely a necessity for a long term traveler. We are into our 3rd year of an open ended world tour as a family and use our 3laptops all the time.
We travel mainly overland ( 4 continents/29 countries so far on ths trip) and believe in slow, green, authentic travel, thus we spend much of our time unplugged and in nature.
Nevertheless, if you are going to be living while traveling ( as those into extended travel MUST do) laptops keep you connected and allows you to collaborate with others around the world.
We made our first video on our laptops which has had almost a million views! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wn9rDTZj-m4
My child even does her piano lessons with her teacher on another continent via webcam free Skype calls ( not to mention sharing her tooth fairy cash in various currencies with grandparents as she loses her babyteeth around the world!).And John Hopkins Univ. CTY online classes.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Ar90wOnWnM
I recently wrote a post about Twitter and Travel 2.0 because the nature of travel is changing like so many things and if used wisely, a laptop can add so much to a journey ( just as moleskins can too).
http://www.soultravelers3.com/2009/02/twitter-travel-20.html
We travel VERY light with just a small daypack each even for months at a time in 4 seasons of weather, but we do always have at least one laptop with us ( along with homeschool supplies)….even when we went deep into the Sahara!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IrrAFDt9W_U
We don’t own an iphone, ipod or wii, but our laptops help keep us connected to the world while we travel the world and also allows us to take thousands of disadvantage school kids with us virtually!
#377manjit,Rishikesh-IIndia » February 28th, 2009 at 11:43 pm:
Yes you can do so as a tourist in India.Go to any tourist destination,there are Sarais/Dharamshalas(resting places),where u can get a (single)bed in a dormn.for US$0.1-0.8 per night.Such facility may be availed in youth hostels,kisan bhavans,govt run holiday-homes(pwd/forest/pub health/festival-commitees).
However, Temples/Gurudwaras offer it free of cost,besides free food.It is considersed auspicious to spend a night or two here by most indians.Here u can enjoy a 100% security + pious ppls company.
To get cheap food, local foods are best.You provide raw-mat.(rice-lentils-vegetables) to any family,half an hour before u want to dine & get it cooked & served with honour.(This mode is more hygenic than most way-side eateries).
You just have to locate a religiuos flag in India,when u r in a need of shelter/food,I am sure you will get it free,if you can spare your western(hippy) way of life for a night.(drugs/whisky/loud-music/dance/sex).
#378Lindsie » March 1st, 2009 at 4:18 am:
Wow – you are amazingly inspiring to have been traveling/living abroad for so long. Especially non-stop couchsurfing for 6 months with a baby! My husband and I were told we were going to end up in the poor house when we broke the news to his grandma that we had quit our corporate jobs to travel for a year but most people just said, “I always wanted/wished I had/could do that.” I remember all the days (years!) I was sitting at my desk and dreaming about the something more…our year abroad has been the most amazing experience and as I sit in a hotel in Frankfurt, Germany on our very last night in Europe at the end of our one year adventure – I’m not freaking out about returning home. Because I’m going home a changed person, with a much smaller bank account but rich with experience. Jobless, homeless and pregnant – we are ready for a new adventure to begin! Good luck with the rest of your journey, wherever it may take you.
#379Tammie Dooley » March 2nd, 2009 at 4:59 am:
Greg, We all need that little push sometimes! Without it’d we’d stall in our own ruts. And that thing about saying something out-loud? It’s exactly what I had to finally do to push me to climb Grand Teton this fall. I had to say it out-loud in a very big way (made the committment through my blog site LOL) in order to push myself over that tiny bump I kept running into. Way to go on the 3 month sabbatical and it’s so exciting that you’ve discovered how much of the world really wants to do something like that, and won’t, and how much they admire someone who does. Great article! — Tammie
#380Talen » March 2nd, 2009 at 6:42 pm:
I kept telling myself I would go to SE Asia one day and kept playing with the idea and never doing it because it was never the right time or I wasn’t sure I should go alone. Finally in 2006 I had massive amounts of vacation stored up and I finally started telling people I was doing it…and I did.
I think as long as I kept it to myself I could chicken out without anyone knowing but as soon as I put it out there it became real and the next thing I knew I was on a plane to Thailand.
#381Ed Whiting » March 2nd, 2009 at 6:44 pm:
The difference is I believe purely in the mind of the person and how they see themselves in the travel environment they are in.
There are people who’s way of life involves permanent nomadic travel and are just following their ancestors – I bet they don’t worry about whether they are seen as travelers or tourists, probably neither.
Then you get the 20 something person, not long out of collage on their world travels who think themselves as travelers and would be horrified to be thought as a tourist. Some may just see them as student tourists, especially the backpacking hostels
There is nothing better than seeing someone arriving back from travels from a hot and distant land and days after arriving back in their home country in the depth of winter still wearing the bandanna and khaki shorts still saying they are travelers.
The label of ‘tourists’ tends to be label more given by others.
#382Greg Wesson » March 3rd, 2009 at 1:05 am:
Good luck with your climb, Tammie. I’ve given up on altitudes – after altitude sickness in both Bolivia and on Kilimanjaro, I have decided that altitudes don’t agree with me.
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#384dijo » March 3rd, 2009 at 9:18 am:
its inspiring for sure…but what do we do when the money runs out???
living abroad doesnt excite me soo much…but travelling wild definitely does…
maybe after i earn enuf i have to go on an year long travel…u definitely are inspirational!!!
#385Vivian » March 3rd, 2009 at 2:38 pm:
As a devout Home Body, the idea of travel seemed a huge burdensome task. How would I experience swimming the beaches of the world with that attitude? Then I found a home based business that incorporated travel and inspiration. The “old shoe” syndrome can be comfortable, but personal growth comes from getting out of the familiar to an unknown zone.
What success story doesn’t have a more eye opening history of the road to the top of the hill- that road to success? One of the surprising rewards of testing the uncharted waters is the discovery that loved ones support your passion, because it takes a person of courage to step out of mediocrity. My next swim- Gulf coast of Mexico.
#386Tammie Dooley » March 4th, 2009 at 5:15 am:
Reading your story was like sitting down and enjoying a great meal. Food for the soul it is. Thank you for sharing! — Tammie
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#388Ara Sarafian » March 5th, 2009 at 9:35 am:
I think it all boils down to how you define the words. Essentially, travellers are tour sits, and tourists are travelling. But yes, there is a implicit difference.
In my opinion there the difference is in the motive of travel. I believe people are either “explorers” or “holidayers”.
Whether some they want to admit it or not, they are both travellers AND tourists, but the main objective of the holidayers is to have a relaxing trip – a voyage where what they see or what they do is not important, as long as they return to their base with their batteries recharged.
Explorers, on the other hand tend, to search for physical, chemical or emotional experiences which test, challenge, sensitise and overwhelm them. Relaxation may play a part on their journey, but it is certainly not the objective.
One is not better than the other. Nobody has a right to judge. They are just different. Some people like apples, other people like oranges. It comes down to taste.
People who are of one “category” may have no desire experience the other side. And that’s okay – as long as they don’t judge people who experience things in a different way.
I believe that unless you have experienced both methods of travel then you have no real grounds on which to comment. But those who have experienced both, understand there is a difference between the two and often – not always – have made a choice to what suits them better. This doesn’t mean the other option is worse, but just that it’s not right for them – and in no way less rewarding or enriching for the soul of the tourist.
We all see life through different eyes. If we can find what makes us happy – if we can find a piece which fits the jigsaw of our lives and makes it happy – then it doesn’t matter what anybody thinks. The labels do not matter.
We are all just people experiencing life in our own, beautiful ways. All of which are good.
Much peace, love and light to you all.
#389Rosemary » March 6th, 2009 at 6:23 pm:
Being a Travel Facilitator Tour Director-Interpreter, I am all too familiar with different types of travelers.
You have the ones who travel to forget, to show off, to discover, to live their dream sparked by movies, books etc
My difficult task is to accomodate all these different types!
It helps to speak many languages and be familiar with different cultures, which comes natural to me as I was born in Europe and exposed to many different Cultures in my family.
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#391Amy » March 11th, 2009 at 1:10 am:
You describe the end result of travel better than anyone I’ve encountered. I’m specifically referring to the part that begins with “all travel teaches you to look at the world differently.” Well stated. The previous poster was spot on – food for the soul. – Amy
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#394Lori » March 12th, 2009 at 10:46 pm:
Such a great post! A great topic because I feel like people don’t often want to admit a disappointment for fear of offending someone or appearing ungrateful for their opportunity to travel there.
I loved that Paris was brought up. We have discussed going there several times, but always hold off because we want to experience it well and know it is expensive. I don’t want to be on our usual tight budget when we go there so I want to save more (or make more) before planning that trip.
I would love to see a similar post about ex-pats and when their countries of choice don’t live up to their expectations. I know there have to be some disappointed folks out there, but in everything I read people seem in love with their new country.
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#396mandy mok » March 13th, 2009 at 2:55 am:
Hi Lindsie. Great story. I am always in some sort of internal debate about traveling with my “other right arm”, aka laptop, too. I have opted to set a rule for myself on trips now. If the trip is for less than 10 days, then I bring only my iPhone and leave the laptop at home.
I agree with Jimmy’s post that the iPhone can pretty much suffice with blogging and some web-based surfing. The iPhone also replaces my need to bring along extra reading materials. My new indulgence with the iPhone now is loading up on great ebooks from the app store now that they have new Times bestseller books available for the iPhone (not just Classics). Currently traveling in Shanghai with copy of The Shack and Coraline on my phone, so much more convenient.
#397previously.bitten » March 13th, 2009 at 2:59 am:
It’s true that you can feel let down. But, honestly, I find that’s when you’re not trying hard enough. The only time I’ve ever thought “wow, this is unfortunate” is when I went to a resort in Cuba. The reason for this, of course, is that I was on a resort. A nice little place away from reality – and there was nothing there, save for the wonders of a swimup bar (the best and worst idea ever? Perhaps.) But – after two days of hanging out by the pool, or ocean, or – well that’s all there was to do – I headed outside the compound and tried to see all I could see.
Sure, I could have remained with my expectations shot, but I pushed forward and found something. There’s always something.
There is always a culture, or an event that you don’t understand. There is always something you can learn.
Even in my own city, I can feel let down: but once I’ve put some effort into it, read the Now Magazine detailing local festivals, openings, etc. it all opens up before me.
#398Al Hague » March 13th, 2009 at 6:53 pm:
Having your expectations crushed by bad information or no information is certainly bad but when it happens because someone else made a mess of it its very frustrating. We had similiar issue our first trip to Italy and vowed it would not happen again . When we got home we started doing research on how to travel to Italy worry free and have fun at the same time. We have it down to a science now and love to share our knowledge. Contact us for a free dvd on what we do .
#399Cuckoo » March 14th, 2009 at 2:06 am:
Oh yes, I have been disappointed with my visit as recently as last November and where ? In my own country.
And not with the place but with other related things. I felt cheated and duped when in spite of me knowing the language and being cautious, inquisitive etc, I was promised a luxury berth and what I got was cockroach infested very uncomfortable berth. In fact, many more things. I have described them in my series of posts on my blog.
#400Tammie Dooley » March 14th, 2009 at 3:20 am:
I’m relieved to see there are others that haven’t walked away from a trip with disappointment. Maybe I just needed the assurance I wasn’t a freak! LOL
#401Cristina » March 14th, 2009 at 5:26 am:
In Aug 2007 we visited Budapest; we spent HOURS in the Railway Museum and we loved it. Then the person there tells us that our ticket also comprises the entrance ticket for the Aviation Museum. We were assured it’s just as nice…well, wrong! It was small and not as nice as the Railway Museum…and that smell of burnt oil from the engines…YUCK!
Another disappointment? Bacau, Romania. Hubby went there on a business trip and stayed for a month. Then he was asked to stay for 3 more and managed to get me to go as well. Nice…not so much. Although we are both Romanians we couldn’t understand the dialect; the food was crappy pretty much anywhere except the hotel and there was one single place in town to have fun…the mall! I didn’t even dare to go in the park and jog. *Sigh*
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#403lara dunston » March 14th, 2009 at 4:08 pm:
Another super post, Eric, and what fascinating responses! I certainly relate to Audrey’s experience of the Forbidden City and love Lauren’s attitude.
Lori – Paris doesn’t have to be expensive at all. Like most cities there’s always lots of fabulous free stuff to do you just need to know how/where to find it. Of course with lots of money, Paris is even more wonderful – can stay in a nicer hotel instead of a room where you can’t walk around your bed and and the more expensive restaurants are far better in Paris – but like any city it is possible to do Paris on the cheap. Rent an apartment instead of staying in a hotel, for instance, and eat set menus in simple little neighbourhood bistros and do the ‘baguette, cheese and table wine’ picnic lunch in a pretty park. Don’t let the lack of money put you off. It’s not my most favorite city in the world but it certainly has its delights.
#404Miss Expatria » March 14th, 2009 at 6:30 pm:
Linda’s comment made me smile, because I had the same reaction as she but in reverse – traveled from Paris to London, and found it to be a huge disappointment for the same reasons she found Paris to be the same. And I felt about many of London’s sights as Joey talks about – much significance, but meh to actually see in person. And Lara’s reactions to the pyramids reminds me of when I saw Buckingham Palace – I was like, wait, this is IT?!
It was the only city I’ve ever been disappointed by, because, like most of them say, it was the expectation factor. I had built London up in my head via a lifetime of Dickens and Disney – nothing can live up to that!
#405L USA » March 18th, 2009 at 11:10 pm:
if you are in a web cafe abroad I search with 2try4.com any site displayed in it’s content search is not advertising, even if someone has your IP set to that country!
#406Mark @ TravelWonders » March 19th, 2009 at 10:16 am:
I have rarely been disappointed in visiting places. Sometimes surprised that it is different to my expectation but that isn’t quite the same. My biggest annoyance is making a big effort to visit somewhere to find it unexpectedly closed or covered in scaffolding or off-limits (or heavily fogged in as one writer mentions) for some reason. The rest I can comfortably cope with.
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#408Vanuatu Honeymoons » March 20th, 2009 at 12:45 am:
These photo’s are beautiful thank you for posting them.
#409Karen Bryan » March 20th, 2009 at 5:31 am:
I’ve written a post on this topic and even come up with the term touravller as a hybrid term:
http://www.europealacarte.co.uk/blog/2008/01/01/touraveller-lets-ditch-the-tourist-versus-traveller/
#410Marjie Heier » March 20th, 2009 at 11:19 am:
Single Mom/Family….Progression
There is so much truth to what is said here. The very first trip after my divorce, was to a Continuing Medical Education conference in Chatanooga Tennessee in 1996. With 3 kids. Across the United States in a Ford Explorer. And, I don’t think I can count how many times we had to stop before one or the other of all the less cooperative kids was belted in before the car could start again. And, it wasn’t just once….or twice….or…..
But, it became a way of survival. We rock climbed a bridge, facepainted with natural things (note to self: blueberries are fairly permanent on an 8 year old boys’ face…but then, he seemed to enjoy even THAT!), rode the train, watched movies….What didn’t we do??????
What were we doing? In the words of a Counselor friend….we were creating new memories…..for each of us…. and a new life…..
And, at Christmas, we were off again. Their Dad was no longer in our lives, or even in the region, and rather than sit at home, realizing that we would not see him, or rather, THEY would not see him, or be a part of his life that fateful first Christmas, we traveled again.
And, back then, before TSA, with 3 young kids – 5, 7, and 9, each armed with knitting needles and a huge ball of yarn – back before we could afford, or even think that it was reasonable to have them playing games that much, we marched off to Florida. We spent the last of what money we had that Christmas on peanut butter and jelly; macaroni and cheese; and hot dogs. We didn’t go anywhere but the beach and the heated pool outside our room…but it was just what we needed….new traditions and new memories.
Each Christmas for many years, we did just that. It was so much easier than face the empty living room, with no dad. Some people would say we had no Christmas in the sand, but it was our new tradition, and we loved it.
And, after a failed 2nd marriage, the kids wanted so much to go back this year. We went, and I was so very glad. My oldest graduated college this year, with honors, and didn’t have enough PTO accrued to go with us, (but how could I complain, with that for a reason?)….but the rest of us are here now, as I read this….
And, they created the menu on Facebook, as we tag teamed to each other. And, though its somewhat different now, the menu is hardly different. We searched out the same Ice Cream Shop, which is by now closed, but found a new one, for new memories, and hit the waves to body surf.
I feel so very lucky, as a mom, and as a person, by now, I am their friend, not so much an authority figure. They have the travel bug…Each of them has been to Europe, knows how to be safe, travel inexpensively, knows how to write and looks like one more will graduate next year (2010).
I have taken my first SRT, without knowing thats what I was doing, and can’t wait to take my next. And, you can tell from the jillions of photos on Facebook from Colorado, that I agree 100% with what you said!
You can bet I’ll be reading along!
#411mark jacobson » March 21st, 2009 at 12:12 am:
Dear Nancy,
LOVED your story… We too are the parents of young twin boys (9 years old) and have often thought of doing something like you are doing.
We live in Panama City, Panama… If your travels bring you through there, we´d love to meet you. Your boys can play with our boys…and if desired I can get you a very good deal at a city hotel.
By the way, my wife Jayne was in the Peace Corps in Costa Rica and Belize… and was a trainer for Peace Corps in 1988, 89 in Honduras!(at CHP in Santa Lucia). Two other peace corps alum from Honduras late eighties also live here: Peter and Melissa Redmond. Peter is actually the PC director here in Panama.
Hope to meet you all soon,
Mark
#412Daniela Papi » March 21st, 2009 at 7:58 pm:
There is a film by Daniela Kon called “Changing the World on Vacation” which explores these issues. The website is http://www.deedaproductions.com where you can view the 16 minute selects reel.
The film highlights the organization I run, called PEPY, and many of the mistakes and lessons we learned during our first year of running volunteer trips in Cambodia. Watching the film now, I see so many things that we have changed in how we operate trips to make them more learning experiences and more targeted towards supporting the communities and programs they are meant to be aiding rather than just catering to the volunteers themselves.
There is so much to consider with voluntourism – decades of development best practices, responsible tourism, educational facilitation, etc. Getting it right takes not only some trial and error, but also a commitment to monitoring and evaluating the impact of your trips knowing that you will indeed find that you have done things wrong…. which is a hard thing to accept when it comes to helping people and doing good. You want to get it right. So when you know that you wont and you know that in some cases you are harming the programs you are aiming to help, it is often times frustrating enough for people to either close their eyes to it and not accept it or walk away frustrated that doing it right takes a lot more effort than they thought.
I think both voluntourism and development work in general can be forces for good when so often they are not, but it takes time, self-criticism, and a discerning donor/client base. I think PEPY still has a long way to go in this regard, but I hope we are working towards doing it right. We are also looking to partner with other voluntourism operators to solidify our Voluntourism Effective Practices (VEP) self-checking tool to keep us aware of the positive and negative impact factors in our programs.
If there are voluntourism operators out there looking to be involved, we would love to work with you
PS – Brian, I very much agree with your “Fair Trade” point. Yours is also how I define fair trade – looking more at the issues of dumping etc which cause economic imbalances and inequities which make it impossible for those whose governments are not subsidizing agriculture to compete. We need a new word for this area of discussion around fair trade as all too often, once those words are thrown out, people think of fair trade products and coffee. Those who oppose that arena of “fair trade” believe in the same economic principals which I do – that you shouldn’t be subsidizing something with the hopes of it becoming “sustainable” – as it won’t be. If those same people were made to understand that the same logic applies in reverse to what we are doing with agriculture being shipped abroad, they might still be staunchly opposed to “fair trade” products which are made competitive via subsidizes and be able to get behind fighting for fair TRADING practices among nations.
#413edj » March 25th, 2009 at 9:14 am:
One time we were on vacation in Senegal, and we had a chance to stay at a Club Med for a couple of nights. I was so excited. I had heard great things about Club Med and thought I’d love it. Instead? HATED it. Hated the forced chumminess, the staff who remembered your name but couldn’t care less about you, having to sit with complete strangers at meal times. The food was mediocre and the drinks were weak and the atmosphere annoying. Club Med is not for me. Plus they tried to change our agreed-on price when we were checking out, and it was a major hassle to not get cheated (which is a normal experience in Africa, to be honest, but we did expect a little more professionalism from Club Med). I will say my kids loved it, but I chalked it up to experience and will never go to one again.
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#415Anonymous » March 26th, 2009 at 8:57 pm:
I have often wondered whether the people whom volunteer really know why they are visiting these places. It’s not just a cheap way of getting a gap year break. Whilst i am sure that there are many that go with the best intentions and do make a difference i am sure there are a minority who see it as a discount holiday.
Thank you for your article I enjoyed reading it.
#416Lorna » March 27th, 2009 at 3:04 am:
Excellent blog- I’ve been disappointed a couple of times and it’s reassuring to know I’m not the only one
This is pretty neat http://www.youniverse.com/travel It’s meant to tell you what kind of traveller you are based on your personality. It was fairly accurate for me (not 100%) but fun to do.
#417Heather Packard » March 28th, 2009 at 12:44 am:
hey im friends with your courtney arndt your niece you have an awesome life.
#418Caroline » March 29th, 2009 at 7:49 pm:
We are about to take our 5 and a half month old to New Zealand from the UK.We have booked a bulkhead seat with sky cot and I’m wondering whether I should stick to his routine at ‘bedtime’of changing him into babygro and gro bag for sleeping or whether that’s all too much fuss (and possibly too warm)and instead take him onto the flight already in his babygro and not bother with a gro bag? All thoughts welcome!
#419diego1369 » March 30th, 2009 at 6:56 am:
what was the name of the place you visited?
I am going this weekend!
#420Happy Hotelier » March 30th, 2009 at 8:51 am:
Hi Eric
Great List!
But why did you stop at 99?
#421Camels & Chocolate » March 31st, 2009 at 5:26 am:
Bummer, I didn’t make the cut!
#422Mark @ TravelWonders » March 31st, 2009 at 8:56 am:
Excellent collection of travel blogs.
#423Kamiel Verwer » March 31st, 2009 at 11:07 am:
great idea! If you want to add a philosophica-literary-crazy travel blog to your collection, feel free to add mine!
regards
Kamiel, Buenos Aires
#424Derek » March 31st, 2009 at 11:17 am:
Love it.
Keep up the good work. I am inspired.
“If everyone made significant change in just one person, it would be greater progress than attempting to help many people in a small way.”
Well said.
#425uktokyoite » March 31st, 2009 at 4:01 pm:
An excellent list! I’ll be taking a look at living on the road articles – I feel my feet getting itchy : )
#426Eric » March 31st, 2009 at 4:04 pm:
Guido (aka. Happy Hotelier), certainly not stopping at 99. When I’ve featured another 99 blogs, I’ll be sure to post another one of these lists! Already featured #100 this week: Unearthing Asia.
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#428WildJunket » April 1st, 2009 at 6:18 pm:
Aye too bad I didn’t make it either! I’ll work harder for the nxt round!
#429WildJunket » April 1st, 2009 at 6:54 pm:
Wadi Rum, Jordan! Yes the jewel of the Middle East! Coming from Egypt, we were relieved to get away from the incessant hassles of the Egyptian vendors, and into this calm sanctuary that was peaceful and felt like a god-sent. As compared to the overly-hyped Egypt, Jordan has so much to offer, from the ancient treasury of Petra, and the red-rose sandy deserts of Wadi Rum.
What I found surprising was the genuine and authentic experience you could have in Wadi Rum. We went into the desert with a local guide, to explore the sand dunes and rock formations. Along the way, we would meet so many Bedouin families, eager to offer us tea and some shelter. When night fell, we stayed at a simple Bedouin camp with really good local food, and of course, the locals to chat with. It’s difficult to find such a genuine place anywhere else…
#430Nik » April 2nd, 2009 at 1:28 am:
Thanks for the feature Eric, and Whoa! What a list!
Got to keep this bookmarked for handy reading… Thanks!
#431Steven Roll » April 2nd, 2009 at 11:36 pm:
Your post will help me to enjoy the journey of learning a language more. It sounds like the final “destination” of being able to tell people stuff in another language is useful, but not as fulfilling as it seems. Listening, on the other hand, is an underrated skill in any language–including my native one.
#432Still Life in Buenos Aires » April 3rd, 2009 at 12:32 am:
Beautifully written.
I share many of your feelings at year one.
But I’m usually the quiet “sweet” one at gatherings. haha.
#433brian from nodebtworldtravel.com » April 3rd, 2009 at 5:52 am:
Nice collection of travel blogs. For those of us not listed, it is inspiration!
#434edj » April 3rd, 2009 at 9:30 am:
Ah…how I could relate to this post! I’m still at the “intense listening” stage.
It’s funny how people interpret our personalities according to our language liabilities. I had a friend who thought I was a quiet person, not to mention a good listener, and then she joined my ESL class and was surprised at how animated and energetic I was.
#435Jennifer Geiger » April 3rd, 2009 at 3:26 pm:
Evan—I just wanted to thank you for your information and insights. I am planning my trip to Mongolia for the end of August and I cannot wait. I have been to Morocco and I would highly encourage you to go. I went during the end of Ramadan…which as a single woman was likely a good thing—things were a bit more subdued. That, and when the holiday was over, it was an amazing celebration! Thanks again for sharing, Jen
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#437Michelle » April 4th, 2009 at 4:08 am:
The link to bearshapedsphere’s blog is broken!
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#438Marion » April 4th, 2009 at 11:12 am:
I want to travel to Paris in August, and I want to get a good deal on air fare and hotel. Can anyone give me advice on booking and where to book my travel arrangements. Also, I would like to know about the currency exchange; our dollar to their Euro. All information will be welcomed. Thank you,
Marion
#439Eric » April 4th, 2009 at 11:24 am:
Thanks Michelle, fixed that!
#440Catherine Todd » April 6th, 2009 at 5:41 am:
It sounds like you had a lovely trip! I wish rooms were still for rent for $1.00 and $2.00 per night! Things have apparently changed since 2003. In 2008 and 2009, in Panajachel, rooms go for $20.00 up to $120.00 nowadays. Are you still living at the Lake? We are starting a Lake Atitlan Directory and Resource Guide, and would love to include your story there. Hope to hear back from you…
Yours, Catherine Todd
#441Nik » April 6th, 2009 at 6:42 pm:
Very well written Eileen, and I totally agree as well! Especially with this line: I’m often happy to let events take place without interrupting them, just listening to people say what they have to, what they want to.
#442Fly Girl » April 7th, 2009 at 1:18 am:
I totally identify, Eileen. Language is so much a part of your personality, especially for professional communicators. It’s funny how a fast-talking Brooklynite can transform into an introspective listeners in a different environment. Although I never got the impression that you were all that quiet from your blog!
#443Doug » April 7th, 2009 at 2:10 am:
Something very similar happened to me while living overseas. I’d say that this lesson is well worth traveling around the world in order to learn!
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#445brian from nodebtworldtravel.com » April 8th, 2009 at 12:39 am:
When you tell people, you are accountable. Now everyone is going to ask you about the trip. You HAVE to go.
That is a good thing.
#446Marni » April 8th, 2009 at 2:15 am:
Great article to read. Really interesting hearing about other peoples volunteer experiences.
It’s a shame someone would think that volunteering abroad is a way of going on a ‘”discount holiday”. Volunteering is not cheap! and many blood sweat and tears go into it. I guess we’ll never know if we have made a difference. But we have to keep on trying.
For future volunteers be careful which organisation you choose – there’s a lot out there – and the longer you stay the more you can achieve and the better your experience will be, although it will be harder to leave!
Good luck with your documentary Stephan.
P.S AIDS is not a virus it’s a disease. You can only be infected by the HIV virus
#447brian from nodebtworldtravel.com » April 8th, 2009 at 9:19 am:
The only time I can say I’ve been disappointed traveling was in Mexico, when I went to the ruins at Chichen Itza. I thought they would be much bigger. I went to the Pyramids at Giza the same summer and was completely in awe. I loved every second I was there. It is all about what we expect to find, isn’t it?
#448Credit union PA » April 8th, 2009 at 4:34 pm:
Good list! specially you show the every category in separate blog nice work.
#449Chrissy » April 9th, 2009 at 12:18 am:
I too was surprised by how touristy the Grand Canyon seemed. I wish I would have encountered that Park Ranger on my trip. Thanks for sharing the insider tip. We’ll hit the north rim next time we make our way there. I once read an article in an airline magazine about a couple who hiked the Grand Canyon. It too sounded amazing and I hope to brave it one day. One thing is for sure, no matter where on or in the Grand Canyon you explore, you simply must hang around for the sunset. The strokes of color and light are simply spectacular!
#450Lala72 » April 9th, 2009 at 7:28 pm:
You actually racked your brain to come up with this “woe is me” nonsense?
“U.S. retailers prey on the poor.” What??? Are you an idiot? Or, have you simply never had a business course in all your life??? The LAST thing any retailer wants is to be stuck with “the poor” as its sole customer base.
No one’s preying on anyone. Poor people are…well…”poor.” That’s why they can’t afford things. Get it?
What a pretentious, ignorant article.
#451Arran Hideaways » April 9th, 2009 at 11:30 pm:
Yes London is a unique city with lots of places to explore!!! and the UK has itself so many nice places to visit, each part is so different so fascinating!
#452Arran Hideaways » April 9th, 2009 at 11:37 pm:
Tuna Fish Ice Cream)))))))) nice
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#454Gregory Hubbs » April 13th, 2009 at 7:23 pm:
Very fine collection/selection which demonstrates how Blog is gaining maturity after several years during which self-indulgence predominated over useful content.
#455Cuckoo » April 14th, 2009 at 2:07 am:
This article is quite informative. Thanks for sharing this. Have stumbled it as well.
#456Melanie@TravelsWithTwo » April 14th, 2009 at 12:54 pm:
Thanks for the mention, Eric — and for mentioning many of my friends as well! I’m grateful to you for alerting me to a whole slew of sites I haven’t yet discovered.
#457The Longest Way Home » April 14th, 2009 at 4:24 pm:
Great Article! Always great to see new and exciting overland travelers pop up. I wonder if Megan is in touch with Becky Samson or if they will meet up half way?!
#458Dan Roberts » April 14th, 2009 at 8:20 pm:
Wow – what a list – and what a lot of reading. Hope you can look at us for the next list Eric. Thanks – Dan
#459Kim@Galavanting » April 15th, 2009 at 2:45 am:
Good list, a few I hadn’t heard of yet.
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#461terry » April 15th, 2009 at 10:06 am:
I’m new but eager to get into this,
I’m 21 and have limited income, after getting ahead on bills – what kind of cost can i expect to tour western europe? I’d like to go for atleast a month, stopping in stopping in probaly 5 different countries.
#462Ruben » April 15th, 2009 at 2:57 pm:
Hey you guys, I’m moving to San Miguel de Allende to look for an interesting job for the summer. It is pretty sad to hear that there’s no gay scene in the area…what am i going to do? Dry up? LOL Well I have a two floors apt, I am thinking of opening an underground gay bar…I mean just a place to chill, meet some people and have gay events even organized activities. Does that sound like a good initiative?? I called it underground because I wont go through the whole getting a license and stuff, but it will be all cool and stuff. I am only 22 you know. Get in touch with me through email to hear your proposals, I will be living there all summer…and I wanna make the gayest investment ever made in San Miguel so far LOL !! Greetings to y’all!!
#463Connie Colebrooke » April 16th, 2009 at 11:10 am:
Wow! I have so much respect for you. I will continue reading to see exactly how you did it.
#464Chris » April 16th, 2009 at 11:14 pm:
Great list! I’ve never heard of many of these, so am glad to have the recommendations.
But you left out all the excellent consumer blogs: Gadling.com, WeJustGotBack.com’s blog (I’m a mom of four; this one is great for family travel deals!), This Just In (Budget Travel), Elliott.org, The Perrin Post (Conde Nast Traveler). Come to think of it, maybe you need another category.
#465Off We Go Again « Planet Nomad » April 17th, 2009 at 12:27 am:
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#466marina k. villatoro » April 17th, 2009 at 3:50 am:
what a great post. we are actually in the process of relocating from costa rica to guatemala. when i moved to costa rica it wasn’t hard cause I was without child. now, with my son, it’s sooo much harder. we have a life in costa rica, he has been with his nanny for 5 years who is part of our family. we’ve spent time in guatemala preparing him with super cool stuff, but he keeps on saying that costa rica is the best.
funny, i try so hard to avoid the sad moments, but maybe you’re right, maybe we should let them happen!
#467Lilith » April 17th, 2009 at 5:34 am:
Excellent article! I wish my parents had read it before dragging me around the world!
#468Sharon » April 17th, 2009 at 8:03 am:
Hi Elizabeth
What a great post, and brought so many memories back.
You are absolutely right about the 4 ways to help your kids to adjust, and avoiding the expatriate bubble is true also for adults.
I would just like to add a couple of things that can help kids to accept the move better –
Tell them as early as possible about the expected move, and let them be a full part of the preparation. You can ask them to prepare a special moving box and to include all those essentials they might need during the move.
Help them to plan their goodbyes. Make sure to ask them how they want to say their goodbyes – some might want a party others would like to have a few friends over. Help them to exchange gifts, e-mails, phone numbers, address books etc’.
The way they say Goodbye can affect how they adjust to the new country.
Sharon
#469LIB » April 17th, 2009 at 8:48 am:
What a well written post. I think your suggestions are very practical and helpful.
Your children will grow up more well-rounded than many.
#470Kim » April 17th, 2009 at 11:09 am:
Great post! I’m going to bookmark it and save to share with others.
We went to Uganda for a year when our daughter was 14 and it was the BEST thing we could have done for her at that age. It was an amazing year and I agree, the overseas experience changes you for the better. Oh, and our son took a semester off college and joined us for the last five months we were there
We think every young American should spend an extended time overseas if at all possible. We hosted two the year we were in Uganda (one for two months, another for one) and we look forward to doing the same here in Argentina.
#471Tammie » April 17th, 2009 at 1:33 pm:
Chrissy,
It’ll be worth the trip to go back to the North Rim. It really is a different world making it almost a different Grand Canyon than the South Rim. I’d love to hike the canyon someday AND raft it! There are few places I tell everyone about, and this is one of the top 3.
#472Solo Road Trip » April 17th, 2009 at 1:41 pm:
I don’t know how I missed this! HONORED to be in the group. Thank you, Eric. — Tammie
#473Kathi D » April 17th, 2009 at 4:23 pm:
I don’t know how you manage it! Your kids are getting such rich experience from this. I have learned more about other cultures through travel than I ever could have known otherwise (but I am always glad to be back home, too).
#474jolyn » April 17th, 2009 at 11:55 pm:
What a great article. I especially loved number one. Let it all out! Then move on, literally. For those of you who aren’t already familiar with Elizabeth, go to her personal blog and walk around. You won’t be disappointed.
#475jolyn » April 17th, 2009 at 11:59 pm:
Oh, and I just wanted to add re: #4. Sometimes people try to avoid the expatriate bubble to their detriment; when adjusting to a new culture, acquainting yourself with others who have done it before you can be a wonderful way to introduce yourself to the local ways. Fellow expats can serve as an introduction to locals they have already befriended, which can help ease the transition to making your own friendships.
#476Melanie@TravelsWithTwo » April 18th, 2009 at 12:41 am:
On a trip to Northern Italy several years back, we were going to skip Venice altogether — we’d pictured it as a crowded and crumbling tourist trap. Upon hearing this, my dad insisted we give it a few days, saying, “It’s the kind of place that’ll touch your very soul.”
And he was right: http://www.travelswithtwo.com/?p=1079
#477Beck » April 18th, 2009 at 2:07 am:
Hey, great post! I love reading about your adventurous life, and look forward to reading more posts about the nuts and bolts of making such a change.
#478Kelly @ Love Well » April 18th, 2009 at 4:35 am:
Too busy to comment, since I’m packing to hop the next plane to Africa with my kids in tow.
Not really, but I wish I could.
Good grief, woman, this was absolutely fascinating.
#479TechFreak » April 18th, 2009 at 5:14 am:
Hey.. Thats a really crazy adventure. Will go to atleast one place listed above
#480Costa Rica Surfing » April 18th, 2009 at 9:37 am:
I love the self-imposed shyness I feel while learning Spanish. I find it allows me to spend more time in silence with others.
I’ve always wanted to travel to Chile for a surf trip. I hear there are great waves, but the waters a bit cold. I noticed that the photo of the article was taken in Huanchaco, Peru, where the fishermen have been surfing the waves with reed boats for thousands of years.
#481jean » April 19th, 2009 at 6:10 am:
Great post as usual. I love hearing about your life and travels. Because of you I’ve learned more about world. It constantly amazes me how much people are the same yet so different. Thanks for the education.
#482Mary Witzl » April 19th, 2009 at 6:48 am:
Another wonderful post, and I found myself nodding in agreement at every paragraph. When we lived in Japan, we occasionally met other native English speaking families who’d spent years there without managing to learn any Japanese or make any friends who did not speak English. It seems like such a waste of time not to learn any of the language or customs.
I worry that North Africa would do me in: I really don’t DO offal. My husband still fondly recalls the huge pot of soup he was served from in Sudan, chock full of lung and intestines. He can make all of us sick just describing it. I had to close my eyes when I walked by the butcher’s in our town in Scotland so as not to see the haggis hanging in the window. I feel like a real wimp after that goat’s head story of yours.
#483Diana Godwin-Sherrill » April 20th, 2009 at 8:59 pm:
I love taking solo road trips! They do give you a real feel of true freedom with the wind incircling you from every direction, music of choice at what ever volume you decide and no distractions to look at what ever you want for however long you desire. I have to take them at least every three months just to clear my head. The time alone to reflect is priceless!
#484Alexa Sanovia » April 21st, 2009 at 4:39 am:
I was very touched by what I was ready and I thank you for writing this artical.
#485Glen » April 21st, 2009 at 6:10 pm:
Maybe in this economy Tim should be a bit more humble when so many of us photogs are being let go. Maybe more photo and less words from Tim would be all we need. Good luck Tim.
#486call center services » April 21st, 2009 at 9:13 pm:
well categorized list.you did a nice work it save my time of searching the travel blog but why you stop now.don’t stoop keep it up
#487Carrie » April 21st, 2009 at 11:44 pm:
Thank you, Beth! Encouraging post! Hope I remember these things if we ever move overseas with little ones (which I hope we do!).
#488Craig | travelvice.com » April 22nd, 2009 at 12:06 am:
Oh my…
#489marina k. villatoro » April 22nd, 2009 at 5:01 am:
You know I was a big camper at one point. I camped in many places in the US, but lately they just seem to be almost dangerous. At least in Central America, there is very little protection. and the campsites with protection almost cost as much as a room in a hostel, so we always opt for a room.
#490Sujan Patel » April 22nd, 2009 at 4:14 pm:
Sounds like an awesome adventure. I went backpacking europe after college and I guess all that’s left to do now is “flashpack” with my wife. Great Idea I will definitely talk to my wife about doing this one day
#491wrinklie » April 23rd, 2009 at 12:09 am:
Netbooks seem to be the way to go for travellers. For the long/er battery life as much as the reduced weight.
#492Clay Mama » April 23rd, 2009 at 2:55 am:
Great tips! Lots of experience coupled with knowledge of subject and superb writing ability culminate in a wonderful article. Look forward to more!
#493jefff » April 23rd, 2009 at 3:54 am:
beautiful and inspiring
#494Wendy S » April 23rd, 2009 at 9:43 am:
Glen, that’s a very negative attitude. I am also a photographer who’s seen her work load diminish of late, but I find what he is doing extremely inspirational. I love the fact that even in this economic climate there are still photographers out there getting great commissions and shooting fantastic pictures. Good luck to you too Glen. Rejoicing in other people’s success is a commendable human quality that could enrich your life no end.
#495Glamping Girl » April 24th, 2009 at 3:46 am:
Great article. I never knew about the portable frames. I’ll definitely be looking into getting one of those this season!
#496Solo Road Trip » April 24th, 2009 at 4:49 am:
Yikes! Until I see it in list form, I didn’t realize how much crap it takes to camp. LOL But the effort is SO worth it. I’ve got several permanent camp boxes now, so the effort has greatly diminished over time. It’s amazing how much smarter and more efficient we get as we get older.
#497Solo Road Trip » April 24th, 2009 at 4:52 am:
so many more people would camp (I think) if they had the sleeping situation down. Camping equipment is so inexpensive these days, although if you start with nothing and attempt to purchase it all at once, you’ll disagree with that statement. The bed and bedding is the highest priority. I’d start there and add on as you go.
#498daniel » April 25th, 2009 at 7:58 am:
Hey, I am in Leon with a straight GF and (I am a gay male) and we are loooking for a fun place to go tonight friday….any suggestions
thx mucho!
#499Clay Mama » April 25th, 2009 at 11:55 am:
You’re really making it easy on those wanting to camp this summer. Anyone can do it with a list like that and enjoy every tinsy minute! Good article.
#500Regina » April 27th, 2009 at 1:10 pm:
We are going to visit Sn. Miguel on May 1st. Please let us know where to meet up and have a cocktail. We live in Guadalajara.
rp
#501Solo Road Trip » April 28th, 2009 at 6:31 am:
Just hope I didn’t forget to list anything major.
#502Peter » April 29th, 2009 at 11:27 pm:
Great post Tammie! I’m going to have to show my wife the article (and the series) to try and convince her that camping really is the bees’ knees
#503Katherine » April 30th, 2009 at 4:02 am:
Great tips – this is a great time to visit Europe, particularly countries like Iceland because their currency exchange rates are more favorable to the dollar.
#504Joyce hunter » April 30th, 2009 at 4:05 am:
Great post I can’t wait to go camping
#505Bunnygotblog » April 30th, 2009 at 7:22 am:
This is a great piece.I always find traveling lite is better because I can buy as I need too.
#506The Agra Indian » April 30th, 2009 at 7:46 am:
I don’t think blogging or doing any personal work in a cyber café is a safe deal. You will always have fear in your heart and it’s very true anything can happen with your personal data files.
I have seen few cyber cafes in India that have installed Keyboard tracking software on their computers to steal the password and user ids.
#507cuba holiday » April 30th, 2009 at 10:05 am:
Cubans are increasingly aware of the value of classic cars, particularly when visiting Americans become nostalgic about them. They realize that there is business to be made from hiring them out, and it is therefore possible for those on holiday to Cuba to hire out a classic car for the duration of their stay. Although there are more classic cars in the US overall, an American would have to go to Cuba to see a concentration of the cars filling the streets like a snapshot of 50s USA come to life.
Cuba holiday makers feel they have stepped into a time warp to that perhaps more innocent age, when Americans sported prim and proper outfits and drove shiny, sparkly-wheeled cars in brilliant colours with fins and chrome bumpers. The cars made driving feel special. The size of them and the comfort gave a calm feeling for a time when people were able to take their time and enjoy the good things in life.
#508Delaney McDonald » April 30th, 2009 at 11:52 am:
This is a great post! I like to travel and I always take my duffle bag with me. Good article!
#509The Agra Indian » May 2nd, 2009 at 9:26 pm:
This is a great check list to make the camping easy and wonder full.
#510Solo Road Trip » May 4th, 2009 at 6:17 am:
thank you everyone for your comments! Camping is becoming a lost art. We can’t have that!
#511Rod » May 4th, 2009 at 4:06 pm:
I’ve just moved to San Miguel too, and my bf will join me for the summer. We’d not much for bars, and probably not much into a “gay” scene, but meeting other gay friends for socializing would be cool.
#512Travel-Writers-Exchange.com » May 8th, 2009 at 4:00 am:
OMG! What a great post! It brought me back to my days of camping, it’s been awhile. Camping Etiquette is important — especially cleaning up and keeping the area clean. I’m not sure if I would go camping at a “camp site.” I’d go to a more remote area that didn’t have that many people so I can really commune with nature and have a great time with my camping buddies.
#513lily » May 8th, 2009 at 7:52 am:
Wonderful list of blogs. I sure can learn much from it. Maybe if I get lucky my website would make it in the top list. If you need info about Seattle, check out travelandfood.org
#514Susan White » May 8th, 2009 at 12:04 pm:
Way to go Malkolm, Ken and Wendy. It’s nice for someone to set a goal and have the passion to stick to it!
#515Susan White » May 9th, 2009 at 1:06 pm:
Thanks for the great info. We post independent reviews and ratings of vacation rentals in Orlando. We try to be innovative and creative with our approach to a very fragmented market.
#516edj » May 10th, 2009 at 9:55 am:
What about the campers with the loud stereos? They are my least favorite, since never ever, even once, in spite of the odds, do they play even one song I like. Or maybe it goes without saying. I would have thought so, but I was wrong.
#517AdventureRob » May 11th, 2009 at 1:51 am:
This is how I go about too, I use my laptop in expensive hotels with free wifi in the lobby to find cheaper places to stay a night and download a map to help get around, etc.
#518jd » May 12th, 2009 at 10:43 am:
You make your list almost irrelevant in its authority without including one of the most popular and long standing travel diaries/blogs of all (10+ years), which is that of Andy at hobotraveller.com.
#519Eric » May 12th, 2009 at 1:00 pm:
jd, Andy’s blog is included. Check under Blogs by Perpetual Travelers. I have actually interviewed Andy for a couple posts here on TravelBlogs: http://www.travelblogs.com/articles/earn-5-a-day-you-can-travel-forever and http://www.travelblogs.com/articles/is-5-dollars-a-day-really-enough.
#520Super Cheap Flights » May 14th, 2009 at 5:04 am:
These tips will surely come in handy these days cause we’re all in hard times. Plus we all could use some discounts in traveling.
There are actually a lot of sites that offer services to let you compare airfare deals, but this is great. And the topics it covers are very helpful. It’s good for a $19 e book I guess.
#521shirley denning » May 14th, 2009 at 5:09 am:
I have to say that 45% of costa ricans have money, more than my retirement each month..you look around and the only houses that are being built are hugh homes and even middle class homes that are very expensive..people are buying them and they are the ticos…I am an american and have lived here for 11 years now and see the people around me…i live in a middle to poor nieghborhood. the poor people are very happy even tho they do not have money or half the time food..most of the people work, walk, go to school and are a happy lot..they are religiously church going people..they are happy with what they have whether it be a lot or nothing..they like to laugh, eat, drink, and dance..they live for today not tomorrow…
#522Tammie Dooley » May 15th, 2009 at 6:35 am:
Travel-Writers-Exchange.com, I too love to go remote. And that is what I do for the most part. But several times a year my husband and I camp in a “local” spot that’s beautiful, has great fishing and is only an hour away from home. But it’s crowded. That experience however is what spawned this camping series. It seems a lot of people are interested in camping, but don’t have the time to go remote. Anyway, thank you for your comments. I’m glad you enjoyed the post!
Edj, Yep the loud stereos are a nuisance. Especially when they never ever play the songs you like. LOL
#523Solo » May 16th, 2009 at 4:00 am:
It is always nice to see people learn from whatever experience they come accross. Travel around the world is one of those experience that will open your eyes and make you think about life in a broder perspective.
#524The Longest Way Home » May 19th, 2009 at 9:07 pm:
Great List Eric! Had me laughing out loud in parts!
@Debby Lee totally agree about too many clothes. My vice.
@Karen I have thin jeans from Spain, They dry overnight. But I agree about the heavy types.
@Greg, totally agree about listening to music while traveling. But I do at night to drown out loud noises!
@Nora Dunn Yep, people with more than one pair should be banned.
@Geoff Zip off’s. I have a pair, never use them as shorts though. Light as heck and dry in 30 mins. One of the best for me.
#525» Lighten your load: learning what to leave at home :: Vagablogging :: Rolf Potts Vagabonding Blog » May 20th, 2009 at 2:44 am:
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#526Tammie Dooley » May 20th, 2009 at 5:21 am:
Paper underwear?! — I need some of those! I’ll never look at my zip-off convertible pants the same way again. I still really want a vintage Hermes scarf. And I’m a big fan of not packing soap since I revel in the rebellious state of travel skank for a few days at a time (and yep, it’s so easy to come by anyway). Now that I think about it, vintage Hermes scarves and travel skank do NOT go together. Guess the scarf will have to go. LOL Great article, friends!!
#527Eva » May 20th, 2009 at 6:50 am:
I always find it funny that packing light is associated with backpackers and budget travel (not here, specifically, but in general) – because the second part of the advice in almost all of these listings is: “Buy it when you get there.”
All of this is great if you’re looking to slim down your bags, but it sure ain’t cheap.
#528Alex » May 20th, 2009 at 12:34 pm:
Cool list but I think not taking a jacket could easily be a mistake, buying one will be expensive in most cities, a long sleeve shirt will not help enough in some climates and anyway you can wear the jacket on the airport/plane instead of packing and it provides handy pockets for tickets, camera, passport, cash, etc.
Also, the iPod is a lifesaver on long sleepless flights and if you’re going to a big city you won’t appreciate the sound of traffic anymore than at home… plus once you return there’s likely to be a song you heard often on your trip that can bring back the good memories.
Other than that they all seem like good ideas.
#529Michaela Potter » May 20th, 2009 at 1:36 pm:
I love this list! I could definitely been found guilty of a few of them.
Regarding:
#2 Soap – a great alternative is the Lush product of soaps, that can also be used as shampoo, so cuts down on that added toiletry. Plus they are all natural and their tins are smaller than most soaps. However, they do get a bit messy if they don’t have time to dry out, so it’s good to keep it in a ziploc bag.
#5 Money belt/pouch – Rather than these items or a purse, I carry a very small over-the-shoulder bag that holds just the essentials I hate to be without: passport, money, other id, and hotel/room key. I make sure, though, that the strap is always under a piece of clothing, whether it is a jacket or t-shirt. This prevents snatchers from grabbing it off my shoulder, or in worse cases, “snipping” the strap.
#6 Towel – I love the small “swimmers towels” that are super absorbent. If I’m using a communal bathroom, sarongs then help for covering up. Plus they are lightweight and have a number of other uses.
#530Nora » May 20th, 2009 at 2:17 pm:
Speaking of packing light, I’m actually considering taking a 4 month trip with nothing but carry-on bags! If I didn’t have a laptop to lug around (by choice, of course), it would be a no-brainer. But with laptop as well, sticking to carry-on will be an interesting challenge.
#531Andy » May 20th, 2009 at 3:15 pm:
Frankly, the paper underwear disturbed me and made me wet myself laughing at the same time. Lucky I wasn’t wearing it because we’ve all seen a soggy beer mat so it wouldn’t be pretty.
#532Andy » May 20th, 2009 at 3:19 pm:
What gets me here in Australia is that you can arrive at a completely deserted campground and pick out a spot well away from pretty much everything. Then, when the next person arrives they’ll camp right next to you. And there’s about 15 acres of empty space all around.
#533Andy » May 20th, 2009 at 3:29 pm:
Expedition National Park in Queensland is just awesome. A mate and I had been travelling around and while we were looking at the map we saw a tiny NP sign on the map. So, we decided to go for it. To say the place is remote is a bit of an understatement (there are no signs and we navigated by guesswork and the sun) but we stayed there for 4 days and didn’t see another person. It was the epitome of peace and quiet.
#534Peter » May 20th, 2009 at 4:05 pm:
Nice list, though some of these I think I’ll still take
Regarding towels, a microfibre towel does the trick for us usually. They’re surprisingly good at drying down and they barely take up any room at all. Love em!
Nora, we managed a two month trip with nothing but a couple of carry-ons. When it comes to packing, I have the philosophy that packing for two weeks is about the same as packing for 2 months. In fact, sometimes it’s easier because on shorter trips you can be tempted to pack so you don’t need to wash.
#535binicon » May 22nd, 2009 at 3:24 am:
I can’t beleive this. Wasn’t the point to make traveling cheaper by reducing the weight of your bag?
Seriously? Buy a jacket and give it away? I guess I need to get a job writing stupid advice to people so I can afford to travel like this.
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#538JoAnna » May 23rd, 2009 at 5:19 am:
This is a fantastic post, and I’m glad you asked a variety of world travelers to contribute to it. In regard to the towel issue, I travel with a tiny micro-fiber towel recommended by Rick Steves, and it’s awesome! It folds down smaller than a washcloth, dries almost immediately and has come in handy as a small blanket and something to bundle other smaller items in. I used it as a Peace Corps volunteer and it held up wonderfully – I still have it today. I would never travel with a bulky, full-sized towel, but I always take my tiny towel with me.
#539John » May 23rd, 2009 at 8:50 am:
This is so bad that I have to address each point separately and cross post from Reddit so that you, the author, see this:
1. Too much underwear. Or any cotton underwear: “On my last big trip, I learned that I didn’t need to pack my normal cotton underwears for the trip. I got myself some paper underwear which were good for one time use, and that was a great help I intend to follow next time I’m on a trip.” What the christ? Hot tip: the underwear you prefer at home is what you want to be wearing. If it’s cotton, so be it. Never compromise on comfort.
2. Soap: 2 in 1 body wash and shampoo. QED. Some of us don’t stay in fancy hotels every night, bitch.
3. Jeans: The best way to look like a complete dork: Wear hiking pants with zippers and vents and reinforced areas when you’re doing touristy things. Jeans = comfortable, durable, warm, do not require frequent washing.
4. Books / Reading material: Carry a book, not many. I would say that guidebooks are largely irrelevant now due to the internet, so ditch them unless you’re going somewhere remote.
5. Money belt/pouch: I use one of these to store my passport, spare credit cards and emergency contact information, but I have never worn it. Agreed, but it’s convenient for me to use in the manner that I am.
6. Towel: I have used a shirt as a towel, and it’s not pretty. Are you going to use a clean shirt? You’ve just made it dirty by using it as a towel. Are you going to use a dirty shirt? Then you’re going to be smearing your own wet filth all over yourself. Let’s do that every day for six months, you nasty fucker. Travel towels don’t dry you properly and aren’t big enough to wrap around your waist to travel between hostel bathrooms and your dorm. DO NOT COMPROMISE ON COMFORT. Take a real towel.
7. Water filter: Agreed, unnecessary. Buy purification tablets or bottled water like everyone does anyway.
8. Jackets: “If I am going somewhere cold, I will buy a jacket for that time period. When I leave, I’ll donate to a homeless shelter. It may cost a bit of extra money” A bit of extra money? What a retard. Carry an outer “shell” jacket that’s windproof and rolls up to be small, and use layers underneath that. Or, you know, throw away several hundreds of dollars worth of jackets. The choice is yours.
9. Chargers and cables: The guy contradicts himself and says that he still carries all this shit. You need to charge your fucking batteries, there’s no avoiding it. It’s all plastic crap and doesn’t weigh shit, stop being such a baby.
10. iPod: “When riding a bus through the wilds of Costa Rica though, you lose something when you throw in your ear buds and select your “groove out” playlist instead of taking the opportunity to watch the scenery, listen to the sounds of travel” The sounds of travel? What the fuck are those? The screaming child in the seat behind you? The diesel engine in serious need of mechanical work? I don’t know about you, but when I’m on a 22 hour bus ride in a third world country, I sometimes like to listen to music while I admire the scenery. Or, you know, at night. When you can’t see the scenery. Retard.
11. Vintage Hermes scarf: What the fuck is this? If you’re going somewhere cold, you may need a scarf. Otherwise, leave your designer shit at home, bitch. I don’t care how chic you want to look. All items must be functional.
12. Zip-off convertible trousers: True, but several of the other items in this list suggest wearing hiking or outdoorsy pants, which I put in the exact same category (dorky tourist). Again, if you wear it at home, you’ll wear it while travelling. Some people like zip-off pants. Good for them. Leave them be.
13. Shoes: “A good pair of hiking boots with some flip flops tucked in the pack should do. Personally, I choose to bring an in-between pair, but maybe that’s just because I’m a girl.” God, no. Firstly: hiking boots are not required AT ALL unless you’re going to be carrying 40+ pounds of shit, which is exactly what this blog post is trying to make you avoid doing. Take two pairs of shoes: Runners/cross trainers for hiking and other fitness activities, and casual shoes, for walking around cities not looking like a douchebag, going to nightclubs and generally being comfortable. But hey, clomp around in your big fucking hiking boots in the nightclub, I’m sure it’ll be fun. Loser. You need flip flops for hostel showers. That is not negotiable.
14. Huge stash of toiletries: Define ‘huge’. Some girls (I’m a guy, BTW) need a lot of toiletries. If you’re going to a jungle, you need hand sanitizer, insect repellent, foot powder and sunscreen, minimum. Some of these things are best bought before you leave. I learnt this the hard way buying ineffective insect repellent in a third world country.
15. Converter for your electronics Australia runs on 240V, not like you crazy Americans. I don’t know what your deal is.
16. Makeup and jewelry: As a man, I don’t generally have a need for either of these things. However, if women feel the need to hide their insecurities behind powder-based skin-coloured gunk and translucent rocks, so be it.
17. Electric toothbrush or electric coffee grinder: …Or electric razor (which one guy mentions he travels with), Xbox, HDTV, Rice cooker, nose hair trimmer, disco ball. Who the fuck would travel with their own coffee grinder? Oh, she was being ironic, and the douche that stole part of her article for this list un-ironically put it in the title.
18. High expectations: Or you could be like me, and go with no expectations.
In summary, this article fucking sucks. I have been breaking 13 of these 18 rules (plus the jewelery and voltage converter don’t apply, let’s make it 15) during my 8 months of travels. My bag is less than 10 kilos (22 pounds) and I have things that are really nice, like my own soap. And a towel. And a jacket.
#540Brad » May 23rd, 2009 at 8:50 am:
>Seriously? Buy a jacket and give it away? I guess I need to get a job writing stupid advice to people so I can afford to travel like this.
The trouble with the list is that all travel is different and it depends on the type of travel. The above will be good advice for me when I travel to India for a year. I’ll need a jacket for two months in the mountains and can easily re-coup the money spent on it over the next 10 months of not having to carry it. If you’re going for two weeks, it’s terrible advice.
No shoes? Great if you HAVE to carry hiking boots and can stand wearing them. Awful if you’re not hiking.
No towel? I wouldn’t suggest it on a beach trip where you stay at hostels that don’t provide towels and your shirt will be soaked by the first dip, but it might work for hiking when every pound REALLY matters (like the Andes.)
Ipod + loaned travel pillow saved my neck on the 20 hour bus ride from Windhoek, Namibia to Cape Town, South Africa. I’ll never travel without them both now. If you’re taking planes and short hop buses everywhere, they’re both a waste of space.
Money belt/pouch – I wouldn’t go to a bus station in Nairobi without having my money strapped to my crotch somehow, but I also wouldn’t carry any money I intended to use that day in it. It’s a security thing. You wear it because it’s impossible to snatch or pickpocket something strapped to your torso and tucked into your pants. When I’m traveling in a scary place, my passport and travelers checks never leave my body. I’d tuck them under my testicles if I could, so they took those first. Honestly, no one should travel without a money belt because there are thieves in every country and the last thing you want regardless of your travel type/destination is to be penniless with no passport in a foreign country.
Chargers and cables – Try to get all your devices to support charging by USB. It’s the closest to a universal power standard that exists and then you only need one cable and you can charge from the wall or a computer. Please don’t ever pack a power transformer/converter.
Books – English language books can be tough to find in a country that doesn’t speak English, especially if the backpacker scene isn’t strong. I personally think the Amazon Kindle is the way to go if you can afford it and enjoy reading as much as I do. Also, Lonely Planet sells their guidebooks online in PDF form if you do go for the Kindle. Again, reading material is more important the slower/longer you travel.
The best advice I’ve seen on packing light can be found here:
http://www.travelindependent.info/whattopack.htm
#541WildJunket » May 23rd, 2009 at 5:39 pm:
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#542Brook » May 24th, 2009 at 6:00 am:
Eric, great list! I will be disappointed if I don’t make your 2010 list! haha
Expect great stories of global adventure and profound posts about minimalism and getting away from the bureaucratic daily grind that is the plight of most. Give me a few months to get things rolling!
Brook
#543Anita » May 24th, 2009 at 8:08 am:
Lombok, the less developed and much less touristy version of Bali.
#544Dan Roberts (Xebidy) » May 24th, 2009 at 5:05 pm:
I particularly agree with Gary that a money belt is asking for trouble and also with Craig that you don’t need to lug a water purifier around>
Don’t agree with a towel – I hate those travel towels that fall apart all over your unshaven face; and if I had a vintage Hermes scarf I would just have Charles carry it for me.
#545Megan Lewis » May 24th, 2009 at 8:25 pm:
I had been aware of Becky for some time, as her pony actually came from not far from where I live in Wales! She contacted me when I was in China for the first leg of the Long Horse Ride, and we subsequently met up at a conference at the Royal Geographical Society last autumn. We still keep in touch from time to time!
#546Aussienay » May 25th, 2009 at 12:03 am:
Great list idea here, there are so many over the top packing lists, it’s better to see what you don’t actually need. of course i’m one to overpack, and wear all my heavy stuff on the plane so i can fit more in my bag hrmmm. As for Nora, if you’re traveling by plane many airlines allow you to carry both a carry on bag AND a laptop bag/handbag….but of course it’s something more to carry. And check out the little netbooks instead of a full size laptop…my friend got one really cheap with a discount and it’s so cute!
Great ideas folks.
#547Nomadic Matt » May 25th, 2009 at 2:59 pm:
ever bought a jacket in india or asia or south america or even europe? They aren’t that expensive (even a cheap one in europe is reasonable). You’ll find jackets cheaper than you would at home.
and why give it away? b/c there are people who need it more than you. charity. it’s a good thing.
#548brazilgal » May 25th, 2009 at 3:14 pm:
I agree with John. This travel list is mindlessly thought. Paper underwear? Very wasteful. And for the ladies, you should bring cotton underwear as cotton/natural fabric is the best to prevent yeast infection. Maybe in the form of thongs if you want to save drying time and weight. And ladies: tampons can be hard to find, especially those with applicators, in less developed countries. My ipod has saved me on overnight buses, entertained others, and draining out local sounds such as drilling in HK, babies crying, screaming ladies etc.
#549Hostels Valencia » May 26th, 2009 at 4:03 am:
have any of you tried Venezuela and Angels Fall, and the surroundings tepuhi, amazing.
who had visit Misali Island in Tanzania? heaven on earth! believe me, but promes my something….don’t tell anybody, we always ruin the places
#550feleciacruz » May 26th, 2009 at 6:11 am:
FABULOUS ARTICLE i agree with everyone except paper underwear!! i like my cotton & def need at least 5 pairs!
#551Daniela Papi » May 26th, 2009 at 4:56 pm:
I tried to post these long-winded comments I have to add to this here, but I think they were too long-winded! You can find them here:
http://pepyride.ning.com/profiles/blogs/volunteering-or-voluntourism
#552Oman » May 27th, 2009 at 3:11 am:
I agree ‘ let them step outside the box’ – the world is an extraordinary place and keeping them with the ordinary will make them ordinary.
#553Oman » May 27th, 2009 at 3:17 am:
Though I feel spoiled living in Oman I have to say Syria was a real gem – from the Ummayid Mosque, Haqawati, Busra and so much more each something unique and to be savoured and the highlight – sunset on the hill in Palmriya – astounding
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#555Clay Mama » May 28th, 2009 at 2:19 pm:
The ideas are so good from the preparation to, during, and finally the arrival. This couple knows how to manage the show! I love the way he breaks it down into levels, very entertaining and so informative. I’ve a feeling the rowdy guys know that Dad means business, also! Another article beautifully written and presented by Tammie. I look forward to her next one!!
#556Nik » May 29th, 2009 at 3:55 pm:
Hah~ well allow me to clarify a few points about that paper underwear tip –
First off, it was surprisingly comfortable. And NO, it’s not just because I’m a guy and I don’t care much for those kind of comforts. Believe it or not, it was actually recommended to me by my very own girlfriend. And mind you, she is one that are not able to travel without her pouch of moisturizer, shampoo, soap, and other toiletries.
My point is that, have you ever traveled long distance and had to lug those dirty clothes with you along? It sucks and it stinks. The underwears especially! And in case of emergencies, I’m not gonna wear dirty underwear. That’s just… eww… But a dirty t-shirt? I can just wash it away in the rain (or what not) dry it out and slap them on again..
And finally, you should at least try it out for yourself. It cost me US$5 to buy a dozen of them last time round. By no means a big burden on the wallet. You’ll be surprised they even call it paper, cause it really does feel like normal fabric..
Last.. I have to support Matt’s comment about buying a jacket in Asia.. It’s mind-bogglingly cheap! Think.. US$10-US$20 for a decent usable one..
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#558Jodi » June 1st, 2009 at 8:44 pm:
I am going to have to get on the ‘in defence of cotton underwear’ train. i brought mostly cotton with me, except for a pair of patagonia boyshorts to sleep in. The synthetics tend to fare badly when you’re hiking or sweating, and cotton is way more comfortable (at least for me). Though I must admit I never looked into paper underwear before!
I also love my ipod, mainly because the ’sounds of travel’ sometimes include a horror movie at full volume on a night bus through ecuador – and mere earplugs just won’t drown out the screaming.
I agree on the toiletries/makeup and soap front (big fan of Safeguard’s Eucalyptus soap here in the Philippines!) and also on the money belt – after a year of travel, I’ve never actually worn it once.
I would also add traveller’s cheques – mine have been gallivanting around the world with me, but have yet to see the light of day.
#559Andy » June 1st, 2009 at 9:57 pm:
I’ve been doing much the same for the last two and a half years, and enjoying every bit of it. I’m not really traveling in the traditional sense of the word because I go somewhere, settle for a while, get to know the culture and language, then move on. It’s a fantastic life and one I won’t give up for all the corporate glitz in the world. I’ve had my day in a leather backed chair and a corner office, now I enjoy casual clothing and doing things on my time.
#560Powered by Tofu » June 2nd, 2009 at 4:05 am:
OK, I’m with John and Brad on this one. This is not a good “across the board” recommendation list. It really depends who you are, where you’re going and what you’re comfortable with. I just wrote a post about how to pack for a one year round the world trip: http://www.poweredbytofu.com/2009/05/05/how-to-pack-for-a-1-year-round-the-world-trip/
I travel with a 32L (2,000 cuin) pack and according to this list I’m bringing all the wrong things
1. Underwear: I bring 10 pairs, because clothes you can re-wear before washing, but who wants to wash underwear every night? Not me. And seriously, unless you wear thermal underwear, they don’t take up much space. How big are you’re underpants?
2. Soap: I stay at hostels which don’t provide soap, so I pack a shower gel, since it’s not as messy as soap in a container.
3. Jeans are my ultimate comfort item. If you’re a jeans person, take your jeans! I’ve worn my “totally unnecessary” jeans from Vietnam to Costa Rica. Obviously I don’t hike in them, but I wear them out in the evenings.
4. Books: I don’t travel without 1 reading book, which I then trade for another etc etc. If you don’t bring a book, then no one is going to trade you!
6. Towel: I take an REI quick dry mini towel, for hostels. I’m not a fan of airdrying or paying $1 to rent a towel every day.
8. Jacket: Unless you’re going to Arizona in the summer, take a windbreaker/rain jacket. I use a “packable” Columbia, and have used it in Costa Rica and Thailand during tropical rain storm, in Japan, with shirts layered under while it was snowing, and in Morocco while camping in the Sahara desert.
10. ipod: An ipod is TINY, and as long as you’re not listening 24/7 and ignoring your adventure, it can be the best “pick me up” on a long bus ride or to fall asleep when you’re in a loud hostel room.
13. Shoes: I would change this to say that hiking boots are the last thing you’ll need unless you’re doing a week long trek. I’ve never packed hiking shoes, instead I take trail runners and flip flops. I’ve met so many backpackers over the last year, with the obligatory pair of huge hiking boots tied to the side of their pack. My anecdotal research tells me that most of them have only used them once if that, and it could have been done in running shoes.
Cheers and happy packing!
#561travelling man » June 2nd, 2009 at 6:35 pm:
hey this is a cool book… is there a book about how to travel green?
#562sHOTTA » June 3rd, 2009 at 12:46 pm:
I think it is wrong to go into another mans country and pass judgement. Yes USA has a better standard of living. USA earned the rite to live the way they live so does Costa Rica or any country.
In time we will progress not only as nationals but as a society that always move forward.
-sHOTTA
#563Luke Stevenson » June 3rd, 2009 at 4:39 pm:
I would have to disagree with the iPod one – whilst I try and enjoy and engage with people and surrounds on a bus or train trip, when you are traveling overnight and the bus driver is leaning on his horn hor 17.75 hours or an 18 hour trip (as in Vietnam), then having some music to take the edge of that, and the screaming kid two seats behind, is absolutely invaluable.
With regards to the chargers, one of the best investments I made was a US 2-prong to USB iPod Charger in Bangkok (only cost about 25 baht and is the size of the tip of my thumb). It charges the iPod via it’s USB cable, and I also found a USB phone charger for about 50 baht (with a set of attachments for various phone types) meaning I replaced two mobile chargers with a multi-purpose charger which together are no larger than a couple of matchboxes.
#564abby » June 3rd, 2009 at 11:26 pm:
Hi,
My boyfriend and I (28 and 26) are flying to nyc this summe and are going to do an east coast roadtrip down to miami and back up to nyc. We are happy to go a different route on the way back and maybe stop in tennesse and alabama. On the way way back we will probably only have 3 days maximum to get back to nyc. The trip as a whole will last 3 weeks but 3 of the days will be spent in the bahamas. can anyone advisde where we should stop or visit on our roadtrip (north to south or south to north). we have a rough idea but want to make the most of it. we are not into museums, and stuff like thart but we do like doing activities but again we have limited budget so any help would be appreciated!
Thanks
#565christiangeorgeacevedo » June 4th, 2009 at 10:02 pm:
I always make solitary road trips and I like the feeling of the summer wind kissing my cheeks. It’s very relaxing just to sit down and watch sunset at different places where I’ve visited; there’s simply the difference in their color. But the best in road travelling is that I get to meet new people, new ideas, and new culture. Learning, indeed!
#566paul » June 4th, 2009 at 10:12 pm:
I always make sure that when I’m done camping, I leave my campground clean. I hope those abusive campers will have their conscience bother them.
#567brian from nodebtworldtravel.com » June 5th, 2009 at 12:13 am:
I would agree with NOT taking the iPod. I did end up using it on a few flights but I had to keep charging it and I eventually lost it. Somebody in SE Asia has a nice 160GB iPod gift from America.
#568Patricia » June 5th, 2009 at 12:33 am:
Travelling without ipod??? The most stupid thing, I´ve ever heard, seriously! Have you ever travelled in an Indian train? Especially during the night? I would have got crazy, if I didn´t have my ipod! And there are definitely more situations, where u could need it…and it´s not heavy at all….stupid “not-to-bring”…as some of them…
#569Blog King » June 6th, 2009 at 9:08 am:
I think that this is a ver good list, but I also think that their are a few things missing. Personally I like too travel alot and taking the right equipment will make or brake your trip. So, things like water proof rolling duffle bags may make a difference as well, as taking some means of communication to the outside world like a computer or cellphone could save yourlife.
#570Blog King » June 6th, 2009 at 9:11 am:
Wow! these are some really good articles. I hate that I didn’t write them, but I will do better when I go on my next trip.
#571Blog King » June 6th, 2009 at 9:14 am:
I agree their is no real differance to me, because they are all either new comers or visiters not residing in that particular country.
#572Luke Stevenson » June 6th, 2009 at 11:05 pm:
@”brian from nodebtworldtravel.com” – Fair call, I guess, but then again, we’ll see if you still feel that way after being on a 20+ hour train ride with a screaming kid shaking the windows in the middle of the night and a guy on the opposite bunk who sounded like he was either drowning or milling steel with a woodsaw with his snoring.
Maybe not an Apple iPod TM as such, but a portable MP3 player which you can load up at a local music store/hostel/internet cafe/friendly flashpacker is a life-saver.
If you can’t afford to lose something/don’t have insurance, you should really leave it at home, but that is the rule for any travel.
#573Tammie Dooley » June 8th, 2009 at 6:32 am:
Abby, send me an email to tammie@soloroadtrip.com and we’ll discuss this in more detail!
#574Tammie Dooley » June 8th, 2009 at 6:34 am:
christiangeorgeacevedo: that’s what it’s all about — DISCOVERY and LEARNING!
#575airfare deals checker » June 8th, 2009 at 10:27 pm:
Passport! you wouldn´t believe how many people I know forgot their passport and they couldn´t take their plane!
#576Marinagal » June 9th, 2009 at 5:22 am:
PLEASE,PLEASE, PLEASE DO NOT HAMMER IN NAILS TO TREES! Anyone who has any respect for the environment will tell you that trees are not just lumber/wood for your use! Nails dammage trees! Use rope to create a hanger arround the tree.
#577Anil » June 10th, 2009 at 12:08 am:
I’d also add, get faces! I tend to shy away from pictures of people when I travel but (and make sure to check the local customs first) the culture is ultimately in the people. It’s also hard for a picture of someone to not be interesting and unique.
#578Bilety lotnicze » June 10th, 2009 at 2:59 am:
Hehe my wife always packs to many shoes – even if its just a weekend trip to one of the european capitals. I just dont get women..
#579Tammie Dooley » June 11th, 2009 at 3:01 am:
I agree with Anil about FACES! Nothing can transport your viewers and plop them down in “place” like faces. And another trick I always keep in mind is this: If a photo’s not interesting, I’m not close enough.
#580Jamieselle Daventhorpe » June 11th, 2009 at 7:45 pm:
You really don’t need a lot of money just to enjoy traveling. ENjoy your trip. Meet new people and have an open mind and eyes so you can fully enjoy your trip.
#581Aaron Joel Santos » June 11th, 2009 at 11:28 pm:
I was trying to imply that you should not be afraid to take pictures of people; that portraits, landscapes and scenes of everyday life were three critical things to keep in mind when building a great travel slideshow. And I would say that there are many interesting things about people (anywhere in the world), not just their faces.
Also, Robert Capa said, “If you’re pictures aren’t good enough, you’re not close enough.” A good response to this oft-quoted proverb is David Burnett’s project: Too Close!, which I highly recommend.
Thanks for your comments, Anil and Tammie.
#582Bo Boorom » June 15th, 2009 at 1:57 pm:
This is such a simple article but it has helped me out so much! I am 23 and I am a History major at the University of South Carolina in Columbia. I want to become a travel writer and I definitely know I can, but after this article I see myself doing it even more now. I want to travel and be able to pay the bills. I dont expect to make a ton of money, I just want to enjoy what I do and this is definitely it. Just the oppurtunity to do this excites me! I was hoping for any information that may help me on my journey. I’m not so sure where to start? Please Help me.
Thanks!!
-Bo Boorom
#583Bilety lotnicze » June 16th, 2009 at 12:43 am:
Use a comparision search engine and spend the 19usd on a cheap ticket
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#584Daniel » June 16th, 2009 at 3:50 am:
To DL. Do you have something against Nicas. Why do you have to insult. Theres a lot of Expat Americans (more that 7000) living in Nicaragua, you dont see me criticizing you. A stop your predudism agains us, and learn some manners and respect because you dont have any compassion for why we live in Costa Rica. Learn our history first, and then talk. On day though, you will be the one immigrating to Nicaragua because of an economic breakdown in your country or because you could’nt make it with you salary pension.
FROM A 100 and 10% Nicaraguan!!!
#585Metalchick » June 17th, 2009 at 2:36 am:
I couldn’t disagree more with Dave. Being an independent, female traveler myself, the advantages he lists above are cosmetic at best. I’ve personally seen men and women both equally good at achieving freebies, discounted hotel rooms, and rectify any sort of cleanliness issues without the fear of repercussions from the male population at large. In dealing with hotel and other personnel staff, the ability for a woman to leverage her strengths is equally as likely as a man to leverage his. The issue there is just learning how to negotiate well with confidence and a nice, polite attitude. However, the safety issue that Jodi points is is the most salient point of the whole article. There are times where I am limited in my travel experiences specifically due to safety concerns as a female. The vast majority of the time it doesn’t factor in but there are several times in my travels to places like South Africa and even downtown Cincinnati where the mere fact that I’m female limits my ability to walk in certain areas. This just my two cents for what it’s worth.
#586Nora » June 17th, 2009 at 10:12 am:
Great perspectives, guys! An article I once wrote (for the non-traveling crowd) on long-term travel received a bevy of comments from guys suggesting that the only reason I can travel the way I do is because I’m a woman….I believe with every advantage comes an equal or proportionate disadvantage. But I hadn’t thought of the peeing issue as one of them (despite my own crossed legs more than once) – funny!
#587kimba » June 17th, 2009 at 2:16 pm:
As someone who has primarily only traveled solo (picked up a traveling companion here or there but never for too long) I can see where both Dave and Jodi are coming from.
As a solo woman traveler, I wouldn’t say that I’ve gotten a lot of freebies, but I do find it really easy to meet people and be invited into their homes. I’ve also found it easy to create long term friendships with folks I meet in other places. I’ve often said that if I was traveling with a guy I wouldn’t have half the cool local color experiences I do because the attention of the travels would be totally different.
#588hoboxia » June 17th, 2009 at 2:30 pm:
I have to support Dave’s social integration point as a solo guy traveler, and I’m even an American traveling in America. It’s true I go three days between showers and have a massive beard by the end of the month, but I’m a likable enough fellow and only look Arab in certain lighting.
Though I would say this is the only point where men have it harder than women (though it is by no means a superficial issue, if for no other reason than the loneliness problem). So overall, women don’t have it easier. I mean they have that smaller brain problem, they’re always getting pregnant, and they can’t own property.
#589Jodi » June 17th, 2009 at 5:31 pm:
Thanks for the comments! The peeing problem is common for me because I believe I have the world’s smallest bladder. On a 9 hour border crossing into Mongolia, I resorted to peeing into a 1L coke bottle, cut half way for a larger pee-radius.
Safety is the most primary concern for me – I’ve met guys with great stories about solo travel through Pakistan and Papua that I cannot emulate without worrying about making it through in one piece.
#590The Longest Way Home » June 17th, 2009 at 8:33 pm:
@Metalchick I certainly agree it’s all relevant to the type of person you are too
But I still stick to my guns 
@Nora I like this very much. “I believe with every advantage comes an equal or proportionate disadvantage”
@Jodi Please goodness tell me you’ve not had this issue on the banka’s up there!?
btw I met some solo ladies in Pakistan. Good reports. While the solo guys seemed more worried; and hyped up everything!
Dave
#591Courtney Arndt » June 18th, 2009 at 2:53 pm:
haha.
Heather….gotta <3 ya
#592Jodi » June 18th, 2009 at 6:27 pm:
@Dave: During the alleged 5 hour banca from Port Barton to El Nido – which ended up taking over 12 hours – I jumped out of the boat to pee several times while the banca waited. Such it is, travelling with a teeny bladder
#593Joe Pirrelly » June 18th, 2009 at 9:15 pm:
sometimes all you need to do is read a blog like this and be on the same page as people who feel like you. Thanks.
#594hiep tran » June 19th, 2009 at 1:12 am:
It’s kind of funny the female author of this article is getting basically free room and food for several months at on of the most beautiful places on the earth. Plus, I noticed most modern, independent women travelers have short arms.
#595Bilety lotnicze » June 19th, 2009 at 7:38 pm:
I would think that it really depends on the areas one ventures too. If you take europe and n america I guess a female would have it easier than a guy – esp due to the less ammount of safety concerns. On the other hand asia or africa – not to mention the middle east would imo be too risky for any independent travel – be it male or female. There is always safety in numbers I guess.
#596Jodi » June 19th, 2009 at 11:30 pm:
@Hiep: My arms are not THAT short. I mean, I am 5 ft tall. Were my arms any longer, I’d look like a total freak. Also, the free room and board was in exchange for the website/menu that I did for The Alternative…but of course you know that since, you know, YOU STAYED HERE TOO.
#597The Longest Way Home » June 20th, 2009 at 12:28 am:
@Bilety rather than the areas I would say it’s relevant to the type of traveler you are. Traveling in twos or groups certainly gives the feeling of safety, man or woman. But then you loose independence. Kinda where Nora’s comment comes in!
@Jodi Ha ha, and I thought I’d get most of the pokes from this article
Seriously though, fair play to you for getting the job for a room. More than what I achieved up there. It boils back to social integration; as a solo guy its harder to achieve this.
#598Pam » June 20th, 2009 at 12:52 am:
Sorry, I don’t see this as a useful comparison of viewpoints. Here’s a guy saying “Women have it easy!” and a woman saying “Actually, not so much so.” More useful? Find me a woman who insists that women travelers have a easier time of it than guys do and set her head to head with one who says they don’t.
Wit and charm will always win at the front desk, regardless of gender. But I’d argue that women are always faced with safety concerns in places where a man will stride through without a second thought.
It’s different for girls.
#599hiep tran » June 20th, 2009 at 1:20 am:
It is a joke when you tell someone they have short arms. It means when the check come to the middle of the table, the person with the shortest arms can’t reach for it. I wasn’t saying you have short arms. I have nothing but great respect for your honor and integrity.
#600Powered by Tofu » June 20th, 2009 at 1:41 am:
I have to agree with Jodi on the safety aspect. While there are many ways you can make yourself less of a “target” in some countries: dressing conservatively, mastering the “don’t approach me” walk, making sure you arrive into towns during daylight hours etc, these are things that guys don’t even usually consider. So yes, it takes a little more work to be a solo female traveler.
#601Tanya » June 20th, 2009 at 11:01 am:
I’m going to go ahead and say it’s way easier for a guy to travel solo than it is for a girl. Women in certain cities/countries/regions will be harassed by unwanted male attention the likes of which I doubt men ever see from women. For example, I was mostly left alone in Paris, but Nice and Cannes were a nightmare. You can’t go anywhere without getting catcalled, approached, propositioned, etc.
#602Sherry Ott » June 20th, 2009 at 4:46 pm:
I traveled solo around the world and spent most of my time in Asia – where I live now. I can’t say that being a solo female traveler in Asia is easy; nor were there any perks or advantages. In fact, I find that Asia is the land where western men rule…they walk in somewhere and they have a bunch of beautiful Asian women throwing themselves at the men. Fawning all of them. Where as I walk into a room and am completely invisible and generally not taken as seriously.
I do agree that women bond easier together all around the world…and I do find that pretty cool.
In my travels I always met more female solo travelers than men solo travelers – why is that? Why do fewer men travel solo?
#603Trudy » June 20th, 2009 at 8:21 pm:
I’ve never traveled solo when traveling internationally. My best friend, who is also female, travels with me. I find that it is great to have a friend with me while exploring interesting places. Honestly, the way women are treated and possible unwanted male attention does factor into where I go. Truth of the matter is that I live in South Florida and I encounter more rude, aggressive and disrespectful men here than any destination I have been to so far including Japan, HK, China, Canada, Mexico and the Caribbean. I am always alert, aware of my surroundings and plan things out well with my friend. I can’t say I am eager to travel alone though, not because I am worried about not getting discounts or even safety but because my best friend is better with maps than I am. Women should not let fear deter them from travel…besides most of us statistically face greater safety risks at home then abroad. I will admit thought that even as a traveler myself, when I see solo men traveling I am also suspicious. Maybe I have watched too many movies and read too many strange case studies in grad school but I tend to think that they are out looking for someone who is underage and trying to engage in something inappropriate. It’s just odd to me to see a sole male traveler who doesn’t even have a camera with him so the guy’s perspective writer may be right about easier social integration for women.
#604Babi » June 21st, 2009 at 5:29 am:
I totally agree with Tanya. I am brazilian and visiting Paris and Rome was quite annoying. Sometimes you harassed just because you are a woman alone. Quite shocking even for me (with a latin background) but knowing other languages and act in a secure way are quite helpful in these situations.
#605The Longest Way Home » June 21st, 2009 at 8:27 pm:
Just on the point of harassment. I’ve known girls who’ve been groped, and spoken to in not so nice terms in many parts of the world. This we all know as travelers. But …
Men also get harassed, and it’s becoming more prevalent. Walking down Las Ramblas in Barcelona in the evening, let alone night, I’ve been grabbed at rather viciously by prostitutes. Heckled and called at. I’ve seen guy’s with their families have to put up with this too. What’s more a lot of the time this is laughed at my all around. There is no rebuttal as people say your a man, live it up and get over it.
Likewise in some parts of east Europe I’ve seen similar things mixed up with gangs of girls with guys in tow target men by creating a scene of sexual assault in the street. Then crowd around and claim for cash or the cops to come.
In a different light in parts of Asia there are groups of “lady boys” who target men for both sexual harassment, or intents of crime. Likewise again the streets of prostitutes calling out, whistling and grabbing out with their hands.
I’m not saying men have it worse here, but, I am saying its out there for men too just not spoken about; and, it’s getting worse.
#606hiep tran » June 21st, 2009 at 9:41 pm:
I never understood women complaints about unwanted attention. Men have been trying to offer their penises for you since you were 13. Men are more blunt in foreign countries because of the lack of english. Let me give a translation in men talk. In a bar:”Can I buy you a drink”=”Do you want some dick”. Weather:”Isn’t it a nice day”=”Isn’t it a nice day for some wild monkey sex”. Animal shelter:”Do you want to adopt a puppy”=”Please go to pen 15″. Church: “In the name of the father, son, and the holy spirit”=”Wow, your younger brother is cute”.
I always heard about the safety condition of women travelers but I found the opposite is true. There are more stories of men getting mugged, stabbed, robbed, lied, cheated, assaulted, and all sorts of horrible things than women. Granted, most of the time the first thing a guy say when he start his story is “Man, I drank too much last night”. It is also the same line women say when they are talking about the guy they have met that they’re glad none of their friends back home will never know.
Staying in an all male dorm is a all night session of farting and snoring. Staying in an all female dorm is a all night session of girls in bra and panties hitting each other with pillows.
Men have pee envy too. This is one of my reasons why I wish I was black. In a moving bus, I would never have to lean over or asked the guy next to the window to switch seats. Just sit down and flip it over the opening of the window. The only thing I would worry about is not putting too much out the window or it might get entangle in the tires.
Women have it so easy that they take if for granted.
#607Elaine » June 23rd, 2009 at 11:12 am:
Aaaaaaaaaaaargh. Envious
#608The View from Fez » June 24th, 2009 at 2:24 am:
We also reviewed this book on The View from Fez – and like your first reviewer found it below the normal standards of travel writing. The book was so ego-centric that it became of little value. You can see our review in our Travel Writing series. http://riadzany.blogspot.com/2009/02/travel-writing-about-morocco-26.html
#609Andy Jarosz » June 24th, 2009 at 6:09 pm:
I remember meeting a hitch-hiking young S African lady in the 1980s who travelled around Europe alone and without incident. She confided to me that she would take out an apple soon after got a ride and then with the knife she pulled from her shoe she would deftly peel it in sub 10secs. Being noted as a dab hand with the knife, she was never given any hassle. (Not recommending any carrying of knives here!
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#610Luxury holiday to The Maldives » June 25th, 2009 at 12:06 am:
I agree, really nice shots. What type of camera do you use??
#611Koh Phangan » June 25th, 2009 at 10:12 pm:
I can agree with one thing, I have always felt bad for girls who have to go to the bathroom in some countries like china. It must be hard.
#612Tammie Dooley » June 26th, 2009 at 1:10 am:
I am most free on some backroad. And I really do feel the thrilling liberation of being cloaked in anonymity. It’s such a powerful and unexpected emotion. And while I’ve experienced it many times, it’s always a surprising release for me. I long for it during the in-between times of being part of a community, a family, and a neighborhood where everyone knows the other. When I begin feeling really late for nowhere in particular, I’ll get up that morning and say outloud “I feel late!”. And I begin planning a solo road trip right then.
#613Dan » June 26th, 2009 at 5:16 am:
I love taking road trips. Traveling is the best way to clear your mind and lift your spirits. It is also a good way to enjoy your family meeting new people.
#614Zippy » June 26th, 2009 at 1:52 pm:
The zip off pants may make you look silly, but they are the only thing worth bringing. It’s cold in the morning and boiling in the afternoon and the pants fit the bill. You’ll look silly trying to change into your shorts on the trail, road, or train.
#615Bilety lotnicze » June 27th, 2009 at 2:09 am:
Envious? Its amazing people have so much “free” time. Id love to just dump work and fly all over the place. Yet Dave and Deb have time not only to travel a lot but keep an up to date interesting blog. Keep it up
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#616Bilety lotnicze » June 27th, 2009 at 2:25 am:
quote: “Likewise in some parts of east Europe I’ve seen similar things mixed up with gangs of girls with guys in tow target men by creating a scene of sexual assault in the street. Then crowd around and claim for cash or the cops to come.
In a different light in parts of Asia there are groups of “lady boys” who target men for both sexual harassment, or intents of crime. Likewise again the streets of prostitutes calling out, whistling and grabbing out with their hands. ”
urm you just made me doubt any sense of traveling anywhere alone. None the less I think you are going to extreme – sure anyone can get into a bad situation (like even walking in a small group in Reo at times is risky – actually from my exp Reo is risky for everybody
), but we cant take minor? situations and make them the “norm” as it seems this thread is comming to?
As to your earlier reply to my post – Id like to add that even an independent traveller can at times team up with somebody else when going to more riskier areas. At a point it becomes a question of safety vs independence. If one wants to place his/her life at “risk” for “independence” then he / she better get a reality check. On a side note I have seen some tourists in Botswana, where I lived in my youth, do real INSANE things in the wild.
#617Jerome Peterson » June 27th, 2009 at 2:52 am:
What a great little article to stir up the wanderlust.If cumbersome belongings seem to heavy, how about raising the thumb and take whatever comes down the highway. On the other hand, if reading about traveling adventures is your thing check out the novel “Thumb Flagging”. It’s a great summer read for those that want to take to the open road but are unable.
#618Anna » June 27th, 2009 at 8:01 am:
I would easily give up the “right” to flirt for better treatment (which doesn’t work with other women, and which I don’t do anyway) to not have to worry about sexual assault (unwanted comments is everywhere and more of a threat than compliment, unwanted touching is extremely common, and more serious things are always a risk). It’s unfortunate if this is increasing for men, too, but the majority of such things happen to women. They just don’t get reported (with good reason–police can make the experience even worse).
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#620Stacey » June 27th, 2009 at 10:17 pm:
I think both Dave and Jodi make good points. As a female traveling by herself around South America (currently in Brazil on week 3 of what I hope will be a 9-12 month trip), I can attest to the fact that social interaction has been quite easy, even with the language barrier. As Dave says, women just “get on,” and I believe that we do (catty women excluded!).
Also, I’m alternating between staying in hostels and couchsurfing (www.couchsurfing.org) and had an easy time finding hosts, whereas I’ve heard from my male friends that finding a couch is often a challenge. Both men and women seem to be more willing to open their home up to women.
Of course, as Jodi points out, safety is a concern and a major one at that. Couchsurfing poses its own risks, but so far in my (limited) experiences, the worst I’ve had to deal with was fendng off a pass from my couchsurfer host!
#621Mylène » June 28th, 2009 at 1:21 am:
I love your picture. I supposed that’s yours.
I was looking for “Will you marry me in a park” on google pictures and thanks to it, i found your article. I don’t know how i can explain it to you, but your photo touched me. Your story about the proposal of the two people is lovely.
Continue to make articles like that one.
#622Jodi » June 29th, 2009 at 2:38 am:
I agree with Anna, above. It’s awful for both genders, obviously, but the reality remains that the majority of harassment does happen to women. The threat of sexual assault (be it rape or unwanted groping that spiraled out of control) is something that female travelers do not forget about. And as Anna said, oftentimes the police ignore it and/or make it even worse. That’s not to say that it’s at the forefront of my days, but it’s at the back of my mind no matter where I am, simply becauses the statistics of it occuring are staggering.
#623Laura Cococcia » June 29th, 2009 at 5:16 am:
Just came across this site – and this article is dead on. I travel alone quite a bit, both for business and pleasure, and actually love doing it. It takes a bit of practice (the alone part) and practical planning (the alone and being a single woman part)…but it’s ultimately one of the most rewarding things I’ve ever done. And, I always, always meet great people along the way.
#624behlnai » June 30th, 2009 at 1:19 am:
nah its definitely a LOT harder travelling as a solo woman. just the sexual harassement and strange looks you get (young woman travelling alone outside big cities?!) are a hassle. and like others mentioned, going out at night and stuff is always a little scary ahem.. *dark alleyway*.
guys can pretty much do anything anywhere and no one would look twice.
#625Ling » June 30th, 2009 at 3:53 am:
The safety concerns are different but equal.
I think one of the biggest frustrations that solo travelers notice is from the social mores of how gender is treated in non-Western cultures.
Race/Ethnicity and socioeconomic appearance also factors in how people may perceive or treat a traveler. That’s one issue that definitely will show in some areas more than others.
Perhaps it’ll improve in the future given how new generations have less/no baggage are simultaneously exposed to wider horizons.
#626Claudia » June 30th, 2009 at 6:13 am:
I have travelled on my own for bussiness and pleasure. When for business it is all straight forward. When you are travelling for pleasure I have been luck to find nice people around me. The hotels a stay at are rom Royal Holiday, a Great vacation club…..no worries
#627Claudia » June 30th, 2009 at 6:24 am:
I agree with you all! I have taken many pictures while travelling, the makority are family pics also cutlure….I even won best family picture, my vacation club organized that contest and I won 3 days in Cancun!!!
#628Claudia » June 30th, 2009 at 11:16 am:
Road trips seem like so much fun! Havent done one yet, they way they organize their road trip is amazing. Thanks for the tips!!
#629Claudia » June 30th, 2009 at 11:38 am:
Well, I can read many opinions here. I appreciate you sharing your thoughts. Some of them are good…others I cant say I could live with them but Thanks for the ideas!! People dont have to be rude while giving their opinions….like the makority above.
#630Claudia » July 1st, 2009 at 3:27 am:
Amazing story, I love travelling and have been doing so for many years. It isnt a luxury but a need of my soul. I feel really lucky to have a nice vacation club like Royal Holiday that has given me and my family the opportunity to enjoy and learn from travelling. Great story!! Thanks sooo much!!
#631Claudia » July 1st, 2009 at 3:36 am:
I loved this article!!!! I know a lot of people who just fear travelling but wished with all their heart they would… Fear of what? Sometimes they dont even know….To take the first step is the hardest….travel around your own country for starters…that shhuld get you going. Sometime you are a tourist in your own place!
#632Claudia » July 1st, 2009 at 4:09 am:
Cant think of travelling without my lap top. It is usefull for so many things! Specially keeping track of your experiences and work…
#633Claudia » July 1st, 2009 at 4:20 am:
This is a great article!!!! I couldnt have said it better myself! I speak English and Spanish. When people visit my country, Mexico, they expect us to speak English, the idea many people have abot Mexico is not what it really is….It is a shame that people canT really enjoy such a rich country, culture, people only beacuse of the language… GREAT ARTICLE!!!!!!!
#634Claudia » July 1st, 2009 at 5:06 am:
Travelers take their time to experience a culture more in depth, other travelers like to enjoy sightseeing and local foods. Others, just like to swim in the ocean and have a great nightlife….Tourists are people who travel to other countries, then the travelling starts…
#635Claudia » July 1st, 2009 at 5:22 am:
Haggling is not my thing, I dont think I am good at it but admire people who can do it. If it is a case of culture, why not?
#636Claudia » July 1st, 2009 at 5:54 am:
Travelling with kids is excellent. They learn a lot, we lear from them, they have adventures and nice memories for coming years. Yes, I believe that children can learn the art of travelling through their parents. This is the reason why I joined Royal Holiday, a great vacation club which gives me the opportunity to share many holidays with my kids!!!
#637Claudia » July 1st, 2009 at 6:01 am:
Great story! Travelling with your couple can be very enjoable the first days but after, the differences come up. You had a great experience, useful tips!!!!
#638Claudia » July 1st, 2009 at 6:06 am:
Great tips!!! I love travelling to London, in fact I shall be there for the summer and I know this book will be very helpful.
#639Claudia » July 1st, 2009 at 6:54 am:
This is a great tip, I have never thought that one could enjoy the beach in New York!! I cant wait!!!!! thanks!!
#640Claudia » July 1st, 2009 at 7:17 am:
I am so happy and proud that you allowed yourself to explore more of Mexico! That place is incredible!!! the people is noce and the food to die for!!!! Good for you!!!
#641Claudia » July 1st, 2009 at 7:41 am:
Wow…so much time off!!! awesome!!!!! I wish!!! I would have so many places to visit, this is really cool, thanks for encouraging me!!!
#642Daniel » July 2nd, 2009 at 12:28 am:
Craig,
Thank you for such a thoughtful review!
#643The Longest Way Home » July 2nd, 2009 at 5:30 am:
It’s great to read about someone who packed up and just went for it. Making money to travel, when traveling is not so easy. So well done Nora! And congrats on the book!
#644Michael » July 2nd, 2009 at 8:25 am:
Good list. I disagree with the travel wallet though. Put things that you might need to take out during the day in your pockets (zipped pocket, etc.) but have a hidden travel wallet for other valuables you might need to take along, like your passport, etc.
#645Dave and Deb » July 3rd, 2009 at 11:04 am:
Fantastic interview. Nora and Kelly are an inspiration to us all. We are leaving for our first really open ended tour at the end of this year. We have done several long term travels, but always had an end date in mind. This will be our first time not planning to come home. Knowing that Nora has made it happen has given me hope that we can too! Congratulations on the book, I look forward to watching your Canada AM Interview.
#646Mamon Roy » July 3rd, 2009 at 3:00 pm:
Hey,fantastic blog..Topic on which you have discussed is really very interesting..I feel it doesn’t really matter whether you are female or male travelers when you are out for a tour. If you are in foreign land, you definitely have to be careful whether you are male or female travelers.
#647Jayson » July 4th, 2009 at 4:59 am:
Great interview. As The Longest Way Home mentioned, it’s nice to read about someone that did what many of us hope to do. 3 years is a long-time to spend out of the rat race, it’d be nice to do it for 20 years.
Congratulations on the book
#648Craig | travelvice.com » July 4th, 2009 at 2:52 pm:
After three months in the same place you’re no longer traveling… you’re living in a place.
http://travelvice.com/archive/2007/04/three-month-rule.php
#649Tony » July 6th, 2009 at 2:41 am:
I will be visiting some friends in San Miguel de Allende in September. I am about 20 years younger than they are, and would enjoy making some new friends to visit with while I am there too. I probably stay up later than they do and could find myself looking for some entertainment in the eves. I will be there from Sept 12-18.
#650Bernie » July 7th, 2009 at 5:06 pm:
Great blog Anik See !
I love to travel China, I just came back from Zhejiang province, to Hangzhou and Wenzhou….and tasted some great food. Crispy chicken feet and uncleaned small herrings, but contrary to what people think, you do not eat the guts, just seperate them and only eat the meat, the Chinese think the fish is too small to bother wasting time to clean. Bite off the heads and alos dispose of them.
The standard fare is always a bowl of rice and or a bowl of noodles…Tofu, with various sauces, and chicken wings, and stuffed dumplings….of course depending on where you are, foods can be hot or regular, Guangzhou and Sichuan are hot…REALLY hot!
In all my 5 trips to China I have found the Chionese people very helpful, and friendly….but don’t try to tell a joke…it will NOT be understood! And don’t mind if the people push and shove and never say , ‘Excuse me” or “sorry’…it’s just not done….when you cross an intersection, just cross with a bunch of others, NOT alone…or you will be a paving stone! There are no formalities in China to speak of…just to eat, and make some money and wear a ‘T’ shirt with english printing that doesn’t really mean anything…but looks good!
Actually a compliment to all english speakers!
Wenzhou is a rich town, but the money is hidden away…and it seems very archaic in some areas, and modern in others, like alot of China.
Enjoy your stay, and if the food is good, don’t forget to say, “Hao Tze !”
#651Mike » July 7th, 2009 at 7:15 pm:
I couldn’t agree more. While traveling alone, at least once, has some rewards and life changing experiences. There is nothing like traveling together as we have found out.
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#653halle » July 8th, 2009 at 2:05 am:
Well said! My hubby and I travel all over the globe. We are so alike that we both will only bring our bucky pillows and shades too. He has black and i have mums patterns. Too cute!
#654Akila » July 10th, 2009 at 3:24 am:
I love traveling with my husband and, just as importantly, traveling together has made our marriage stronger and better. I actually just posted on this topic on our site.
#655Ruben » July 10th, 2009 at 4:39 am:
Someone mentioned the only gay disco in san miguel de Allende. What’s the name please? I am there now. Would be fun to ditch the family at night for a drink
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#658Messi » July 11th, 2009 at 2:08 am:
While people may have different views still good things should always be appreciated. Yours is a nice blog. Liked it!!!
#659Messi » July 11th, 2009 at 2:46 am:
I appreciate the labour you have put in developing this blog. Nice and informative.
#660quail » July 11th, 2009 at 1:06 pm:
Sorry, but my mp3 player goes with me. It only comes out though when I’m on a long flight or when I’m spending time in the hotel. It’s radio feature is priceless, and my ability to keep up with podcasts invaluable. It can also be an ice breaker when need be. See another person sporting earbuds? Ask about their player and what they like to listen to.
#661cristiano » July 12th, 2009 at 5:48 am:
its ALL destination specific and dependent upon the manner in which you travel. going from the airport to the hotel without backpacking from place to place, you can obviously bring more stuff. Backpacking around the world for 2-3 years at a time would be an entirely different beast.
Basically- go as light as possible and remember that most everything you need can be purchased in the destination country at often fractions of the price at home in your developed country.
A money belt, the kind that wraps around your waist under your trousers is INVALUABLE if you are travelling in developing countries. raise your hands if youve been mugged in bolivia! hahaha. throw your passport and any relevant documents in a ziploc bag and toss them in. that way if your bag gets stolen you always have your important things on you. post pics of your passport pages online so you can retrieve them at an embassy in a bad situation. obviously you keep the days allowance of cash separate, so you dont reveal your secret stash.
UNLOCKED IPHONE
for me, and in my opinion for my style of travel, Iphone is invaluable- get a solar charger for that and your other electronics, as in developing countries electricity is unreliable and prone to surges that can fry your things. i say iphone because since it has a removable sim card (important if you are from north america), it can be used as a phone around the world to make all sorts of arrangements at your convenience. in addition with the 32 gig one that came out, you can store your music, a few movies, use internet hotspots anywhere and take a few videos of your experiences. it is just a great multi-use tool for international travel. anyone who says it takes you away from the true experience of travel is clearly a masochist, a moron, or an inexperienced backpacker who has never been on a 18 hour ride packed like a sardine onto a loud bus with livestock, exhaust, bad roads, incessantly honking horns, no travel partners, and a language barrier.
universal converter-
since when i travel im gone for years at a time and through various places, an electric converter is essential. mine is plastic, weighs nothing, and is roughly 6 cm x 3.5 cm.
jacket-
considering about half the world is in its winter season at any given time, the long haul traveller will undoubtedly need one.
the solution is simple. i went to my local outdoor/ wilderness store and bought a down puffy jacket. it packs in its stuff sack to the size of a softball and weighs 1 pound. not to mention it is warm as on those cold days either in the himalayas or in europe in winter. an outer shell jacket that is light and waterproof also packs to the same dimensions. if you are going somewhere cold for more than a few days, bring it like this– the jacket is also a great pillow.
Footwear-
DONT BRING BOOTS!!!!! unless you are going specifically to trek and you have the ease to bring them with you. 99%of the time they are absolutely unnecessary. if you are going to a trekking destination like nepal, unless you have particularly large feet, you can easily find boots in KTM. lots of them are used and broken in and reputable brands left behind by other tourists. local boots usually will last a trek or two depending on duration and intensity.
flip flops with straps made of plastic(and therefore quickdrying) are great for hot days and hostel showers. if you are going to be walking in flops-dont go for plastic straps, instead use a soft cloth strap as walking for a few hours in havaianas can rub the top of your foot raw. trainers are a solid choice.
towel–
sure a full size towel is stupid to bring in your pack, but again, you can go to your local outdoor supply store and buy a shammy that dries in NO TIME, weighs nothing, packs flat and takes up zero space in your pack. considering how useful it is its foolish not to have one.
Toiletries/medicine-
when i first started taking long trips around the world, i would have a medi-kit with cures for all sorts of ailments and maladies. now i see that as relatively pointless. even powerful antibiotics like ciproflaxin can be purchased abroad for sososososoooo much cheaper than at home, and without a prescription. for those of you that dont trust their medicines and storage capabilities, fair enough. you can always bring a supply of reliable antibiotics from home. now that said, and providing you wont be away from civilisation for any extended period of time, you neednt pack any other over-the-counter medicines or toiletries as ALL are available where you are going. i bring a toothhbrush, a razor and blades, 30% deet mozzie repellent, glasses,and my contact lens kit. i bring a lasting supply of conact lenses, and a course of antibiotics for upper respiratory infections, and for stomach issues. i DO NOT use them unless it is absolutely necessary.
ladies and tampons-
my ex girlfriend faced this dilemma. having your period on the road sucks, tampons may not be available (but remain expensive). if you arent too put off by your own blood and dont mind a SMALL mess on your fingers, there is a product called the DIVA CUP. it is a little cup that fits snugly over your cervix and catches your blood. you remove it periodically, like a tampon, clean it and reinsert it. my ex gf LOVED this. it never leaked on her, she could sleep comfortably with no spills either. all u need is a water source to clean your hands after the change. it isnt too messy if you are worried. i dont know where to buy it, but a google search will likely provide answers.
it is reliable, reusable, small and can be taken anywhere u go, and you dont have to keep buying tampons, or load your pack with them.
my pack is 45L and it is only ever full when i am trekking for months at a time. usually it is half full, lightweight, and i am always aware of its proximity to me. after 3 RTW trips lasting over 6 years, ive never had a pack stolen. be prepared to lose everything you have, but with good street-smarts you can GREATLY reduce the chances of being a victim.
since i have extra space in my pack, i love to bring a pair of my favourite jeans. true they take forever to dry, take up space, and are heavy, BUT, they can go ages without washing if need be, they are durable and fashionable (in most places these days), they are warm, and if you have been smart about your packing you can afford to bring a luxury item should u choose. I am no ascetic and i enjoy some little creature comforts on my long long journeys.
This article is ridiculous. I hope i helped.
ciao
#662cristiano » July 12th, 2009 at 5:56 am:
oh– and i forgot,
ALWAYS have some toilet paper on you if in a developing country. You never know where you’ll be when your stomach starts to cramp up, you start sweating, and fuids start exploding from your backside:)
#663Varun » July 12th, 2009 at 11:50 pm:
Well,
Interesting debate. From what i have seen, there is a definite soft corner for solo women travelers anywhere in the world.(for obvious reasons) and also because they have to deal with men, more than they deal with women.
Things get interesting in interiors of Asia, where women dont enjoy the same social status as men. Men often get fascinated by mere presence of western women!! They do get lots of attention. However, they need to take care about the basic things for safety. A bit of common sense surely helps!!
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Simply superbbbb post.Want to go out with my pair anywhere….
#665Jillen Lippincott » July 14th, 2009 at 2:12 am:
In the question about what she misses, she doesn’t mention her family, mom, dad, siblings. Doesn’t she miss them? Don’t they miss her?
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#667Jason » July 15th, 2009 at 8:01 am:
I will always bring a pair of jeans if I plan to be in urban areas. Universally they are worn almost all over the world. If you have plans to go out, have dinner or a drink, it’s the best way to not look like a tourist.
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#669Bruce C Ziebarth » July 15th, 2009 at 2:03 pm:
Debra – I have been married for a little less than a year. You are completely right – the journey is better when you share it with someone. Your post brings out some great advice for traveling with you significant other. Communications is critical whether you are traveling or in everyday life.
#670Dave and Deb » July 15th, 2009 at 3:09 pm:
Great to hear that there are other couples out their that love traveling together. Before we started blogging we were wondering if anyone else enjoyed travel with their spouse.
I agree, travel does make a marriage stronger and better. If you can survive travel in extreme situations, you can survive anything at home. Thanks for checking out the post.
#671Nora » July 15th, 2009 at 3:40 pm:
@Jillen – Of course I miss my family! I figured that goes without saying. In fact, I’m on my way back to Canada as I write these words to say hello (which is no small task when I am in Australia….about 33 traveling hours away).
@Craig – To each his own! This is not the forum to discuss the inner workings of what travel is….Travel is an incredibly personal thing and is different for everybody. So I think we can agree to disagree. (smiles)!
@Jayson, @Dave & Deb, @TheLongestWayHome – thanks for the kind words and congratulations!
#672Turner » July 16th, 2009 at 3:10 am:
I may try to manage with nothing but a day pack at some point, but I’m not exactly in love with bagless travel.
#673John Bardos - JetSetCitizen » July 16th, 2009 at 6:49 pm:
Great Interview Nora.
I look forward to the new book.
I would also like to hear more about the Australian visa. I thought they were difficult to get.
#674mitch » July 16th, 2009 at 9:20 pm:
No travel insurance? I’ve been working as a travel agent for a year and have had heard and had experience with some real horror stories. The most recent being a 21 year old girl that had insurance (though my work mate), but that had run out a week before she was killed in a road acident in South America (which I came close to myself some years back). What about those that have to help out if you don’t have the means or are dead? the girls mother is currently in South America trying to negotiate (with no Spanish) a 25,000 bill to get the body back home. What a nightmare
#675Traveling101 » July 18th, 2009 at 1:56 am:
Wow, this is amazing, I can’t wait to start following him! Sounds like something I would want to do…
#676Traveling101 » July 18th, 2009 at 1:59 am:
This seems promising, can’t wait to take your advice and give it a try!
#677BeyondHorizons » July 18th, 2009 at 5:25 am:
What your saying is don’t bring zip-off trousers because it’s not a good fashion statement rather than saying giving any practical reasoning. I guess your advice is only for the the insecure travelers.
#678Fanci Pantalones » July 18th, 2009 at 6:05 am:
Thank you Daniel. I am so sick and tired of people just shooting off their mouths about Nicaraguans, before even researching the history of when most Costa Ricans immigrated to Nicaragua for better jobs. Many people have the habit of blaming the Nica’s for everything before looking at the problems within Costa Rica.
#679Phil Waddington » July 18th, 2009 at 5:59 pm:
would be
Why they moved from Costa Rica? Which is a nice travel spot. Is there any reason fro moving the place?
#680Phil Waddington » July 18th, 2009 at 6:17 pm:
thanks for sharing, it was nice info like
#681Croatian » July 18th, 2009 at 9:25 pm:
Great tips Curtis !
Good luck on your next trip.
Bookmarked
#682Sandra » July 19th, 2009 at 4:38 pm:
Intresting information for the expats here.
Thanks for sharing
Sandra
#683Meggy » July 19th, 2009 at 7:48 pm:
Sometimes when we travel we are so busy moving around that we take shots almost as if we were on autopilot which turns out photos that don’t speak to us. They say that a captured photo reflects the way the photographer feels about the subject. I guess really taking the time to involve yourself in the moment and in the subject you want to capture is key to being closer to the truth about what you wish to express in your travel photos.
#684Akila » July 20th, 2009 at 12:48 pm:
As so many other people have commented, I think that many of these items are essential for me.
#6: I love, love my travel towel — I use it as a towel, a blanket, a sarong, and a shawl.
# 8: I get cold very easily so I must travel with a warm fleece jacket (I even take it with me to the movie theater). I can’t imagine going on any A/C train in India without a jacket.
#12: I like my zip-off trousers. Sure, they aren’t the sexiest, coolest clothing, but they are really comfortable and hold up well.
# 16: As far as jewelry, I take two necklaces and a pair of earrings because sometimes, I like to look nice and these are the lightest way to do so. They weigh less than an ounce and take up practically no room. Maybe it’s girly, I don’t want to look like a schlep all the time!
I just posted my travel list and many of these items are on here: http://www.theroadforks.com/gear/womans-round-the-world-packing-list
#685Meggy » July 20th, 2009 at 1:46 pm:
I love this article. It touches on the deeper side of traveling with your significant other which we so very often overlook. Many times I’ve traveled alone to avoid all the squabbles and inconveniences of having to argue about what to do, where to go next, where to dine, etc. But after reading your piece here, I’m more inspired than ever to give traveling with my loved one a another shot. Thanks, Debra!
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#687The Travelers Zone » July 20th, 2009 at 6:57 pm:
this is a pretty good list but there are some things in the list i think i will still take,like ipod,jackets and shoes.
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#689Franz Kafka » July 21st, 2009 at 12:00 am:
cool story… I was just lookin for pictures of bees, lol
that oriental wasp looks pretty badass, more curiosity to feed my insomnia. : )
#690Nora » July 21st, 2009 at 4:00 am:
@John – The Aussie visas were not typical visas at all….Australian Immigration and the Canadian High Commission got together to grant this for us, since we were instrumental in providing relief supplies to the victims of the 2009 Victorian bushfires.
I am incredibly impressed that this concession was granted nonetheless (it was the farthest thing from our minds when we were volunteering, to expect something in return), and Australia has more than once shown me that rules can be bent given the right circumstances.
#691Sarah » July 21st, 2009 at 2:39 pm:
While I admit I am usually guilty of bringing too much, it sometimes cannot be avoided. As a full figured woman who is nearly 6 feet tall, the idea of buying whatever extra clothes I need at my destination isn’t always practical. When I spent the summer in Ecuador last year, I was probably the largest woman in the country at the time! I would rather carry a heavier bag and be comfortable in my own clothes than scour a market for a size they probably don’t have.
#692Una Bertrand » July 21st, 2009 at 10:20 pm:
I never aspired to become a ninja. But surely, I am more than entertained watching ninjas wrestle each other.
#693Tara Winston » July 21st, 2009 at 10:24 pm:
I’d like to disagree with you. I, and a lot of people, say that it’s better to travel around alone.You meditate and go do and enjoy things you can’t do while you’re with someone.
Tara Winston
#694Linda Wood » July 21st, 2009 at 10:28 pm:
I am living a life with sparse financial resources. And yet, I am enjoying my life to the fullest. Indeed, I really believe with the saying that is money not the only thing that makes the world go round. It’s actually the simple things around that’s offering better and more profound happiness.
Linda Wood
#695Austinite » July 22nd, 2009 at 5:22 pm:
MP3 player is a must for long bus rides etc. Get a cheap one that uses AAA batteries so that when you’re battery dies on that 34 hour bus ride from Patagonia to Buenos Aires… Also a Beethoven symphony can add to the thrill of watching the panoramas passing by outside the window. ALWAYS get a window seat!
A couple of small paper-back books is not a bad idea. They can be traded. I agree not to underestimate the “finds” in netherworld bookshops. Leave the guidebooks at home and tap into the backpacker chatter instead.
Jeans. Cuz I don’t want to look like a tourist.
Money belt for the passport and emergency cash. $$$ for the day go in my pocket.
I also try to avoid clothing you’d buy in a outfitter store. I want to look poor and I do want to blend in as much as possible.
#696Newquay » July 22nd, 2009 at 11:47 pm:
amazing tips! i love it. this will definitely help all the travellers out there! thanks!
#697travel to morocco » July 23rd, 2009 at 10:48 am:
for me i don’t like to travel alone, i always travel with either a friend or spouse, i figured out that better than traveling alone.
#698Richard Fluni » July 24th, 2009 at 3:50 am:
Bin viel in Blogs unterwegs – aber so Vielfältig wie dieser, ist selten einer.
#699TravMonkey » July 24th, 2009 at 7:52 am:
But surely you travel for some freedom and to see and experience new things? To leave everything behind back home. Not to be glued to a clue screen or cell phone constantly in touch with you life back home? Leave the technology at home…
Not only do you have to find safe places for all your gear but it’s more likely you’ll be a target of theft.
http://www.travmonkey.com/2008/10/09/should-i-take-my-laptop-traveling/
#700Matt Thompson » July 24th, 2009 at 10:41 pm:
I live less than two miles south of Route 20 in New York (have for most of my life) and for the longest time now, I’ve wanted to do just what the author has done. Now that I’ve found the book that I want to write, I’ll have to read it and make sure I don’t copy it.
#701sara » July 25th, 2009 at 2:35 am:
I am getting ready to travel solo tonight, and your words have encourage me….I was a little bit nervous because I have not travel alone before…its just for a week and is within U.S.
#702Ricia Jenkins » July 26th, 2009 at 6:22 pm:
Your story hit close to home. When I was thirty, I took off on what was to be a RTW trip–first stop Hawaii. There I met and married my husband, bringing those plans to an end. Thirty years later, with the dream still alive, I set off to accomplish what I’d started back then. In May 2006 I left Arizona for Paris, this time heading east. Sixteen months later I was back in Hawaii after traveling through eastern Europe, Turkey, Africa, India, Nepal and most of SE Asia. On my 60th birthday I was on a flight from Kathmandu to Bangkok. Seated next to me was a stranger(now a friend) who helped celebrate my birthday when we landed in Thailand. Keep your dream going as long as your heart desires. You are lucky to have developed ways of supporting yourself while out there. There was a time on the journey that I thought I could do it forever–but things call you back and I’m happy to be home now.
#703Mike Crosby » July 27th, 2009 at 6:13 am:
“Kiddo, you are young; there is everything under the sun out there for you.”
Thank you Wade. Hope you get a chance to read this.
Wade, I loved your interview. Very inspiring, thoughtful.
As you know, looking out from my comfortable surroundings, you’ve got balls. It just thrills me to see someone like you live your life on your terms. I wish you the best my friend.
Michael Crosby
#704Laos » July 27th, 2009 at 1:17 pm:
I always give alms if I have time
#705yani » July 27th, 2009 at 4:10 pm:
Hi, Nicks, I am Yani, a 43 years old woman ,mother of two sons , joining my husband who now works in Shanghai. Today is my 20th day in Shanghai, but my husband already stayed for seven months. I like your report. Nice and interesting. I like writing also, I have my own diary. I named it My China Diary. My Diary could be a little different view, since my activity is a house wife, and I am a Muslim, so some of my diary tells a lot about this fact. I ask your permission, if you don,t mind, I want to take some information about Shanghai from your report. As you know, not every people in my country in Indonesia can speak English, So I want them to have my stiry in Indonesian language. Please, let me know if you visit Shanghai, my husband will welcome you verymuch
#706port » July 28th, 2009 at 7:06 pm:
Fun and excitement is the name of the game when you go on picnics. In this economy, people are always looking to save money on family activities. Picnics are great way to have a staycation.. Not to mention, that kids love to be outdoors all the time. It’s a perfect combination. Get your picnic baskets and enjoy.
#707Jeniffer Craft » July 28th, 2009 at 11:36 pm:
well its allways better to travel with a friend cause two is company and that wht i have allways loved too.
#708Nora » July 29th, 2009 at 1:52 am:
@Linda – Thanks! I’m glad I’m not the only one who doesn’t value money over everything else (but then again, I always knew we weren’t alone)
@Ricia – You bring up a good point: although I could technically travel forever, I have no delusions that I will. Stopping in Oz has been a wonderful exercise of catching my breath long enough to keep traveling longer than the average person, but I know that eventually I’ll re-adopt a more settled life, and I imagine it will be novel enough when it happens that it will be freeing more than constricting.
Cheers!
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#710Glamping Girl » July 29th, 2009 at 10:25 am:
Hi Tammy,
Great article, fab picture! You are a Glamping Girl at heart!
#711Peter » July 29th, 2009 at 11:27 pm:
What a great photo!
We have some of those same plastic flat-pack vases you have in the picture. It’s such a great thing, not just for camping, but taking anywhere you might need it, like staying in a hospital, or for a hotel room.
So you basically need a trailer to take all this stuff. Shame our car doesn’t have a towball
It definitely appeals.
#712Tammie Dooley » July 30th, 2009 at 5:07 am:
Peter, we can actually get all of ours into a Yukon, with some things on top in a carrier, and a box that attaches to the truck’s towball. But it’s much easier when we tow a small trailer. Packing’s a much more pleasant activity that way. And yes, the plastic flat-pack vases are a very nice, homey touch.
Thanks Glamping Girl! It’s really gotten into my blood and I’m not sure if it’s just such a wonderful experience or if I’m getting older and the comforts are more appealing. Doesn’t matter — it’s a great way to go!
#713Lisa at Wanderlust Women » July 30th, 2009 at 5:55 am:
Atta girl – only you could making life in a tent glamorous. But, I still don’t know if I’m ready for it – I like the suite life. ROFL
#714Jessica the hedgehog » July 30th, 2009 at 7:23 am:
I love this approach and I am totally digging that picture too! My fiance and I have recently started camping together and have been enjoying it tremendously. Our tent’s rain flap/cover comes off completely so that we’re able to fall asleep looking up at the stars. It’s been brilliant, and we’re big fans of camping in the most comfortable fashion.
Is this the part where I admit we haven’t gone camping further than our own yard yet? LOL! Maybe I’ll leave that bit out….
#715Tammie Dooley » July 30th, 2009 at 12:46 pm:
Yep, Lisa, the suite life is good too! And you know what I say? I say, do what makes YOU happy, travel the way YOU want to travel, and camping definitely isn’t for everyone. I’ve yet to hear anyone though say they didn’t want to do the suite life. LOL
Jessica, camping in your backyard is a great idea! The bathroom’s close by LOL. Personally, I can travel on a trip to the grocery store, so I’m definitely not the person to say you’ve got to camp in a designated camping area to be camping. Similar to what I told Lisa, if YOU say your backyard IS a designated camping area, then that’s good enough!
#716Tiffany » July 31st, 2009 at 6:36 pm:
I wish I could just wander the globe, at least for a year. I’ve wanted to travel for so long. I have a young daughter though and I wouldn’t want to raise her on the road. Still, this is a very fascinating topic to me. I’m going to go read the rest of the articles…
#717helen » August 1st, 2009 at 8:43 pm:
We set up http://www.whattowearonholiday.com to help travellers pack the “right” things for the country they are going to, pack less, know what to avoid and what to wear so as not to shout “Look at me I’m a tourist”. It would be great to get feedback from you guys as regular travellers and any updates would be much appreciated.
#718Mamon Roy » August 3rd, 2009 at 3:07 pm:
It depends up on individuals.Some like to go solo but overall there is so much advantage when you have someone along with you on tour. The most important aspect is safety which is taken care as you can help each other if things goes wrong.
#719Mauricio » August 5th, 2009 at 5:55 pm:
Thank you for writing and putting this up on the web. I’ll never understand how so many people that frequent public campsites can be so rude, obnoxious and ignorant. Trash, noise, barking dogs with no leashes, children running through other peoples camps, clowns chopping at trees with hatchets. The list goes on. I guess that’s why I like to go out in the middle of nowhere via 4X4 just to find some solitude and peace. For all of you who tread lightly and respect others and the beautiful nature around you- thank you!
Happy walking-
#720Naran Kahgan Valley » August 6th, 2009 at 11:04 pm:
Your blog is really a nice one. I think your are right everyone should go their and see the routs of their traditions and their homeland.
#721Mich » August 7th, 2009 at 4:13 pm:
I agree, and travelling with a partner can help you decide how compatible both are. Be it agreements, compromises or squabbles, its the beauty of being able to still say “there is no one better” at the end of it. I enjoyed the article very much, thanks Debra!
#722Bankabletravel » August 7th, 2009 at 6:39 pm:
This is exactly what us travellers need! More of us publishing, but more than that just sharing our experiences. I love reading travel tips and putting them into action then later finding out that I got a better deal than other travellers! All thx to the read!
On my way to becoming a travel ninja!
#723Jean Beasley » August 8th, 2009 at 4:03 am:
Are you on Twitter?
#724Andy Jarosz » August 10th, 2009 at 9:05 pm:
Thank you for your comment. I didn’t appreciate how fragile these links to our past were until I went on this trip. Without my father’s help I would never have found it, yet so often people only start to look for their roots when their parents have passed away, and taken the stories of their past with them.
#725Greg Wesson » August 11th, 2009 at 3:29 am:
Great article! I recently moved to the UK where my grandparents were from, and have been visiting places from my family’s past. I’d like to second what you said in the last article. I’m glad I am doing this while I still have my father and uncle’s memories of things their parents had said to help guide me.
#726Eve White » August 11th, 2009 at 6:02 am:
Have fun in Argentina. I heard it was awesome, I would love to go.
#727Ilkka Kauppinen » August 11th, 2009 at 9:02 pm:
Just visited the same place last February after skiing in Uzbekistan. How big was your “fine” for climbing up the minarete?
#728Shelly Rivoli » August 12th, 2009 at 5:28 am:
With first baby, I jumped at the excuse to upgrade from pup tent to B.A.T., which I secretly wanted since childhood. Backpacking hubby was slow to convert, but last year we met up with fam & friends on banks of river ready to make & serve margaritas. Camping the dream…
Love your post.
#729ZooP » August 12th, 2009 at 10:11 pm:
If you have a small budget for a travel, go to the West Europe. For example – Ukraine. If you like a sea, mountains you must visit Crimea. Crimean peninsula is great place. Mountains, mountains river, prairie, and beatiful Black Sea. Its my idea.
#730Andy Jarosz » August 13th, 2009 at 9:58 pm:
Hi Ilkka. You mean the “fine” the police ask in advance for letting you go up the one in the picture? I think they wanted 5,000 ($3.50) but we passed on this is Samarkand, and climbed up in Bukhara and Khiva.
Wow, skiing sounds like an adventure. How is Uzbekistan geared for skiing?
#731David » August 14th, 2009 at 8:58 am:
As long as your dedicated and know the basics of affiliate marketing, a travel blog can be a great source of income, of course nobody should rely on it, but it is worth trying, especially if you have a lot to blog about.
#732Tony » August 15th, 2009 at 6:41 pm:
What a great idea, this makes perfect sense. Why pack everything you are going to need later, when you can buy something when you need it, no need to lug things around the world with you. Of course so many things are also really cheap in Asia as well.
Great article, and I agree that a good camera (for the memories) and a laptop for keeping in touch and writing are essential. There are some great calling cards these days (I use almostfreephonecalls.com to keep in touch with family, you can use their cards in most countries), although between MSN and Skype you can call for free. I also use Tagfoot.com for storing my bookmarks, which allows me to access them from any computer anywhere.
I took off for a year 21 years ago, went around the world, and loved it. I would dearly love to do it again, and to experience so much that the world has to offer, instead of having to join in the rat race with everybody else.
#733Michael Faulkner » August 17th, 2009 at 2:25 am:
As a Surrey resident, I apologize for my City’s lack of cycling infrastructure–from the Border to anywhere, your choice of routes through Surrey will be confusing at best, usually ugly and dangerous at worst; if you are able to negotiate your way through our embarassment–take heart: the cycling routes, signs, bridgeways, and general “cycling friendliness” improve every inch of the way into Vancouver proper. Tip: Head for White Rock and catch the “351″ –effective Sept. 7, 2009–$3.00 will take you and your bike to the new Bridgeport station where a new bike bridge greats you for your ride into Vancouver–skip Surrey..they don’t want cyclists and you’ll not miss a thing.
#734Costa Rica Property » August 17th, 2009 at 8:43 am:
Excelente foto. En Costa Rica hay un volcan muy parecido a ese.
#735craig | travelvice.com » August 17th, 2009 at 6:29 pm:
(laughing) — great URL.
#736rocky point rentals » August 18th, 2009 at 4:47 pm:
I found this post very informative! Good to know that we can make money with such things.
#737C.Calin » August 19th, 2009 at 2:09 am:
That’s right !you can’t survive in N.Y with… 1200 dolars/month
C.Calin
#738JP » August 19th, 2009 at 2:26 am:
Great places you visited, a perfect blend of being from New Zealand and to Southeast Asia! New Zealand is a great destination too, hope to visit NZ soon!Thanks for sharing your travel views. More success and travels to come.
#739family vacation planners » August 19th, 2009 at 10:30 am:
I think the only real way to become a travel ninja is to find a job that pays you well, and for any business endeavors they may have.
-Jack
#740Looking up, down and back: Putting the see back in the city « the Caffeinated Traveller » August 20th, 2009 at 1:42 am:
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#741Lilly » August 21st, 2009 at 11:14 am:
This is dumb. What if you’re going somewhere that requires jeans and jackets, like someplace cold. And only 3 pairs of underwear?
#742Online Tourist » August 21st, 2009 at 7:04 pm:
I’ve heard about this book from a friend, who is a travel ninja of sorts. I’ll be featuring it in my blog as one useful travel resource. Thanks.
#743Online Tourist » August 21st, 2009 at 7:09 pm:
What a great review. This really takes readers to the place. Morroco comes alive and how! Thanks.
#744Online Tourist » August 21st, 2009 at 7:17 pm:
It’s not safe, pure and simple. Not to get women paranoid, but disappearing female tourists are in the news, so there is a basis for this. Unless of course, the travel plan is well-mapped out. Backpacking solo females are not so safe.
#745Mary » August 22nd, 2009 at 2:43 pm:
Dear Tyrone,
I’m not sure if you’ll ever get this, but I don’t think you should leave the area (especially the country) your son lives in for a long period of time…one way you can change the world is by making your son’s world a better place..
even if you can’t see him.. you could write him letters.. record video of you for him … even start a website to talk about your life so that he can learn more about you….
i will definitely pray for you and your family!
~mary
#746Mike Rauh » August 23rd, 2009 at 1:59 pm:
Doug,
The post “Chocolate Process” must have photos. I would love to see them.
Mike Rauh
#747Dom » August 24th, 2009 at 5:13 am:
Yes I have to say after searching around for an article discussing what to take when camping yours is the first I have found that seems to cover everything. Well done, its simple to read and would make beginner camping a doddle… well atleast the packing part!
#748Erica Johansson » August 24th, 2009 at 6:03 am:
Beautifully written! One of the best articles so far here on TravelBlogs.com This reminds me of the importance of not rushing through things in the belief that you’ll see more. Going slower is by far better. Also, better to travel by train than flying, better to cycle than driving, and better to walk than cycle.
#749wimora » August 24th, 2009 at 5:48 pm:
ja ja, los ticos ya ni siquiera necesitamos defendernos, de las burradas que nos inventan.
Lo que no recuerdo es cuando fuimos a buscar trabajo a Nicaragua
#750It’s All About The Gems In The Dominican Republic » August 25th, 2009 at 10:26 pm:
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#751ray moyes » August 26th, 2009 at 4:21 am:
Surrey is a nice place,sure it has some issues but so do many other places.The U.S. has worse places of comparable size.
#752dillon hill » August 27th, 2009 at 11:47 am:
:O
#753lift surfer - the ride share guy » August 28th, 2009 at 1:58 am:
Amen! I think you really need a few months in a place to get a good grasp. Running around looking at tourist attractions for a day or two doesnt do justice for a place.
#754lift surfer - the ride share guy » August 28th, 2009 at 2:00 am:
Great blog entry! I really want to go and visit the Stans. Only been to Pakistan so far…
#755lift surfer - the ride share guy » August 28th, 2009 at 2:01 am:
Wow.. that looks awesome! Sure beats my crappy old holy tent. (and no, its not blessed by the pope)
#756lift surfer - the ride share guy » August 28th, 2009 at 2:02 am:
Great blog entry! I’ll have to get my girlfriend to read it! We just hasd a holiday from hell…..
#757lift surfer - the ride share guy » August 28th, 2009 at 2:04 am:
Zoop, Im sure you mean east europe!
west europe is expeeensive! especially with my crappy aussie dollars.
#758lift surfer - the ride share guy » August 28th, 2009 at 2:05 am:
Definitely not. Its dangerous being a female traveller. A male can generally go anywhere, any place. Trying doing that if your a solo female in say…. Iraq!
#759Jay Man » August 28th, 2009 at 5:06 am:
For all you who think Costa Rica isn’t a 3rd world country… My Wife is a Tica who lived in a two bedroom home, with the back yard converted into two more rooms. Wood palates for flooring, and random sheets of ply wood for a roof. More than 12 people lived in that home.
Not all of Costa Rica is warm and sunny either… She lived in the mountains, were temperatures reach as low as 60 degrees (F) in winter months.
I’m not trying to paint a “Woe is Me” picture ” Lala72… The fact is, there are a lot of extremely low income families in Costa Rica, but I would take living in their culture any day of the week over our materialistic ideals…
“DL”… There isn’t one bit of truth to his comment…
Moderator’s note: Post edited to remove personal insults
#760Kaitlin M » August 29th, 2009 at 10:04 am:
To be consitantly out in the world for 8 years, that’s just I have no words.
I agree with you on the work issue – all the time you are trading your time for a job you don’t like, and you can never get back that time.
Looking at everyone in their jobs, I like you, just don’t get it. It’s good to know I’m not the only one who thinks it’s strange.
Good luck with your future travels.
#761Ejail Peterson » August 29th, 2009 at 8:33 pm:
Hi
Traveling is the best way for internment and spend our holidays.
you have the more fun ,when you are traveling in a group ,you explanation your feelings together .alone traveling is a boring job.
with regard
Ejail Peterson
#762Vacations » August 31st, 2009 at 4:05 pm:
Many people even when visit any good country or state, do not sometimes visit the places they should have, may be coz they are not aware of that place, few of the places u just mentioned above are ought to be visited when on a vacation. I always suggest the people who are vacating, to learn about a place before you are to visit & your blog may remind a few people what they missed on their vacation to these states or countries. Thanks for the Useful info.
#763Dave and Deb » August 31st, 2009 at 11:25 pm:
Hey Lift Surfer. Dave and I have certainly had our share of fights on the road. Good to see you can still smile about the holiday from hell:) That is half of the battle.
Thanks Mich! Well put. That is all that counts, I would rather squabble with Dave than travel without him.
#764Dave and Deb » August 31st, 2009 at 11:27 pm:
Meggy,I am so happy that you inspired to give travel with a loved one another shot. It can be very rewarding as long as you go into it with your eyes open. Yes there will be fights, yes there will be frustrations, but wow there are going to be some incredible times that you will remember together forever. Have a great trip!
#765Dave and Deb » August 31st, 2009 at 11:29 pm:
Bruce, congratulations on your new marriage. Thanks for your comments and I hope that you enjoy many happy travels in the future. Cheers!
#766Dave and Deb » August 31st, 2009 at 11:31 pm:
Messi and Cheap Hotel Dublin, thank you very much for your comments. I agree with you Messi, we should all appreciate everyone’s different points of view. For me traveling with Dave is what I love, but for others traveling Solo is definitely for them. It is all about what each person prefers and that is what life is all about.
#767Shannon OD » September 1st, 2009 at 2:13 am:
I’m up! Thanks for having me on this community – look forward to interacting with all of the other travelers here!
#768VVS-Hedestoker » September 1st, 2009 at 6:29 pm:
Very interesting and inspiring …
#769Anna Michaels » September 1st, 2009 at 7:00 pm:
Hi….great blog and a very interesting article.Really glad to know that people have found out a very innovative way of enjoying the pleasure of India in Singapore
Continue the good work.
Regards
Anna Michaels
#770Andy Jarosz » September 2nd, 2009 at 1:29 am:
Great article Cate, I will try and remember your advice next time I’m in a city and walking at my usual high speed. As you so eloquently say, there are so many “little things” that we can observe just by opening our eyes and looking at seemingly everyday activities.
#771Sheheryar » September 2nd, 2009 at 7:53 am:
I would like to visit your blog i hope it will helpful.
Thanks,
Sheheryar
#772anon » September 2nd, 2009 at 11:11 am:
Loneliness is being safe, remember not to meet with strangers if you come to me country which is Turkey, read what happens to foreign travelers who interact with strangers.
#773Solo Road Trip by Tammie Dooley » Dog Days of Winter » September 3rd, 2009 at 4:53 pm:
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#775Mrugesh » September 3rd, 2009 at 8:25 pm:
Uzbekistan has not been a lot in the news since it was made but I know its beautiful. I’d love to visit the ancient city of Samarkand and Bukhara.
#776Mrugesh » September 3rd, 2009 at 8:27 pm:
Traveling is same as life. Life is a journey and need a companion because after a little while it gets boring and lonely. We need a partner in traveling, if we have someone its better.
#777Adrian » September 4th, 2009 at 2:38 am:
Hi Guys, i be visit Guanajuato this October 2009, for the Cervantino Festival, and i would like to meet some gays guys there, let me know if we can meet there i be there oct 25 to Nov 01, 2009. Hola a todos estare visitando Guanajuato en Octubre 2009, para el Festival Cervantino, y me gustaria conocer algunos gays si es pobible, estare visitando a partir de octubre 25 a noviembre 01, del 2009.
#778Eunice » September 4th, 2009 at 2:43 am:
hi.. first time visit here from Singapore.
I like to visit Little India for their authentic Indian cuisine and used to shop alot at the 24-hr Mustafa when we went there for supper… getting older now so hardly take late night supper now lol
#779Debby » September 4th, 2009 at 1:04 pm:
Sara,
I’m glad that have my words have encouraged you! It is over a month later, and I am curious as to how your solo travels went! Please let me know.
Debby (Tea, Sugar, a Dream)
#780Martin » September 5th, 2009 at 1:09 am:
Interesting stuff you got here. Will become a regular now
#781Conor - Tasmania Trip » September 6th, 2009 at 5:23 am:
Really happy to see that little old Tasmania has made into the top 12 hidden gems. As a local I have often taken Tasmania for granted, but now that I’m on the other side of the world in the UK (and seen a lot more of the world since I left Tassie) I’ve realised how much it has to offer. In fact I miss it so much I’ve made my own website on it called Tasmania Trip. If you’re ever down the bottom end of the world make sure you check out Tasmania!
#782William Wallace » September 7th, 2009 at 1:05 am:
I like the idea of flash packing, however my girlfriend thinks that means to only take 2 large suitcases instead of 3…….
#783wrinklie » September 8th, 2009 at 10:58 pm:
Sounds like Chris should have quite a bit of knowledge to share. thanks
#784gregor » September 8th, 2009 at 11:13 pm:
Great article. When traveling as a couple and not part of a larger group any ‘differences’ need to be resolved quickly as you are very dependent on each other. Possibly your partner is the only person around that even talks the same language as you.
#785capetowntravel » September 9th, 2009 at 5:05 am:
A picture is worth a thousand words but to share your travel experience with a loved one is priceless. I could not imagine myself travelling by myself. It does wonders for any relationship to take some time off from the “rat race” and enjoy quality time with your family. I’m making a point this year to travel and explore Cape Town, South Africa which is my home town before travelling elsewhere next year.
#786capetowntravel » September 9th, 2009 at 5:10 am:
Life is short and the more time you can spend travelling with your partner the better for your marriage. Nothing better than planning and sharing the whole travel experience with my best friend and life partner.
#787The Longest Way Home » September 10th, 2009 at 8:03 pm:
It’s good to see subjects like this published, as it’s not an often spoken about topic. Though, the real life issues of Racism on the Road are all to prevalent. And, unfortunately, don’t seem to be going away.
#788memory foam » September 12th, 2009 at 2:34 pm:
Very good points. One thing I’d add that has helped me is to be careful not to take too many photos .. taking a small number which you’ve put a lot of attention and thought into almost always works better. Getting in the habit of shooting everything leads to a lot of superficial photos.
#789Paul Moroney » September 14th, 2009 at 10:46 pm:
Hi Dan,
A brilliant blog,thanks very much.
Can i be cheeky Dan, and ask if it would be possible to give an idea of the price of common goods as you go through each country. A bit like the ’shopping baskets’ they use to compare supermarkets! For example 2 or three ‘must have’ items, like a the price of a beer, and maybe the average cost of accomodation? It would be so useful to help me budget for a similar journey to yours.
Thanks very much,
Paul
#790anonymous » September 15th, 2009 at 1:33 am:
Cate you must go to Greece. Just come back from Lagos on the beautiful island of Paxos. Fanstastic fresh food with no Macdonalds or english breakfast in site. These people have life cracked – there is no word for stress in their alphabet
#791sapience » September 15th, 2009 at 9:22 pm:
if you like riding so i think people should be go mumbai to goa on bike
i can say that will be your best jurney
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shubh
sapience
#792Nisha » September 18th, 2009 at 12:39 am:
Liked the article. But little bit of racism is everywhere in this world, especially in country sides. They look at you with amusement.
#793Allan » September 18th, 2009 at 3:10 am:
don’t forget the ear plugs 5 pr weigh less than an ounce. Invaluable on noisy trips or when trying to sleep in a noisy area
#794William Wallace » September 19th, 2009 at 8:58 am:
Are you crazy 3 pairs of underwear, I personally couldn’t be bothered washing as often as you, also drying off with a t-shirt you have no class or style. An iPod comes in useful when you are bored out your mind suffering another delayed plane or on a boring train journey. There are however a few good tips that are wee gems.
#795Emerald » September 21st, 2009 at 8:06 pm:
Snow , snow and snow !!! It is a cool country with snow halt of the year ???
#796Crazy Journeys » September 22nd, 2009 at 8:06 am:
Good article. Racism comes in all shapes and sizes but hits home most when it is unexpected. Coming from London with it’s multitude of nationalities and general tollerance I was quite shocked when spending time in East Germany with highly “educated” and “inteligent” young people to find the level of outright racism. The comments that they made in relation to eastern europeans and muslims were shocking and saddend me.
#797Kelake » September 23rd, 2009 at 11:38 am:
Yes having your own family traditions that remain constant no matter where you are in the world gives the kids a sense of continuity. Christmas dinners, pancake saturdays, Sunday dinners and all the traditional food that is seldom available where we live forces us to learn how to make these dishes from scratch. It’s a great education for the kids to see where their food comes from and how to prepare it. It’s much healthier than the processed and packaged alternative we would likely buy if at home.
Nice post.
#798Keith » September 23rd, 2009 at 5:34 pm:
Awesome article Andy. I recall the days in the 80’s when I always felt awkward walking down the streets of small towns in Germany or Austria. The stares I attracted gave me the shivers each time.
Most people are very curious why I look Asian but have an English name and live in the Netherlands. It’s too confusing to most. Haha! Most of them ask what my real (Malay) name is. As a global traveller, I feel obliged to provide some education to the people I meet. So, I give them a short history lesson about the Brits colonising Malaysia in the 19th century, blending in with the locals et voila, I was born and that’s how I got my English name!
You are right Andy: racism is born mostly out of pure ignorance. If only people would travel more and explore/understand other cultures without passing judgement. This world would be a better place.
#799Florzzy » September 23rd, 2009 at 11:02 pm:
I am Singaporean female. About 7 years back, I travelled solo to Thailand, Bangkok for 3 days.
I stayed at a 2-star hotel near Chinatown or was it a 2-star, maybe 1-star(I was quite a goondu than, I didn’t check up on the hotel, cannot recall the name of the hotel).
The hotel staff would tell me in a warning tone to lock my room doors since I travel alone.
It was a free-and-easy trip but I joined the other people taking the same van that picked us up from the airport on organized trip offerred by the van driver to the famous Chinese monastry (I didn’t enter the monastry, just shop around the area and wait for the other people to finish), took a boat trip across the river where I saw huge cat-fish rushing up to eat the bread that was thrown to feed them. On and off, there were boat peddlers stopping alongside our boat trying to sell souvneirs in the middle of the river! In the evening we watched singing and comedy performances at a threatre, all the artise were men dressed like women. At the end of the show, you need to pay if you want to take photos with them. Then we visited the factory where they sold us leather bags and wallets.
I didn’t like the hotel condition and would get out as soon as I woke up only returning there when it was time to call it a day.
From the hotel, I took a cab to the Mah Boon Kong shopping center, the food at the Japanese restuarant there were good, then I visited the market where people say things were cheap there. I didn’t like it and I didn’t even dare eat the market food there, didn’t look hygenic to me.
I was very cautious when taking the cab alone and everywhere I went I was on high alert because of the warning from the hotel staff and the travel guide.
However, the people I travelled with were asians excep for two Australians who were mother and daughter, all of them were unfriendly and they kept to themselves.
After 3 days, I returned to Singapore well and unscathed having explored Bangkok on a solo trip which I shocked my friends when I told them I went there for 3 days alone.
#800hector » September 24th, 2009 at 4:15 pm:
so are there any bars to visit while in san miguel allende? if so what is the name will be there in 10/16-10/19
#801Paola Santos » September 25th, 2009 at 2:24 am:
Great article Greg! I totally relate to this…I moved from Mexico to the UK 6 years ago, and I have always wondering about the unsettling feeling of wanting to be a foreigner. I think the idea of alignment between feeling as a foreigner at home with being a real foreigner in another country makes a lot of sense.
Thanks for publishing and looking forward to more of your posts!
Paola
#802Shangrila Murree » September 28th, 2009 at 4:27 pm:
Great Interview Nora. Making money to travel, when traveling is not so easy. So well done Nora! And congrats on the book!Thanks for the sharing.
#803Greg Wesson » September 28th, 2009 at 10:03 pm:
Thanks Paola. Nice to hear from other people who went through a similar experience. As someone who is just new to living abroad (just a little over a year), I’m interested to hear from others about their experiences, as maybe it will provide me a glimpse into my future.
Greg
#804Shannon OD » September 28th, 2009 at 11:10 pm:
I love the paper underwear!! I have never heard of them, that’s pretty funny.
As for the jeans – I actually have not for a second regretted bringing a regular old pair of jeans on my RTW trip. I am prone to getting cold and traveling through the UK, even during the summer, made me appreciate having them (with a pair of leggings under them!). I say that it’s a highly personal choice on the jeans and that taking them to Europe is OK – maybe not necessary in India/SEA
Love the others though, and those paper underwear have me scratching my head a bit – must go google them!
#805Shannon OD » September 29th, 2009 at 12:47 am:
Laos factors in as perhaps my favorite country visited at this point – and I also couldn’t have pointed it out on a map before planning for the trip. The country is a gem and I loved, loved, loved getting off even the traditional path a little and trekking through some of the more remote areas.
#806Shannon OD » September 29th, 2009 at 2:25 am:
Beautiful take on volunteering and I look forward to reading through your volunteering journey and progress on the documentary on your own site.
#807Jodi » September 30th, 2009 at 1:56 am:
Very interesting read, and as a Canadian with a serious wanderlust problem (and years spent living abroad) strangely comforting to know there’s method in our collective madness
In my experience, settling in to a life abroad is easier if the place is starkly different from the one I knew. So living in a small town in the wetlands of South America was at first a shock, but became easy quickly, whereas getting used to NYC took a lot longer. If you haven’t already, check out Network Canada for Cdn expats in London http://www.networkcanada.org/news/main.asp. Jodi
#808mare » October 1st, 2009 at 6:59 am:
hi, I’ll be at SMA in two weeks for the Cervantino, is there any gay place? I will like to meet someone there but it doesn’t seem like it is a gay scene at all… =(
(I am a girl looking for gay people to hang out, pleaaaaase help!)
#809Ling » October 2nd, 2009 at 8:07 am:
I think it’ll change by 2020. Travel is one of the best forms of diplomacy, along with reaching out to the world’s children.
#810WhereBJimmyB » October 3rd, 2009 at 3:00 am:
Ah yes, I can smell the pungent aromas from here. At the end of a long day, week or month in India, such sensory overload leave you drained. Funny part is, not even three or four days away and you’re ready to dive back in. That’s India. Thank you for sharing.
#811anonymous » October 5th, 2009 at 3:00 am:
Haha – A serious article, but very funny also. I recently came back from Spain, we had to pay an extra 45 pounds as my wife overpacked. Not really her fault I guess as we were taking our baby but I’m sure some of those extra pairs of shoes could have stayed at home!
#812Travelers Community » October 5th, 2009 at 2:41 pm:
I had an incredible experience traveling for nine weeks with my girlfriend (now my wife) and am looking forward to many more long-term trips in the future.
in my experience, it’s important to remember that you are a team and to work with each other, not against.
#813joel » October 5th, 2009 at 3:11 pm:
Actually, in Guanajuato, there are at least two gay bars. Aside from El Paraiso (noted above), there is a more active bar called Whoo-pees. It’s located on the street around the corner from the Campanero Bridge toward the Cervantino theater. I’ve been told that there are two other smaller local bars, but I don’t know where they are. My partner & I will be there during the tail end of the cervantino festival. He arrives on the 28th, and I arrive on the 30th. If anyone has any recommendations in Morelia, Patzcuaro & San Miguel, we’ll be in those places also… We’ll be in MX from October 28-November 8.
#814UrbanTravelGirl » October 6th, 2009 at 2:46 am:
Greg, MUCHAS GRACIAS y GRAZIE MILLE for this post!! I am SO with you on the “existential migration” feeling. I’m an African-American woman from Chicago who’s lived in Florence, Italy, and dreams of living abroad again. I always tell people that I’m never more comfortable than when I’m away from home, out of my element. I’ve never understood this, but I am SO glad you and Dr. Madison have given voice and a name to this treasured “affliction.” There’s no rational way to explain my longing for life overseas (except that if there is such a thing as past lives, I spent mine in a Mediterranean country). Keep up the great, thoughtful writing — I’m going to print this post and share it with my family when they wonder what happened to this daughter of theirs! LOL
#815Greg Wesson » October 6th, 2009 at 8:39 pm:
Hi Jodi and UrbanTravelGirl!
Glad to see that others have connected with the concept in the same way I have. The research by Dr. Madison was an interesting read. Some of it didn’t connect with me as much as other parts of it, but on the whole it definitely spoke to me and what I had been feeling.
Jodi – I have deliberately been avoiding (for the most part) the Canadian expat community, actually. Nothing against them, but right now I am relishing living as a bit of a unique entity in my life – the only Canadian in London I know. Over time I am sure that my longing for Canadian-esque things will bring me closer to those who also share my background, but for now I am enjoying the lack of any connections back to home.
UrbanTravelGirl – Hopefully my post helps your family understand a little better. If nothing else, its nice to be able to say to your family, “I’m not the only one.”
Cheers,
Greg
#816ashley » October 6th, 2009 at 10:06 pm:
this i s great idea and a great post.a dispsoable camera is good because you take natural pictures and dont spend ages seting up shots. also theres little chance of getting mugged for one
#817Anonymous » October 7th, 2009 at 7:34 am:
Great article, I really enjoyed reading this. I would agree that there are advantages to traveling alone and with others. However, I think that proper planning of a trip will help you enjoy it more if you have an idea of what you want to do and where you’re going, it will be a more enjoyable trip no matter whom you are with.
#818Cecilia » October 8th, 2009 at 4:33 am:
I don’t think solo or together is better, one way or the other. Each has its advantages and disadvantages.
I travel solo because I have no partner and because my friends have different tastes in holidays, and those few friends who have similar travel styles, already have other plans. I don’t let that stop me from going.
I think one major advantage of travelling solo is it makes you so much more open to contact with others. On a bus you are automatically seated next to a stranger. A conversation starter for sure, whereas as a couple you tend to take two seats next to each other and talk to each other. And yes, the utter flexibility and freedom are great!
People say: “but what if you get sick, you have no one to take care of you?” But I travelled with a friend once and we both got very sick at the same time and were no use to each other…
Of course sharing experiences is nice, especially remeniscing after the trip… but I still do that with friends I made while travelling too. It also depends on the travel partner as to whether sharing those experiences is fun or not. It can be quite a test on the relationship / friendship.
Anyway, I conclude in the same way I started: one is not better than the other. Each has its pros and cons. (The same goes for organised groups, I guess….)
Happy travels to all!
#819Anonymous » October 8th, 2009 at 6:55 pm:
I don’t think a disposable camera is very “2009ish”. I mean digital photography was a revolution in the way we take travel photos.
While is is a nice article, i think the idea is a bit old.
#820United Planet » October 9th, 2009 at 12:57 am:
I feel your pain, travel blogging is definitely not easy. This book seems like it could be helpful and I look forward to picking it up.
#821iyke mawuena » October 9th, 2009 at 4:21 am:
well done and i wish u ahappy stay in ghana
#822Al » October 9th, 2009 at 4:41 am:
I am traveling to San miguel this November 2009, I would like to know if there are some place to have some fun… anyone???
#823Jizzer » October 9th, 2009 at 8:37 am:
Totally disagree, i would never bring my laptop with me on a trip, to much risk of getting lost, stollen of forgotten………….
#824Anonymous » October 10th, 2009 at 5:06 am:
All the luck to Richard, hope he checks sharm el Sheikh…
#825Shannon OD » October 10th, 2009 at 8:18 am:
Fun tips and always good little reminders there for general photography rules – I love the “if it’s not interesting you’re not close enough” that’s great!
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#827Milton Wongso » October 13th, 2009 at 9:40 am:
I like your tips “Shoot with/from your heart.” It shows that photography has some human elements, not just a technical rule. Keep up the good work!
#828Milton Wongso » October 13th, 2009 at 9:51 am:
Hi Greg,
I can totally relate to you. I am myself an “existential migrant” from Indonesia to Vancouver, Canada. I have been living in this “strange” land for seven years and loving every piece of it. Although a part of myself wonders if Vancouver is the final destination or whether I should go back to Indonesia – the fact of living somewhere else excites every nerve of mine.
In addition to the excitement of overseas living, I was told once by a fortune teller that my future will be better and better as I move away from my birth land. I don’t buy it 100%. However, I do know that the future of living in a totally strange country is brighter than ever.
So you are not the only one my friend. Life will just get better
#829Milton Wongso » October 13th, 2009 at 10:01 am:
I laughed when you say they are only interested in the color of your money than skin.
I think it is true especially if you travel to a developing country like India or Indonesia. People just have this perception – if you hold the green bill, you are richer than an average local person, which can very well translate to their well-being if you make purchases.
My advice on the racism is forget and move on. What I found is everywhere you go, there will always be “racism” to some extent. It is up to us how we respond.
Cheers,
Milton
#830Milton Wongso » October 13th, 2009 at 10:11 am:
Hmm very interesting Cate.
I have visited Singapore several times but I have never heard of this Little India place.
Other great places are People Park and the Chinatown area where there is a streamline of food vendors. What’s interesting from this is Singaporean government took a really good care of the street; Solicitors are not allowed to approach guests on the tables – there is a sign on the table that fines solicitors if they ever get caught. I find it quite entertaining actually – as some solicitors don’t give a damn.
#831Milton Wongso » October 13th, 2009 at 10:33 am:
Another great one. I’d like to visit mine one day, China, although I kept on thinking whether I can survive the living situation.
#832Milton Wongso » October 13th, 2009 at 11:10 am:
Thank you so much for posting the article. One tough challenge is to learn a language with different characters than your own like Chinese Kanji characters.
My mother tongue is Indonesian. I can easily pick up English due to its similar alphabetic nature with Indonesian – we use A-Z English alphabets.
Chinese characters have its own language characters. I think the best way to learn is to get immersed in the society. The more often you practice is, the better chance you’ll master it.
#833Milton Wongso » October 13th, 2009 at 11:13 am:
Thanks for giving the reasons of SRT, although it does not hurt to travel with someone you love, you know, so you can share being “disconnected” together.
#834Milton Wongso » October 13th, 2009 at 11:15 am:
When you are out in a foreign land, it is good to know there is someone who can care for you i.e. in case you get sick or lost.
#835Dave and Deb » October 14th, 2009 at 7:06 am:
Wow, I didn’t even know that people could leave a message on this page. Sorry for not getting back to you sooner. Thank you Elaine, Bilety and Claudia. We have been working towards becoming full time travelers for years. It has been a slow process, but by keeping focused on our goals, we can finally travel freely.
It has been a lot of work, but well worth it:)
Cheers
Deb and Dave
#836Tammie Dooley » October 14th, 2009 at 8:55 am:
Anonymous, since when is losing or dropping and breaking your DIGITAL camera an “old” idea?? This article is about being stuck with NOTHING but a disposable camera option. It’s about making lemonade out of lemons. Not very 2009ish, indeed.
#837Jim » October 16th, 2009 at 1:35 am:
Very Interesting indeed lots to talk about
#838MattA » October 16th, 2009 at 6:28 am:
Don’t take a towel? “Everyone should know where his towel is!”
http://www.towel.org.uk
#839Aaron Schubert » October 17th, 2009 at 11:30 pm:
Wow, that’s pretty cool. I guess it would take a long time to set up, but sure worth it. Nothing is worse than sand in the sleeping bag and all throughout your tent! You would almost need a truck to carry it all!
#840vicki karno » October 20th, 2009 at 3:51 am:
We are planning trip to Buenos Aires, Montevideo, and Santiago in Feb.
Would love to receive your suggestions. When are you going?
#841Frugal Expat in Abu Dhabi » October 20th, 2009 at 5:45 pm:
great article. I have been an expat for almost 7 years now.. and I am hoping to move to a new place soon to explore another culture.
Cheers
#842Frugal Expat in Abu Dhabi » October 20th, 2009 at 5:53 pm:
Your post is very interesting and inspiring. I will get married next year and I wish to share my passion to travel with my partner in life..
Cheers..
#843LoriLynn » October 21st, 2009 at 4:02 am:
My experience is that racism is everywhere and seems to be a natural human tendancy that is built in to our DNA no matter what level of education we have, or country we come from. It’s everywhere. We like to think that in the year 2009 the human race is better than that, but not much has changed. I do agree with you Milton in that it is up to us on how we respond.
LoriLynn
#844Milton » October 21st, 2009 at 4:20 am:
Congrats to you Nora on escaping the mundaneness of life.
If you don’t mind me asking, what are the potential business opportunities that you have found working as a traveler living in a budget?
#845Greg Wesson » October 22nd, 2009 at 8:08 pm:
It’s funny that the of the 3 random destinations I picked as examples of city breaks, Steve James from Overland Tales has actually visited two of them this year! I guess there is still time to make it to Riga and Bratislava before the year is out.
Greg
#846Double existential migrant? » October 23rd, 2009 at 2:47 pm:
Interesting article, I can certainly relate to it but my situation is a bit more complicated. I emigrated to Australia when I was a kid but with my asian looks and slightly different accent have always felt like an outsider. Nor am I ‘truly’ Asian since I’ve spent most of my life in Aus. And so now I feel neither a local nor a foreigner in Asia or Australia. I feel an urge to move but where should I go to feel at home at being foreign? Africa?
#847bill mann » October 23rd, 2009 at 3:33 pm:
Very few people know the real story here, though. Andy Hobotraveler is actually the twin brother of famous American actor William H Macy. His drinking and obsessive traveling and blog writing are a result of his disappointment and bitterness about his and his brother’s original plans to develop a comedy act together. Bill lost interest, started taking acting lessons, and made it big, while Andy was left behind. Andy (Hobo) is only now finding peace in his heart, and recently reunited with Bill after 22 years of not speaking to him. A heartwarming story, when you think about it….
#848NickM » October 24th, 2009 at 1:40 am:
I never really thought about making money off of a blog.. but apparently it’s possible! Might give this book a looksie.
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#850Greenhousecarol » October 24th, 2009 at 2:26 pm:
I am probably older than many of the writers here. My partner and I have raised 2 kids, worked in normal jobs, paid a mortgage, and in all of this managed to travel throughout the world, often with kids in tow. We have had a long-term ’saving for travel’ strategy. Read about it at my travel blog, but basically you need to get off the consumer treadmill and put money aside. I also think you enjoy your travel more when you don’t travel ‘on credit’. Other advice – travel throughout your life. Don’t wait!
#851Craig » October 24th, 2009 at 6:36 pm:
They’re both fantastic, Greg. Go and enjoy! (If I had to pick one, I’d return to Riga … can’t really say why, but I would.)
#852Abdullah tahmid » October 25th, 2009 at 5:56 pm:
Oppsssss…. The GIRL is so so so so so so…. Beautiful
#853Darrell » October 26th, 2009 at 12:19 pm:
The economy has affected us but here is an idea.
Our family loves to travel. We love the old west, the beach, the Blue Ridge and Smoky Mountains and historic sites such as Mount Vernon and Independence Hall. Our family owns a condo at Chetola Resort in Blowing Rock, North Carolina on the Blue Ridge Parkway. This has been a family get-a-way for years and we never tire of the beauty of the mountains, the slow pace and the amenities the area has to offer. From the quaint little town of Blowing Rock with its shops and restaurants to Linville Falls and Caverns and Biltmore House to activities like horseback riding, skiing, whitewater rafting and hiking.
In May of 2009 we were offered a friend’s condo for a week in Bradenton, Fl. Excited to go, all the preparations had been made. As it turns out, the week was not available after all and we thought our trip would be canceled. We could have chosen to stay in a hotel, but that would not be very comfortable for 5 people. So we started brainstorming. If we were going to use someone’s condo for the week, maybe we could trade a week at our condo for a week in Florida. We started emailing other owners of rental properties of similar size and cost. After about 6 or 7 attemps with with no success we found a delightful 2 bedroom house in St. Petersburg, Fl. Their ad on a vacation rental site read “would consider swapping”, so we emailed the owner and 2 days later we had an agreement. We would go to St. Petersburg in June and the other owner would stay a week at our place in Blowing Rock in November. Our condo is not usually booked much in November so it was a win-win for both of us.
As it turns out not being on a beach was a blessing as we visited 6 different beaches. No money changed hands so no taxes were required. With the savings on a rental or hotel we were able to visit 2 theme parks. We spent one day at Busch Gardens and one at Seaworld.
When we arrived home and reflected on our trip we realized that there should be an easier, more user friendly way to find owners who want to trade, swap or exchange vacation rental properties. So we have started this website to help do just that.
totovr.com is owned and operated by Darrell and Caroline Smith.
#854Alabama Rock Company » October 27th, 2009 at 7:58 am:
Thanks so much for the great tips! It seems we all get caught up in the digital world and overlook the simple power of film! I take pictures of Alabama with a Nikon d-80 and may try to use a disposable and see what I can capture!
Thanks MUch Chandler
#855Eric » October 27th, 2009 at 3:10 pm:
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#857Sydney » October 27th, 2009 at 4:05 pm:
This is true, the economy has affected a lot of travel plans this year. Things are looking up though at the moment. A lot of the economies are starting to stabalize and pick up. So lets not despair tarvelling will be back on the map soon enough.
#858Jacob » October 27th, 2009 at 4:13 pm:
Nothing better than travelling alone, you are forced to meet new people and don’t have to worry about what other people want to do. great article.
#859Greg Wesson » October 27th, 2009 at 10:47 pm:
@Double existential migrant – That is a situation that a few people mentioned in the research commented on – that they no longer fit in anywhere, as they don’t fit in completely where they live now, nor would they fit in anymore back in their home country.
Unfortunately, the reading I’ve read doesn’t provide an answer for you. It is possible that once a person is migrated, they are stuck being a migrant forever.
#860milton@travelonspy.com » October 28th, 2009 at 4:45 am:
I like your suggestion Carol. Credit card will eat away our savings and make us worried by the end of month. Travel won’t be as fun if you have debt to pay.
#861Frugal Expat in Abu Dhabi » October 28th, 2009 at 10:25 pm:
well said.. ‘True, travel disasters are often the funniest, most entertaining stories, but only to certain people. Namely, people who don’t travel.’
#862Frugal Expat in Abu Dhabi » October 28th, 2009 at 10:34 pm:
I like your idea Darrell!
#863A.C. » October 29th, 2009 at 9:01 am:
I have a few stories that people can’t get enough of, and funny enough they were most definitely “disasters” at the time! Great post!
#864Prime » October 29th, 2009 at 4:14 pm:
“People who travel like to hear the good stuff. …They understand the existential quality of a quiet day spent sipping strong coffee and cheap (but good) red wine at a French café.” — I can’t agree more. i’m not very fond of hearing travel disasters because i’m such a worrywart. what im fond of telling and hearing is the happiness that i feel inside whenever im on the road or just inside a cafe sipping brewed coffee, while reading another cozy mystery novel
#865ExplorerChica » October 29th, 2009 at 9:32 pm:
Wow…! A friend of mine posted this link to her fb space, and it hit the mark with me so accurately that I am still shocked!
It’s good to get a scientific explanation to why I always have to pack up and go, and it is a relief to find out that there are others like me as well! 
You mentioned about wondering if you can go home again, and I can share my experience on that. I have just spent the last 3 years back in my home country after some 6 years living in different countries, and it has been weird. I have felt even more outsider here than I did anywhere else, and though it has been nice to see family and friends more, I am now packing up my bag again. This was an experience, not a totally bad one, but I don’t quite see myself coming back home for a while now, possibly never. I enjoy my “home” country more when I am only a visitor. I guess I enjoy life more, when constantly the other foot out of the door. Though that sounds kinda sad, eh? I mean, may I just have commitment issues, and I disquise it as wanderlust…
Oh well, thanks for the post Greg and happy travels for everyone!
xxx
#866fabuluousman » October 30th, 2009 at 1:19 am:
“what was it like?” “what did you see?”
It will give you different story because you never expected what will happen.
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#868Elina » October 30th, 2009 at 9:45 am:
Thanks a lot for posting this – like the others who have posted a comment, this really hit home with me, as well as a lot of my friends who had the same reaction! As a Finnish person in London, I’ve also long wondered about this, and even talked about it many times with my friends – thanks to you and Dr. Madison we’ve now found an answer! Mind you, I’ve even managed to marry another existential migrant – my British husband says he feels more at home in Finland than he does in the UK… the opposite of me
But between us we’ll figure it out!
#869George Alexandrou » November 3rd, 2009 at 11:11 am:
Agree 100%. With travel, my motto is less is more. Taking time to really explore the area you are at without feeling rushed. It is the key to planning prior to leaving for your holiday.
#870John Batdorff » November 3rd, 2009 at 4:12 pm:
Great post…we do think alike..;)
#871William Wallace » November 4th, 2009 at 4:11 am:
Travel disasters are just part of life, shit happens that’s just the way it goes sometimes. I had my own personal disaster on Sunday, I took the wrong turning when looking for Fleet Street in London and got hopelessly lost. I must have taken me an hour longer to get there than it should have.
I eventually found fleet Street, I was in search of a couple of historic pubs, which unknown to me are both closed on Sundays, which was a real downer, but such is life.
#872Angela » November 5th, 2009 at 12:22 am:
When you travel is very common to have misadventures, it’s just part of it. Disasters can happen when traveling as well as when you are at home. Maybe the secret is just start considering traveling as part of normal life
Nice post!
#873James L. Moore » November 5th, 2009 at 7:55 am:
And I thought our river rafting trips were luxurious! But, I have to confess to getting older and the idea of bringing it all with you is not as much of a deal-breaker as it once was. I especially like the “Persian” rug touch…
#874James L. Moore » November 5th, 2009 at 8:03 am:
My wife and I spent 6 months on three separate converted-bus adventures in Central America — driving from Seattle each time, sharing the bus, typically, with 7 to 8 companions/adventurers/friends — and I wholeheartedly concur with your insights.
In addition, since we are traveling in a group, we set one, maybe two objectives max for each trip and then let serendipity decide the rest. It has worked perfectly so far…
#875Greg Wesson » November 5th, 2009 at 10:22 am:
@ExplorerChica – You should check out some of the stuff from Dr. Madison’s site, because he talks about people’s ambivalent feelings towards home. He himself tried to move back to Canada after writing his book, but ended up moving back to England.
Partially, I do think that we perhaps fool ourselves with the “you can always go home again” myth, like there is a safe landing spot there. In reality, in the time we are away the place we came from changes, and so do we. You can never step in the same river twice, for it is always moving, as they say.
@Elina – Maybe you should pick a place in between the two countries?
#876DDirector » November 5th, 2009 at 12:33 pm:
Yeah, travel disaster stories can be interesting and funny… to outsiders. Real disasters make it difficult for a traveler to ever smile about.
In 1991, I was in Alaska visiting family. I was driving the family camper and immediately after leaving the Prince William sound area, a bear cub appeared out of the blue and decided to run along side the camper as I made a right turn. I slowed up and the bear decided to dart in front of the camper.
Speaking of disaster! I was crushed! The entire trip, we were complaining because we had yet to see a bear. Then the first bear we see, I kill it! I was 19 at the time.
#877Croatia Holidays » November 6th, 2009 at 11:37 am:
Boy I sure hate to carry things around. Except for my netbook, that is
. I can appreciate the idea completely.
#878Mary Morris » November 10th, 2009 at 1:23 am:
A number of years ago I was in a publication called “Bad Trips.” Really more of the entries were hilarious, though mine, from my memoir NOTHING TO DECLARE, was the tragic kind. But the truth is that, as a storyteller, disaster makes for better stories. Obviously there’s more tension and conflict. I have a student for example who has traveled the world with her tennis champion boyfriend. A happy, blissful life. And she is struggling with what the story is (I teach travel writing). I am a writer and person who looks for stories. My family has dined out on some pretty hysterical encounters with the Navajo tribal police (I married my husband because he was at risk of being deported – he’s Canadian), and another with an Alaskan state trooper who thought we had kidnapped our own daughter. There have been similar, but less dramatic moments with a sand storm and iguanas in Costa Rica and another which belongs to my daughter (being guided in complete darkness in a Moroccan village with a man holding a flashlight that projected the image of Osama Bin Laden). And I have literally dozens of stories in Italy. (An essay of mine entitled “On Italian Time” tells of some of them) You can follow some of these on my travel blog. http://www.thewriterandthewanderer.blogspot.com. I will post them from time to time. By for me, well, though I love the pleasures of a relatively quiet life, disaster, not major, but minor, those silly inconviences, the weird coincidences, these are often the source a wonderful stories. And the journey might lie in the disgressions.
#879Jon Brandt » November 10th, 2009 at 12:48 pm:
Last year I volunteered with WorldTeach in Ecuador as an English teacher. The first week into the year contract, my night bus was hijacked. It was a terrible and shocking experience, but I wrote about it not thinking what kind of attention it would get. Slowly word got around throughout my friends, and eventually throughout the Internet as well. At the time, I wrote the story two days later while sitting on my bed, probably within a half hour, feeling some insane need to finish it as soon as possible before I forgot any detail.
My friend put it this way later on, “That hijacking is probably the best thing to happen to you.” He was making light of the situation, obviously, but he was on to something. This post got tons of exposure to my blog, helped me get an article request by Matador, and brought light about the situation in Ecuador to people around the world.
Since then, I’ve told the story dozens of times, and no matter what horror story someone has about a knife being pulled on them, mine will always trump. I wasn’t looking for that, but sometimes unexpected things like that will happen.
You can read that blog post on my blog Travel Guy, found here:
http://ttravelguy.blogspot.com/2008/09/great-bus-heist.html
#880Buddy Smith » November 13th, 2009 at 2:15 pm:
That’s true, I’ve been there before and the people are just really friendly, hospitable and you’ll get the feeling of being somewhere just beside your home. As a tourist I’d like to make new friends in everywhere I go.
#881Paul Carson » November 13th, 2009 at 5:14 pm:
When you travel you should be openned to experience all types of things, but if something that you were not expecing actually happens, you just have to get through it and laugh later. Bad experiences and “disasters” always make wonderful interesting stories.
#882Greg Batchelder » November 13th, 2009 at 5:18 pm:
There is nothing like the adventure trips experienced in Latinamerica. Countries such as Costa Rica, Panama, Venezuela etc. are just great to get a sense of the culture, live and feel nature and enjoy your vacations. in this countries anything can happen and it just makes it more and more interesting. I recently traveled to Costa Rica for 15 days and went to the best places in the country. Read more about my trip at http://bikingbaturs.blogspot.com, I went to Costa Rica through http://www.bananaadventuretours.com.
#883Samantha K » November 14th, 2009 at 12:02 pm:
HAHAH omg the picture you took of Surrey. That’s Newton and I live not even 2 minutes away from there. This is pretty damn funny. That sign isn’t there anymore and there is no wrestling place (it’s now a Save-On-Foods and Shoppers Drug Mart (:
A little less crappy..yet more crime.
#884Andrea » November 17th, 2009 at 4:45 am:
Sharp, funny and absolutely realistic!
as a Pescara fully grown-up boy now living in The Netherlands, you made me feel proud of my choice, once more.
ciao,
Andrea
#885Outrigger » November 17th, 2009 at 5:22 pm:
Love the perspective on travel. Much less common topic in travel. Great to read. Thanks for posting.
#886toronto tours » November 18th, 2009 at 2:36 pm:
I think anything that is “disastrous” always makes headline. Whether it be as small as getting lost like you mentioned, or bigger like a fight or broken leg, you somehow seem to remember those moments and talk about them more that you would if nothing bad happens. Human nature I guess!
#887Cheap Charley » November 18th, 2009 at 3:52 pm:
I have to aggree with your blog post that travel disasters keep the floks at ome tuned in, but I do something many times when I get emails that can show positive stuff in a interesting format. Pictures!
I post them on facebook, picasa and videos on youtube and then I either give them a URL to Youtube or flickr, or I direct link it as a attachment to them. Always get positive replies back, sometimes asking for more information or forwarded on to others that might be traveling in that direction later on.
Scuba diving pictures I find to be the best.
#888Cheap Charley » November 18th, 2009 at 4:32 pm:
I have been out on the road in Asia for the past 8 months and I am defiantly seeing some really good deals. In the past 3 months especially as some the previous bloggers have said, there are fewer travelers, so business owners are interested in getting heads in beds so that they can make their monthly nut and stay open.
For me the travel days when I am moving is when I am spending fast. When I can settle in I get a better feel for the place and I get dialed in to the local economy and learn the little tricks like where the locals shop, and where to exchange money.
Telecom and internet costs are dropping as more and more places have free WiFi Singapore Starbucks and Mcd’s have free WiFi. Food prices seem pretty stable with Bali the best bet there.
The cheap flights are going to be on the regional budget carriers like Air Asia, Tiger, Virgin, Cebu Pacific but there are even cheaper airlines that can save you 20% or more off the cheap airlines like Interisland , Nok Air & China Southern.
Funny thing I did run into a few times is the really good 2 star hotels and 3 star hotels are sometimes being booked out as business travelers are forced by there companies to drop down hotel classes to save money.
#889Southwest » November 19th, 2009 at 12:40 am:
Can’t wait to read this! Always looking for great travel adventures. Good luck
#890James L. Moore » November 19th, 2009 at 2:56 am:
For some of us, who are more shy about mingling with the locals when we are traveling, mishaps, disasters and unexpected detours tend to bring us into contact with the culture and, certainly, at the end of the day, make for a much better and more gratifying story once we return home.
#891Outrigger » November 19th, 2009 at 4:41 am:
I agree, less is definitely more. If I am able to find a great place, I always appreciate seeing it for more than just a day. I hate coming back from a trip feeling like I need a vacation from my vacation!
#892chris » November 19th, 2009 at 9:18 am:
Travellers ride the subway, tourists experience the subway.
#893cynthia in the french alps » November 23rd, 2009 at 8:09 pm:
Very, very interesting article. I moved to Italy when I was 38 – just sold everything, packed 2 suitcases and 2 cats and got on a plane. I spent 2 years there but had a difficult time of it due to the work issues and no work permit. But I’ve always felt more at home in Italy than anywhere else. Now I live in France – married a Frenchman- and am having a harder time of it since I don’t relate or feel at home in the French culture. It is very different from American culture, esp in the French Alps region. I guess as I get older, community and a sense of belonging becomes more important than what was a priority 12 years ago which was a sense of ‘aliveness’ and adventure. Cynthia in the French Alps
#894Nitin Bhatt » November 24th, 2009 at 3:38 am:
I love nature…remember me… i like your nature photography…take care…
#895edj » November 26th, 2009 at 12:27 am:
Yes! Exactly. Although there are those rare souls who do like to hear the good travel stories, they are few and far between (and usually parents or best friends).
#896Dwyane » November 26th, 2009 at 8:44 am:
Well interesting column-Since I live here in the Us and am Disabled and I guess you might say on the poor side versis when I was able to work was rich-I like it here and the prices here as with every were go up and down snd \I’m not starving and do get a good steak once a week plus god health care.
I’ve hit a pot hole or two on the roads but \i’d say there in good shapee overall.
Nope No Crying here and I hope not for the rest of you folks as well.
Be Coolllllllllllll
DB
#897Kristie Dean » November 29th, 2009 at 6:36 am:
I love great travel stories myself, but I’ve found that friends usually enjoy my travel scares. The terrorist attack on my airport really gets attention. I decided to start my own blog (divorceyourtravelagent.com) to tell the *good* things about travel so that people can see it is still safe (and fun!) to travel.
#898Melvin Q » November 30th, 2009 at 9:47 pm:
I’d definitely echo Milton. Credit card sucks – unless we get sponsored by travel agencies who are willing to let us travel for free.
#899Melvin Q » November 30th, 2009 at 9:50 pm:
As Mason Cooley said, “Travelers never think that THEY are the foreigners.”
http://www.quotepotato.com/quotes/travelers-never-think-that-they-are-the-foreigners
#900Vlad » December 1st, 2009 at 4:45 am:
I think it has to do with the need people feel for things out of the ordinary. They will be happy for you if you had a nice trip, but a lot more eager to hear about it if things went a bit wrong. That is the spice added to the story.
#901Lee » December 1st, 2009 at 9:31 am:
A beautiful post. I found myself feeling this amazing sense of connection when I travel for the longest time. I never really understood it until I read this article. Frankly I just feel more like other people when I travel because when Im around strangers travelling, they are strangers to. The immediate sense everyone around you shares something in common makes me feel.. at home. No matter when or where I go somewhere away from home or specifically out of country, Im happy.
Im curious how long these sensations will last. Its a beautiful feeling indeed being free.
#902Simon » December 2nd, 2009 at 4:25 am:
My wife is the same, she is always packing to much stuff and we always have to upgrade our baggage as we’ve found alot of airlines only give 15 kgs.
#903Panama Hotel » December 2nd, 2009 at 6:14 am:
To answer the initial question: ABSOLUTELY! Travel accidents are akin to training for a triathlon – they hurt desperately but are worth the story in the end. We own a small hotel here in the Republic of Panama and are always encountering guests who’ve had something random (and often disastrous) happen during their vacation. One in particular: family of 3 goes out in Panama for dinner in rental car, gets lost, stops to ask for directions, accidentally stops and asks the wrong person (a transvestite street walker) who jumps in the car and holds them up – I swear I’m not lying here – using a cannister of mace. Street walker steals the car, crashes it into a nearby neighborhood, and passes out in the front seat. How can you not want to tell your grandchildren that ONE?!?!?!
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#905erick » December 2nd, 2009 at 2:53 pm:
que tal si comparamos las sociedades,nosotros los ticos ,tratamos de educar a nuestros hijos no se las damos a babysister,los llevamos a la iglesia todos los sabados y domingos,no los llevamos a chuckechesse.pagamos lo que tenemos y no vivimos teniendo todo lo que no hemos pagado siendo exclavos de uncle sam ,tenemos una cultura diganme cual es el nombre de la suya,miramos a la gente a los ojos al caminar por la calle,no bajamos la mirada,no miramos colores en las escuelas solo amiguitos de salon,no le tememos a nuestros policias pues todos somos iguales,no vemos a viejitos de 80 aun manejando para pagar impuestos,no tenemos que comprar hasta una acetaminofen en el cvs despues de pagar la visita al doctor,tratamos a los extranjeros con respeto y dignidad no preguntamos si son americanos o no pues siempre son bienvenidos,deberian de usar todos sus millones de dolares para educar a su sociedad y aprender un poquito de nuestra pobre pero educada costa rica,oh y si no me equivoco el que escribio el articulo es tan educado que nisiquiera habla este idioma y cientos de nosotros hablamos mas de tres.
#906elaine » December 3rd, 2009 at 7:52 am:
great article, I am seriously considering taking a compact (and maybe even a few disposables) with me instead of my SLR when I go travelling at the end of the year. I’m wondering if the hassle of weight, paraphanalia, being conspicuous, etc out-weighs the benefits.
#907Ruth » December 3rd, 2009 at 10:47 pm:
I have been travelling to Asia for several times in the past. The thing that astounded me is things in Asia, well deeper sides, are all cheaper than NA. If you eat what regular locals eat and don’t fancy expensive restaurants, you can save a lot in travel expenses.
#908Ruth » December 3rd, 2009 at 10:49 pm:
Thanks for the photography tips. I will surely try them on my next travel. I found even with digital camera, certain shoots need to be really close to get to the details.
#909offtoeurope.com » December 4th, 2009 at 1:24 pm:
Great post! I am off to Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam and Malaysia this month and have decided that I will be traveling a lot lighter than I usually do. Makes a lot more sense
#910Anonymous » December 4th, 2009 at 10:55 pm:
I took a 6 month trip around the world and if I do so again I’ll take a laptop and a smaller camera. We spent a huge amount of time in web cafes looking for hostels and attractions and paid for the web by the minute, which wasn’t very good.
Here in Scotland loads of hostels, B&Bs, hotels and so on have free wifi so if you do bring a laptop you’ll be fine. Just as long as you don’t spend all your time on Facebook and miss the stunning landscape!
#911Liz » December 6th, 2009 at 3:55 pm:
The pic of you looking out of the train brought back memories. I took that ride in 1975 when I was preganant and it was, needless to say not fun. But, the scenery was beautiful. The train stopped at one point for a break where we saw the Tarahumaras weaving baskets.
Saveto is where my family originated from.
#912Jon Brandt » December 7th, 2009 at 11:47 am:
Hi Vicki,
I’ve been in Buenos Aires since August. Feel free to comment on my blog for any questions you have.
Jon
#913Aaron Schubert » December 8th, 2009 at 10:11 pm:
A luxurious rafting trip? How does that work! Lots of good water proofing?
Aaron
#914Greg Wesson » December 9th, 2009 at 11:12 pm:
Seeing as Melvin Q brought up a quote, I will respond in kind. I think it addresses what Lee and the other commenters have said as well.
“The ideal place for me is the one in which it is most natural to live as a foreigner.” Italo Calvino, Italian journalist and writer
#915Janet » December 10th, 2009 at 10:55 pm:
Personally I think that this economic crisis is affecting the travel industry. Form me travelling is very important. It’s almost like the food. i am hungry of travels so, I try to spend less for other things but I need to travel. I use more low cost flight companies or the buses when the flight tickets are too expensive. I think that this economic crisis is changing the way to travel and in a few years the travel industry will have to follow the new trend.
#916Craig » December 13th, 2009 at 4:24 pm:
I wouldn’t say that life threatening experiences always make the best stories but having crap go wrong certainly creates memorable travel experiences. Looking back on my travels, it has often been the times when things went wrong that I remember the most.
#917Legal Nomads » December 15th, 2009 at 3:11 am:
I am glad this went up when I was in Bangkok: now I know what to pick up at the bookstores before I head into Cambodia! Thanks for including my suggestion too. Jodi
#918Carlo » December 15th, 2009 at 11:03 am:
What a wonderful story. I am so very grateful with your story and with your life. I am Carlo Delos Santos from philippines and I am very much interested to earn $5 a day in the internet and go travel too. How I wish I could find a legitimate online job.
Thank you very much for this inspiring story.
God bless you always…
Carlo
#919Quotes Potato » December 15th, 2009 at 7:18 pm:
Thanks for sharing. Yes less is more. Appreciating little places which may not be well-marketed can truly become a blessing in disguise. You’ll never know that you learn more about a place/country from these little places.
#920Alice » December 16th, 2009 at 7:35 am:
Great post and some wonderful books here… in particular I can’t wait to read Hitching Rides with Buddha as I am sure it will remind me of my wonderful time spent in Japan. I also like the look of Kinky Gazpacho… I love the way that Eleanor says:
“the true spirit of adventure can be found not only in scaling mountains or scouting out exotic restaurants, but in peering deeply into the everyday life of a different country.”
This is exactly what I like to do, and I think this approach sometimes brings the greatest travel gems.
#921John R. » December 16th, 2009 at 2:16 pm:
Good list, but you need some Genghis Blues…..
http://www.createculture.org/profiles/blogs/film-genghis-blues-not-your
#922April » December 16th, 2009 at 10:11 pm:
I love the Bourne movie but my heart goes out to the Indiana Jones movie series ever since I was a kid. Watching the film made me feel that adventure was my calling and I wanted to go to exotic places like Africa, India, Cuba, Caribbean Island and much more. Thanks for sharing…love your blog…
April-loves-travels
#923Craig » December 17th, 2009 at 6:17 pm:
Great list. I especially love Voyage for Madmen.
#924Shannon OD » December 19th, 2009 at 5:36 am:
What a great round up!! I haven’t yet read most of these, so I really look forward to hunting down these new titles
#925soultravelers3 » December 20th, 2009 at 11:11 am:
Ah, I love books! What a fantastic round up! Thanks all!
#926Outrigger » December 20th, 2009 at 4:01 pm:
That is a great blog! Great Pictures to see, very good perspective.
#927putude » December 21st, 2009 at 3:38 am:
Look at the beach. Its so clean. I am curious.
#928Adam » December 21st, 2009 at 3:27 pm:
I think that if all turned out well and no one was injured to badly then I’d say that they make the best stories. Much better than the typical “I went here and saw this or that. Check out these pictures”
#929munich fan » December 23rd, 2009 at 2:13 am:
Earplugs are a good to have sometimes. For sure it depends to the location you spend the night.
#930Vera Marie Badertscher » December 23rd, 2009 at 2:58 pm:
Terrific list. Lots of new and fresh ideas here! I offer an open invitation to any of these travel writers/bloggers to do a guest post at A Traveler’s Library, where we talk about books and movies that inspire travel every day (well, nearly every day.) Contact me at vmb at atravelerslibrary dot com if you want to take me up on the offer.
#931Cruzein » December 23rd, 2009 at 9:33 pm:
Great cause! Keep up the good work!
#932Cruzein » December 23rd, 2009 at 9:36 pm:
I think its starting to pick up now ive noticed in australia anyway
#933Sherry Ott » December 25th, 2009 at 4:17 am:
After just re-watching it – I have another movie to add to the list – Revolutionary Road
#934Rachel » December 25th, 2009 at 5:04 pm:
Great cause, I encourage everyone to take part. Cambodia is an awesome country and deserves all the help it can get.
#935Hop Skip Jump Peru » December 25th, 2009 at 5:07 pm:
Cool list, there are some great and inspiring writers tapping out stories about their travel experiences.
#936remy » December 26th, 2009 at 11:13 am:
I agree, surrey is actually pretty beautiful. Not sure where that sign is from but my area is damn nice.
#937Travel and Vacation Blog » December 27th, 2009 at 8:16 am:
Great list of books! Daniel Boorstin’s The Discoverers is a great read. Thanks for posting!
#938Bussy » December 27th, 2009 at 11:06 pm:
Didn’t do anything at all like a proper holiday this year because of the expense of it. Managed a few weekend breaks away at home (UK) but only picked these based on special offers on hotel rates rather than places we really wanted to go! The previous year we went to Thailand as it seemed that the Far East offered the best value for accomodation and food and drink whilst there.
#939josue » December 28th, 2009 at 3:02 pm:
to dl. you need to go and spend some serious time in san jose. appearently judging by your very much ignorant comment, you think that you have to spend hours trying to find pictures of children sleeping in the street. that is so common here at home that we don’t even have to take pictures of it. you americans do because it’s so “impressing.” how about you go live in leon xiii and see what happens to people like you over there. no, seriously, next time you go to san jose please do me a favor and spend your time in leon XIII or perhaps la Carpio up in pavas. I’m from Pavas, and i know what im talking about.
#940All Inclusive » December 28th, 2009 at 3:20 pm:
Can’t wait the read The Discoverer’s it is exactly what I love to write about. Thank you for the recommendation.
#941Jim Jones » December 28th, 2009 at 10:23 pm:
Great post. I tour Thailand and Cambodia every six months to feed my website. I always travel light, just a small backpack. No laptop.
I get a cheaper air ticket as I am walk on and there is no waiting for luggage anywhere. When I need clean clothes I just buy them, (t shirt $3
jeans $6 and so on), I have them laundered then leave them in my last room for someone else to use.
I carry a camera bag which has enough room inside for my smokes,passport and airline tickets and that stays round my neck 24/7. Then just a backpack and my hands are free. Once again great post.
#942rabby » December 29th, 2009 at 3:02 am:
Really a wonderful list .Nepal always attract visitors for its unique beauty and greenery.
#943Melvin » December 29th, 2009 at 9:36 am:
Is the image above taking with a disposable/single use camera?
#944Scott » January 5th, 2010 at 4:45 pm:
The movie that inspired me to take this year’s trip was “The Story of the Weeping Camel.” It is a Mongolian made movie and is so well acted that at times I thought it was a documentary. The cinimatography was really amazing; the beautiful landscape and sparse population really attracted me to Mongolia. Of course the trans-Siberian Railroad is a “must do” for any “veteran” traveller – so I thought I’d roll the two together. Mongolia turned out to be as spectacular as I imagined it after this movie…
#945MrsCasanova » January 6th, 2010 at 9:24 am:
I read the book A Voyage for Madmen and Loved it! Great reviews on these books. What is everyones favorite/most inspirational?
#946Worldwide Travel Recommendations » January 6th, 2010 at 9:40 am:
This is a great list!
I would also nominate several of the James Bond movies. A good one is Octopussy, which has some great scenes from around the area of Udaipur (India), as well as From Russia With Love, which takes place along the route of the Orient Express.
#947OldSchoolBill » January 7th, 2010 at 12:08 am:
Different is good & these are way different & I LIKE THEM!!
#948BlackChickOnTour » January 7th, 2010 at 12:46 am:
Thanks for writing this article. My husband is Swedish, I’m a Black-American, and currently we reside in Saudi Arabia. We travel quite a bit, and I can tell you, we’ve never really experienced as much racism as I experience in my own country, the good ol United States of America. However, I try to avoid BS as well. My thoughts are…if it’s too much to contend with…or I’m at risk…then why go. For example, as of right now…I will NEVER step foot in Russia. They are killing and/or severely harrassing Africans on what appears to be a daily basis (from what I read in the news). I was semi-planning a trip to South Africa, but when I pulled out my Lonely Planet Guide, and 2 pages were dedicated to racism (basically, it’s still in full effect), I was like…”I don’t know”…then the next pages I read were on the violence…then I was done. Racism and Violence…seem to me they’d just be itching to get some crap started with a mixed race couple. LOL…But seriously. So…no South Africa…at least for awhile. I have white and Indian friends from South Africa, and they tell me that I gotta go to Cape Town and stay the hell out of Johannesburg, but I’m still skeptical. Maybe another time…
#949Executive Car Services London » January 8th, 2010 at 5:25 am:
I really like this post too much because now in modern age its too difficult to find someone who share everything with you during travel, shopping and in managing work load in office or business work. Actually I am too happy to see your post and wish you all the best in future.
#950Sonya » January 8th, 2010 at 7:18 pm:
Thanks for this thought-provoking story on movies and music that inspired us to travel in 2009. Last year, I watched the Bourne trilogy of movies again and again…
#951OZ & CA » January 10th, 2010 at 1:21 pm:
We are a gay couple that live part time in San Miguel… we have found that San Miguel lacks an active gay scene and therefore are looking for alternative ways for the gay community in the area to get together in a fun and safe environment. If you would like to receive information on gay events in the area, please send us an email to sanmigay@yahoo.com to include you in our mailing list. If you would like to host a gay event, also please let us know. Please forward our email address to all of your friends in San Miguel and the surrounding cities of Celaya, Queretaro, Salamanca, Irapuato, Silao and Leon. Help us organize a gay scene!
#952Kitty Miller » January 13th, 2010 at 10:01 pm:
Thanks for the amazing tips! I like your all tips of Basic Photography.
Thanks for sharing us your nice views. Keep it up.:)
#953Jordan St Claire » January 14th, 2010 at 10:01 pm:
God I hate when self-righteous ninnymuggins’ post on stories like this, verbally assaulting people who perhaps enjoy our standard of living here in the Western World, basically labeling us ignorant capitalist pigs for enjoying what our we, along with our ancestors before us, have struggled to build and provide for ourselves. Just because we don’t share the need to drop everything and run off to some corner of the globe (however cheap and ‘liberating’ it may be blah blah blah) does not mean that we are in some way stupid, blinded, or otherwise. We just happen to appreciate life here, get ahold of yourselves you hypocrites.
#954Baron » January 15th, 2010 at 7:27 am:
Outstanding Wade!! It’s good to see you’re contributing to other blogs. Now go talk this article up on you own blog.
#955Laurie » January 15th, 2010 at 9:38 am:
Well said. I think everyone enjoys the “disaster” stories on some level because we all like knowing these things happen to everyone. But it’s the inspiring stories that make you want to travel again.
#956Travel Videos » January 15th, 2010 at 10:30 pm:
NIce stuff, good and interesting articles. I actually learn something today, that I’m on my way to try…
Thanks
#957Kevin » January 16th, 2010 at 1:50 am:
I go back and forth from Cancun to Miami a lot and feel the same sentiments as the poster.
#958Kevin » January 16th, 2010 at 1:52 am:
Pretty cool book. Has some great info glad I picked it up for my frequent business trips to mexico.
#959Scott » January 19th, 2010 at 5:47 pm:
Had never thought of doing this, but I suppose that it could be a good strategy for anyone who finds themselves on tough times…
#960BigManWalking » January 20th, 2010 at 4:45 am:
Wow. I was grossed out, but I read anyway. You must be doing some walking so at least you’re getting exercise.
#961kari » January 21st, 2010 at 4:38 pm:
i’m actually afraid of this for the first time as i embark on a vagabonding stint in the US. i will try to use the loneliness to push me forward and make me more creative. people who can embrace loneliness always seem to exist on a deeper level.
#962TangoAna » January 22nd, 2010 at 3:47 am:
Thanks for this interesting blog !!!!!
Last year it was my inspiration ….THE MOULIN ROUGE…and MOTORCYCLE DIARIES
El Tango De Roxanne – Moulin Rouge
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pHO5KWIMZUo
#963TangoAna » January 22nd, 2010 at 4:03 am:
ah ah ah !!!
I don´t know if you visit my country…but here you can get fruit from the trees or vegetables in the land…
Many people is very friendly and they offer a plate in their house table…
Obviusly,,…it not happens in the city
#964TangoAna » January 22nd, 2010 at 4:15 am:
Hi everyone!
Thanks for this blog because I m preparing my first travel out my country.
My destinations should be AUSTRALIA or EUROPA and from my country the flights prices are expensive.
From ARGENTINA, the land of the Tango, meat and beautiful people
Tango Ana.
#965ARGENTINA » January 22nd, 2010 at 4:23 am:
Hi !!
I am from Argentina….My country has an economic sistem “weak” for us. Bad for us, but good for the visitors and tourism.
Argentina has the best options for enjoy the holidays in a budget plan.
#966Mozambique bum » January 22nd, 2010 at 11:54 pm:
Wow that could be fun for some I guess, and I can imagine how it could be harder to “dumpster dive” in poorer countries. Have you ever been to Mozambique?
#967Xpat » January 23rd, 2010 at 4:28 am:
very interesting… it’s worth a try!
#968Two Steps Far » January 24th, 2010 at 4:29 pm:
Great list of books. We will check them out for sure. We just finished reading some other classic travel books.
#969Brooke vs. the World » January 25th, 2010 at 10:14 am:
Totally grossed out! I love travel and I love saving money, but this is just not an option for me
#970Laurie » January 27th, 2010 at 5:22 am:
Interesting blog. I actually saw this idea featured on Oprah (not that I should mention having watched Oprah
). Not sure I have it in me.
#971Laurie » January 27th, 2010 at 5:26 am:
I was in West Africa about a year ago. It was interesting to talk to the locals there. Many were very informed about the economic problems and they were feeling the impact from the drop in tourism. You could really see how things were affecting people who already had so little. It made me glad I went even though my finances had been hit pretty hard.
#972Laurie » January 27th, 2010 at 5:31 am:
Beautifully written and wonderful advice! It’s easy to feel overwhelmed in some places and focusing in and slowing down will always help.
#973Laurie » January 27th, 2010 at 5:35 am:
Great insight! I just finished a year long trip with my husband. We learned a lot about each other and in turn learned a lot about ourselves. It was definitely an experience I would never give up.
#974Laurie » January 27th, 2010 at 5:40 am:
Good article. To me travel style is a personal choice. I love traveling with my husband. I’ve met many who prefer to go it alone. I’ve personally never done a trip alone and I do feel like I’m missing something, but I wouldn’t give up the experiences I’ve had with my husband for anything.
#975Mario » January 28th, 2010 at 9:36 pm:
The second picture from last also shows a pyramid. One of light from our sun. Thanks for the info and great pics!
#976LatinoinLA » January 29th, 2010 at 9:37 am:
I’m Hispanic-American and I’ve always had an apprehension for traveling. I decided to put those fears away and just do it. In the past two years, I’ve visited 5 countries from Europe to Latin America. I haven’t experienced any overt racism, just a lot of stares. I identify myself as American it confuses a lot of people, and I have to explain that I was born and raised in the states, but my ancestry is from El Salvador. Interestingly enough the most confusion I’ve caused is in Latin America, where people can’t figure out where I’m from, when I speak my neutral Spanish. And they think I must be really wealthy if I’m not white and I’m traveling in their countries. I agree with BLackChickOnTour, there are some countries I just won’t visit, like Russia, even my Russian friends tell me to avoid it. I just spent the holidays in Germany and I loved it, people were really friendly.
#977Simon » January 29th, 2010 at 10:32 pm:
I don’t think I’ll be trying that, but some great tips if I ever get in trouble. Problem is I normally go to Scandinavia and the food outside is a bit cold in the winter :p
#978Simon » January 29th, 2010 at 10:34 pm:
In my opinion they do make the best stories, just because people like reading about something which could make the laugh or smile at someone else’s misfortune, unless it involves something really bad, like injury.
#979Will » January 30th, 2010 at 1:04 am:
And I was thinking that eating nasi goreng every day for one month was too much…
#980John » January 30th, 2010 at 9:53 am:
I know that the economy should be affecting the travel industry, but in 2008 the travel industry grew by $1 Billion dollars and then grew another Billion in 2009. Baby Boomers are starting to enjoy retirement. I believe people are still traveling, they are either traveling to cheaper places or they are looking harder for better deals.
#981Steve J » January 31st, 2010 at 6:24 pm:
Wow. I love this. I’m only 19, and in college, but I would love to do this when I get out of college. I have experience traveling for 3 weeks in Europe out of a single suitcase (two summers in a row), but I would love for a bigger challenge. I think this has pretty much set my guidelines and stands as a great example for what we really do need while on the road.
I really appreciate this article. Thank you very much. Maybe someday, we will be flashpacking in the same place at the same time…
#982Kkirb » February 1st, 2010 at 5:23 am:
Big difference between speaking and communicating. Somehow, learning a new language points this out. Learning Portuguese in Brazil at 40 took me for a ride on the steepest learning curve since tying a shoe and riding a bike. I remember the very first full conversation. I had changed sides of the gas pump to fill my rental car after discovering the gas cap was on the other side – Me: “It’s a rental. I never know which side.” Him: “Now you know.” I was thrilled.
Along with food, history, politics, race and gender attitudes, there’s no way to truly know a place without at least exploring the language. Mastery not likely necessary.
#983Robby Milo » February 1st, 2010 at 10:57 am:
Hi.. It’s such a great post. After backpacking, motobackpakin (it’s what I’m doing rite now), now I know bout flashpacking
Please let me know if u drop by at indonesia specialy at jakarta, bandung.. It will be my honoured if u could stay on my house
#984thecandytrail » February 3rd, 2010 at 10:11 am:
Hi
Greetings from La Moskitia, remote northern coast of Nicaragua.
Maybe you might find me also alittle crazy as a traveler as I been on the road as a lone nomad across the world for the past 21 years … and had many crazy travels – from hitching the Sahara desert from Algeria to Niger, and from England to India, to being arrested as a spy in Saddam´s IRAQ, to being drugged, abducted and robbed in Siberia, Russia … and much more.
Regards – MRP AKA the candy trail …
#985Erdek » February 4th, 2010 at 12:05 am:
There is no doubt that the climate change affects many touristic areas transforming them unexpectedly. The need for greet tourism becomes acute, we have to act more responsibly and start protecting these places. I had the chance to have a green vacation and I am telling you that I had the same exact fun as before only this time I felt better because I know I don’t affect any touristic area. Turkey is a great place for green tourism, I will definitely go back there.
#986Harper Babin » February 5th, 2010 at 9:25 am:
I see valid points in this post, but not thoroughly thought out. I disagree that females have it easier and are likely to get freebies with a bat of their eyelashes and a small smile. Receiving this type of treatment doesn’t matter if you’re a female or male it all has to do with how you carry yourself with confidence and if you are capable of negotiation. My father is an amazing negotiator and charmer and it was very common of receiving special treatment during our travel’s because of those characteristics.
Also, I don’t think the safety concern of females traveling should be looked at in such a miniscule way. That is a HUGE concern to have if you are a female traveling alone. I feel Jodi didn’t think her post completely through. Because she says she’d rather travel alone because she can do what she wants when she wants however, that is not true because of safety restrictions. If you are being careful, as a female should if she is alone in an unfamiliar area then there will be many things you can’t do.
#987cynthia in the french alps » February 6th, 2010 at 3:19 am:
I find this article both brilliant and incredibly disturbing at the same time. I sure hope I never have to do this to afford traveling but who knows! Thanks for the tips (I think). Cynthia
#988Sam » February 6th, 2010 at 5:57 pm:
Oops pardon me, they’re ICEBREAKER underwear, not Smartwool.
#989James Rick » February 7th, 2010 at 6:56 am:
I like this stuff. Keep it up
#990Name Tags » February 8th, 2010 at 3:19 am:
Wade,
What a great post. I thought it was a joke, but then I realized it is a brilliant idea. Especially as the dollar continues to fall, some may not even be able to afford good food around the world. I gotta get a red flashlight!
#991tina » February 9th, 2010 at 2:48 am:
i know what poor is i was once so poor hhat we did not have food for days only water i have four childer and three grand i teach them how hard life is with no food and a place to sleep
#992Cambridge Who's Who » February 9th, 2010 at 3:14 pm:
Number 7 is absolutely the truth, I find myself saying it all the time. “I’m busy” usually translates to “I’m disorganized” or “I’m behind”. Especially when you put it that way, half a page a night instead of it all the day before, makes you look at yourself and realize how lazy you are being.
#993Ant » February 9th, 2010 at 8:10 pm:
“As a result at age 21 I am making an income I could have only dreamed of when I was 16″. I did not see that sentence coming, I had expected the above scenario to have come from someone much older, so all credit to Jason for acting so efficiently. I’d like to ask Jason two things — firstly, where do you see yourself in 5, or 10 years time? And secondly, was becoming location independent a goal, or simply a side effect of your success?
#994Radison » February 9th, 2010 at 8:30 pm:
Really very informative blog and i will surely give a chance to above mentioned tips,
#995Jason » February 10th, 2010 at 3:51 am:
Thanks for the comment Ant.
I have many ideas of what I want to be doing in 5-10 years but if I continue exactly on my current path I don’t think retiring would be out of the question. But doing exactly what I am doing now in 5 years is not likely to happen because plans change so easily. I could be married for all I know. I could get sick, etc.
Doing what I do now is somehwhat a combination of my success and my goals. My goal since high school has been to live abroad. For instance, my internet favorites is a collection of links to overseas job postings that I have collected for years. If I were not self-employed I could likely be working abroad right now whether teaching English or working for a multinational company. But when I started working for myself I had no capital and had no time during the day to run a business that would require set hours due to high school. So if I wanted to start a business it would have to be flexible and has become just that today.
#996Celina » February 10th, 2010 at 7:28 pm:
Hello Jason,
Your blog caught my attention at right time and I read it carefully what its trying to say. Actually I do own a hotel and its doing business also but I am looking for more clients or visitors to visit my hotel. There are lot of things I need to learn about this. Your article served some of the purposes.
Thanks
TC
#997Brendan Harding » February 13th, 2010 at 2:10 am:
Hi Gail,
I really enjoy your work, entertaining, informative and darkly witty. Keep up the good work.
Brendan Harding
#998Ruth » February 13th, 2010 at 9:59 am:
I love it, every bit of it, can’t wait to read all I can. Thanks
#999Toffee » February 13th, 2010 at 4:53 pm:
Hey, thanks for the post, practical down to earth and honest advice.
#1000pam » February 14th, 2010 at 4:10 am:
I’ve lost it with people over this before, and not because I’m anti-dumpster diving and/or because of the ick factor and/or because I’m insensitive about waste. I think dumpster diving is a bad idea FOR TRAVELERS.
1. Are you depriving some less fortunate person than yourself of a source of food? How can you know this if you’re transitory?
2. Are you putting yourself at risk? I asked my significant other what he thought would happen if you were found dumpster prowling around a local guesthouse, he reckoned you might get shot.
3. Are you putting yourself at a health risk? Again, if you’re transitory, you may not know the right source for “clean” food.
Knock on some kitchen doors and ask to wash dishes for your dinner. Sing for your supper. Maybe you’ll meet some people. Unless you have a local connection who can assure you that you’re not putting yourself at risk or taking food out of needier mouths than yours, this is a terrible strategy. Finally:
4. It might be a crime. Check the local laws. Do you really want to end up in prison because you didn’t plan your travel budget so you could eat? Yeah, that will make a great story. Good luck with that.
#1001Billindutty » February 14th, 2010 at 4:56 am:
cool site!!! I am so looking forward to reading more!!!
#1002joseph » February 16th, 2010 at 12:32 am:
oh it is very interesting thank you for shearing this type of experience.i like this this article.you give me a great idea keep it up
#1003leslie » February 16th, 2010 at 10:39 pm:
this is great stuff!
#1004Leslie » February 16th, 2010 at 10:47 pm:
A lovely post. I’m living the expat life in Laos and you said it perfectly–I feel most at home now, as a stranger in a increasingly not so strange land. Thank you.
#1005Camping » February 17th, 2010 at 5:12 am:
Can I take my mattress with me??
#1006ralph » February 17th, 2010 at 7:02 am:
Your blog post describes well how to create a business. a bit off topic right
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#1007Another Travel Blog » February 17th, 2010 at 7:22 am:
Try to engage with staff at posh supermarkets – they’ll be best placed to tell you when and where the close to sell by date food goes
#1008traveller » February 17th, 2010 at 4:26 pm:
thank you jason. i want to motivation my work. this post good.
#1009Pasty » February 18th, 2010 at 4:25 am:
Great tips – shame that you only get to discover these things AFTER things go wrong. Hope your next trip is a success.
#1010The Longest Way Home » February 18th, 2010 at 5:28 am:
Great interview!
Wade is one of the few travel bloggers whos website I really enjoy reading.
Now with three it’s added a new element that very few websites have. And, certainly none that offer the tips and wealth of advice in the style that Wade creates on vagabond journey.
Dave
#1011Wade | Vagabondjourney.com » February 18th, 2010 at 12:12 pm:
Thanks Dave,
Really appreciate these good words. Your unending search for home is really good as well. As I have said before, I think you have already found home: it is the boots you stand in.
Hope to cross your path some day.
Walk Slow,
Wade
#1012The Razors Edge » February 18th, 2010 at 8:30 pm:
If only we all could live like that I think travelling really teaches us so many valuble lessons, and helps to eliminate a lot of the misconceptions of other cultures and people around the world. Great post keep it up
#1013Laura » February 18th, 2010 at 11:42 pm:
I sympathize with you haveing to cance and know you must have been so disappointed. I know that half the fun of a trip like this is in the planning (for some anyway) and that the expectation is to save money doing it on your own. However, with all the snafus involved, you might want to consider using a travel agent. Planning would be a TON smoother and the price might end up being comparable. Also, if packaged through a covered supplier you would be able to purchase travel insurance – some packages offer coverage for job related emergencies, as well, for only a tiny amt more. I would definitely look into it. Even if you decide not to go with a travel agent, I would stick with more well known, reputable companies to package as many components together as possible.
Hope there’s another trip in your future soon!
#1014surtrek » February 19th, 2010 at 4:08 pm:
great interview dear. really traveling is a teacher and more fun and lessons in this.
#1015dana » February 20th, 2010 at 8:17 am:
Excellent article full of practical information! Saving 20 bucks is the same as earning 20 bucks.
#1016Martin » February 20th, 2010 at 10:21 am:
Tammie – thx indeed for sharing your experiences and sorry to hear they were so negative. Tip number 1 ‘life throws curveballs’ actually did make me think a bit, as I tend to be one of those people who are always confident that the trip is going to take place, no matter what.
#1017Liz Warner » February 22nd, 2010 at 5:24 pm:
So sorry to hear the news
Hope everything goes fine in your next trip. These sure are hard-earned tips, better luck next time my friend.
#1018Cynthia » February 23rd, 2010 at 12:27 pm:
Hi Greg!
This was an interesting post! I sometimes get those feelings of moving somewhere foreign as well, but fear gets to me and I just decide to stay where I am. I currently live in the Bay Area and for some reason I’ve always wanted to live in Canada. Maybe.. SOMEDAY I will go for it and DO IT!
#1019Claire » February 23rd, 2010 at 1:43 pm:
I read about this in another blog and I say this is a wonderful thing for travel bloggers to do — work together for a good cause. I checked on this and the goal was met. Awesome!
#1020Claire » February 23rd, 2010 at 9:18 pm:
I like your site.
Very informative.
#1021Claire » February 23rd, 2010 at 9:19 pm:
The pictures you have in your site are awesome.
#1022Tammie Dooley » February 24th, 2010 at 4:34 am:
Thank you Pasty, Laura, Martin and Liz for your kind comments – I’m glad you enjoyed the article and hopefully it was one of those that enlighten. Yes, it was a disappointing experience (inherent in any failed plan!) and yes there were some hard lessons learned, but my husband and I plan to take the trip when things smooth out a bit. And they will smooth out. I’ll keep you posted and once we go and return, I’ll write another cheerier article about all the wonders we experienced AND all the things that went “right” (which I’m confident will be numerous!). – Tammie
#1023Justin » February 24th, 2010 at 3:40 pm:
Great tips- I will keep these in mind next time I think about cancelling a trip!
#1024Scott » February 28th, 2010 at 9:46 pm:
great tips; I’ll be sure to review before my next trip…
#1025felicia » March 2nd, 2010 at 2:13 am:
I think the Round the World trip is the best think you can do in life.
Good luck discovering the rest of the world, Dave fast email sender
#1026Tracy » March 2nd, 2010 at 11:55 am:
Tammie, I appreciate your patience to explain all the pains you have gone through. Your tips are ideal for travel planning. Eager to read your joyful travel experience in your next article.
#1027Dee » March 2nd, 2010 at 10:46 pm:
Thanks, this was great advise. I am geting up to give food to the monks tomorrow morning. So excited thanks for the tips!
Dee
#1028Mae » March 6th, 2010 at 4:37 am:
When something is intriguing, funny or out of the ordinary it often leaves a lasting impression in our minds so I think that contributes to what makes your travel story. Great post!
#1029Mae » March 7th, 2010 at 4:05 am:
Thanks for the great ideas you have shared here. We will be travelling abroad in a few months so I’m sure these tips will be a big help for us.
#1030priscilla » March 7th, 2010 at 4:41 pm:
hey im going to be moving to irapuato this coming may i cant wait!!! its goign to me and my husband.. we are not a gay couple or anything, but i just want to meet some friends..
#1031Abi from Inside the Travel Lab » March 8th, 2010 at 2:18 am:
Well – thanks! Hope to see you around there, Best Abi
#1032Wantabe Traveler » March 8th, 2010 at 10:21 pm:
We always say we would travel except for the young children. Whoops, it looks like that is not a good excuse. Good interview. Now where did I put my backpack…
#1033Carol Bryant » March 10th, 2010 at 9:29 am:
I am always up for informative and entertaining information on travels that take you to different parts of the world. We live and work in a tourist area in the Great Smoky Mountains of East Tennessee and getting away from the hustle and bustle of too many tourists is a welcomed relief for us. Some place warm and quiet. Our preference is no kids even though we love kids we just find them too distracting on vacation.
#1034Prachi » March 10th, 2010 at 9:43 am:
Beautiful! I recently moved to America from India and I miss my country a lot… the smells, the air, the colors.. everything! I am happy to learn that India has touched your heart!
#1035dan » March 10th, 2010 at 12:10 pm:
I met a person name Eric in Muang Sing, Lao last summer. He have been travelling for years as well. (Can’t remember how long) His ‘occupation’ was jewllery trader. Often he would go from countries to countries swapping stuffs at stores, markets and even tribes that would value his possession. It is a very interesting life. You see and experience different parts of the world. Make friends and come and go as you wish. But it also would require lots of ‘giving up’ to do to make it work. No family, home, stable income or sometimes food. You would also have to quite witty and entertaining to live out some situation. But if you can do that and have less obligations in life, why not? At least for few years.
#1036Amy » March 10th, 2010 at 4:07 pm:
I totally relate to this. I just came back from backpacking through Australia traveling on a 3 month working Visa. I was kinda lost for a little bit when I first got there. By the end I made a community for myself but it was hard. I did however find a backpacking tourism company (I think it was called Travellers Contact Point) that planned my tours so I could go in a group and that made me feel a little less lonely. Especially because you wind up traveling with other foreigners. They also picked me up from the airport with a personalized welcome packet, which was pretty cool. I recommend doing something like that and if you choose to go to Australia like me on the working Visa look them up. They were really helpful
#1037Michel » March 15th, 2010 at 3:18 am:
I was in luang prabang for 10 days in jan 2010, loved it and found it very spiritual. For most of does young boys,its the only way they can get an education, english and computer classes are extra, about 15$ for 3 month sessions. I am the sponsor for a 17 yrs old from a hill tribe in one of the wats. Is english is very good and of course they are interested in the internet. The computers are often donated by a foreign agency, always 2 per computer. I have a limited income but commited to sending 200$ twice a year. Easy by western union, got books at the book exchange and got dictionary and magazines. i found it to be the best way for falang to do merit and you will have a friend for life.
#1038Ant » March 15th, 2010 at 1:54 pm:
Great collection everyone. Probably could of done with restricting the word count, I reckon. But nonetheless, some really insightful thoughts.
#1039RAdele » March 15th, 2010 at 4:35 pm:
Travellers find themselves, by going to different places, which can be down the street, and coming home changed by the experience. Tourists find other people, in different places and come home unchanged, except for the souvenirs.
#1040Eugenia Van Bremen » March 16th, 2010 at 2:06 am:
Interesting article, & something I’ve never thought about before. But I’ve got to say (and I don’t mean this meanly)…who cares?
A few of the writers seem to get very aggrieved by the travel snobs. Why waste the energy & time on them? It seems like it only leads to frustration at best, and self-doubt at worst.
I haven’t started my long-term travel journeying yet (still in the planning stages), but I’ve run across the same kind of snobs in other walks of life. They used to drive me nuts. But now, I just tell them that life’s not a competition, I’m pretty happy doing what I’m doing how I’m doing it, & that I’d rather talk to someone with less of a superior attitude. Then I move on.
And usually find someone much more interesting to talk about, who’s truly interested in sharing instead of one-upping.
And if I can’t find anyone like that…well, the company of my own thoughts is more than enough to keep me happy.
#1041Isara » March 17th, 2010 at 6:27 pm:
Thanks for posting about this important issue.
IMO Volunteering should be free and anyone who packages and sells it is profiting from charity. If an organization sees that a school or orphanage needs help and then decides to sell the opportunity to foreigners, then those organizations are more interested in making a dollar than making a difference. It is greed, disguised as charity, plain and simple.
We created a free volunteer program in Thailand for this exact reason. We have found that when you don’t charge volunteers anything, they are able to stay longer (which helps more), they can learn more about the local culture and people, and they want to give more back to the local community (scholarships, playgrounds, etc.). In other words, they make more of a difference. I hope more free programs will be created as travelers become more weary of the for-profit organizations out there.
#1042Tammie Dooley » March 18th, 2010 at 9:35 am:
So glad to know a shared experience is one that can help others. Take this information and keep exploring!
#1043karla » March 19th, 2010 at 8:51 pm:
Michel,
That was my story, above, and I am kind of psyched about your advice on making merit via giving money for computers. I will research that. I haven’t looked at this story in ages, it sure brings back memories!
#1044Nora » March 21st, 2010 at 1:55 pm:
Whoops – I’m a little late getting back to this one! @Milton: Sure – there are lots of business opportunities abroad! They are largely dependent on your skills, available money, and travel preferences/lifestyle. Having a location independent income is great for giving you options (I’ve got that with writing). But the sky is the limit if you are an imaginative entrepreneur…
#1045ohtallinn » March 23rd, 2010 at 4:33 am:
I’m so amazed by what i have just read. I have never thought on this subject like this. I think i might actually print it out, translate it and give it to some very people who might need it.
It’s so unfair at the times that grocery stores throw away food what they legally can’t sell cause of the expirey but actually the food is very much the same 3 days after and sometimes even longer.
Thanks for this read !
B.
#1046ohtallinn » March 23rd, 2010 at 4:39 am:
I love the “Into the wild”. I have watched this movie couple of times and for months i was thinking to do the same thing as the character. I don’t know what holded me back, maybe too scared to do actually do it but this still remains a secret dream.
Thanks for the read!
B.
#1047keyvah » March 29th, 2010 at 3:32 pm:
When traveling in Europe last winter I did tons of dumpster diving after street markets in major cities, especially Amsterdam. The guesthouse I was staying in was pretty radically oriented, and had a strong tradition of dumpster diving. It was a great way to save money, use things which would have gone to waste, and having the local connection of our hosts meant we were could dumpster more safely and respectfully. We often started collecting just as the market was ending, and many vendors handed us items directly that they would have throw away. Of course, a few also looked askance at us. Generally speaking, if I’m dumpstering to save money (and not because I am going to go hungry) I never take more than half of what is in any particular bin/dumpster/pile.
#1048Kathy Litt » March 31st, 2010 at 2:56 am:
Hey – Got cought up in your story and travels at work (couldn’t read them all.. at work, he he). But wow! A women after my own heart! Your photos are amazing. Closest I came to glacial beauty was a backpacking trip in the Tetons, so I kinda get the awe effect
Good luck and enjoy!
Kathy
#1049Scott » March 31st, 2010 at 5:53 pm:
Very impressive to travel with the whole family; I hope that someday (when I have a family), I’ll be able to bring them in tow
#1050syuk » April 1st, 2010 at 3:58 am:
OMG ! into the wild! i watched it countless times, INSPIRATION of A PURE LIFE, BACKPACKER who SEES FREEDOM EVERYWHERE!
#1051Chris » April 1st, 2010 at 9:03 am:
Thanks for sharing the information with us. I am planning a trip overseas in August and these are tips that I will put to use. Hopefully your travel experiences are better than this in the future.
#1052Nannette » April 3rd, 2010 at 2:20 pm:
I have used cyber cafes in much of my travels, due to my need to maintain contact with clients. I agree some places seem a little shadey, but a laptop often seems bulky. It’s a toss up for me. I am thinking of purchasing the small notebook just to use when traveling. Anyone have experience with these small compact notebooks. I would appreciate any info.
#1053Shibby » April 4th, 2010 at 8:01 am:
I really hope to make some money on my travel blogs in the future. Currently couchsurfing around Dublin just to keep myself entertained because that’s how much I love and miss traveling.
#1054Skye » April 4th, 2010 at 8:09 am:
Thanks Kathy! Lots more adventures to be had over coming months so stay tuned! Cheers Skye
#1055JulieteTravels » April 6th, 2010 at 2:43 am:
Holidays with my son are always full of adrenaline and adventures. Because he is so much into activities I usually end up doings thing I would never consider otherwise. The only thing I would never attempt is bungee jumping. Luckily for me so far he has remained impartial to this activity!
#1056Michael Schneider » April 7th, 2010 at 4:17 am:
Let me suggest an alternative to volunteer travel. If you are a professional with a useful and marketable skills (e.g., teacher, doctor, lawyer, business person, engineer, pharmacist, architect, artist) than how about a short-term working vacation?
For example, I am a professor of computer science. During my career my wife, children, and I have had the good fortune to live and work overseas fourteen times–from Australia to Zimbabwe, Mauritius to Mongolia–for periods ranging from 1 to 8 months. We have done useful work in our host country while earning enough to cover all of our transportation and living costs. We have gazed at Everest, ridden camels in the Gobi, walked with elephants in the Serengeti, visited indigenous tribes in Borneo, and lived on a tropical island paradise, all without reaching into my own wallet or giving up my day job.
#1057Dave Chapple » April 10th, 2010 at 7:49 pm:
Outstanding article lisa with some great advice – it’s amazing how imaginative the kids can be when given free rein isn’t it?
I recently wrote a short article about travelling with the kids and it’s so good to see someone else who gets them involved in the planning from the outset – so much more fun and far less stress.
#1058Thomas » April 12th, 2010 at 3:39 am:
What a narrow minded statement to say that an entire city is ugly and has nothing to offer based on your one route through it. I once came into Seattle along Aurora Ave/99/519(I think) and by that measure Seattle is just as ugly, however I know that an old highway with it’s industrial areas , fast food joints and strip malls(and clubs)is not a fair representation of any city.
#1059Scott » April 12th, 2010 at 8:50 pm:
I agree that the laptop is the way to go. Last year I ditched my full sized laptop for a 9″ Acer that I picked up at Walmart for $275 (yes, they staill have them as of April 2010) – It has a 150gb hard drive and aside from some slower processing times, it does everything that the big computer did. I bypass internet cafes completely now and just use coffee shops with free wifi. Get a cup of Joe while I blog! It is small enough that I can put it in my jacket’s hood pocket.
Thanks for the suggestion on fastzone; I’ll give that a try.
I usually write my blogs on a word doc & resize the photos in advance & then just cut and paste at the wifi zone. If the connection is too slow, I’ll post the text only and add the photos later. I always make sure to add an “update” note to my main page letting folks know that photos were added to an older post.
#1060Robert » April 14th, 2010 at 7:27 am:
Very good article. Here is my 2c:
1. In our crazy centure, when time flys, when mams are working 25 hours/day – I believe that travelling with kids is the must for many reasons: breeding, psycology etc.
2. Because of harsh competition among people on various type of jobs: we have to teach our children from “first” month. In this case various culture and various place around the world can be one of the strong “driver” for learning.
#1061Christine Malin » April 15th, 2010 at 5:52 am:
You don’t know me, but I came across your travel blog and was blown away. I have so much admiration for what you are doing and seeing. Congratulations on being super courageous. Best of luck on your travels and look forward to reading more!
#1062Christine Malin » April 15th, 2010 at 6:12 am:
Just came across your extensive, entertaining and super photographic blog… Keep it up! You guys are hilarious and very profound at not taking life so seriously. I wish we all could have that ability. Travel safe. Cheers
#1063K&C » April 15th, 2010 at 12:01 pm:
I happened upon your blog through a travel blog site. Just wanted to
comment on a few things.
1) You’ve got guts, girl! To just drop everything and leave to an
unknown country not having any real set plans. I did something similar,
but within the U.S., not to a totally different country!!
2) It’s nice to read about an experience(travel blog) in which the
writer is a normal person who is scared to death upon arrival(ie running
out the back door of the restaurant in Prague). I read so many travel
blogs in which the writer/traveller is so confident and travel savvy
that it’s hard for me to relate to their experiences. I totally relate
to your anxiety reading your Prague posts. Although, I’ve now travelled
to over 20 countries myself and it does get easier over time, I still
get nervous and anxious when trying to speak a different language,
learning new customs and trying not to offend the locals.
#1064Jen Laceda » April 16th, 2010 at 4:28 am:
Wade, all I can say is BRAVO! I admire your family and your ideals, and how lucky Petra is to have you and Chaya as parents. In fact, I envy your lifestyle. I wish I could live a life like yours. I’m sure my 2 little girls wouldn’t complain, but I have a husband who loves his job dearly, so we’re stuck in one place for now. I am still hoping for a long-term RTW travel with the family, though!
#1065Maria » April 17th, 2010 at 2:51 pm:
Hi Wade – what an entertaining blog! It reminds me of many years ago when I was travelling, as a student, through Europe, with very little cash. We could probably have extended our stay had we thought of dumpster feasting. As it was, we arrived home considerable thinner than when we left.
I did wonder though, if you might have been able to do a good deal with some of the supermarkets who are always out to screw as much money from us as possible.
Also, when you think about the many hungry people in the world is it no criminal to throw so much into landfill? You are doing the world a favour!! Keep it up.
#1066Hillary » April 18th, 2010 at 4:59 am:
Best site on the internet!! Jack is a genius.
#1067Linda » April 18th, 2010 at 6:45 am:
i am 14 and i have been to new york city, london, paris, cardiff, atlantic city, philedelphia, new orleans, houston, washington d.c., miami, dallas, las vegas, san antonio, san juan (puerto rico), chicago, the carribean, california, baltimore, and orlando and i plan on going to instabul, bei jing, los angeles, san francisco, rhode island, africa, denver, hawaii, barcellona, and italy!
#1068shelley cheny » April 18th, 2010 at 1:25 pm:
Your articles are excellent. The thing we value most about travelling together ( our 2 girls aged 4 and 6 ) is that we actually spend quality time together without the distractions of everyday life like mobiles and emails. The look of amazement on our daughters faces when they see people doing things differently or taste different food, or sleeping in different styles of accommoodation challenges my own beliefs about what is right or how we teach them they have to behave. Children are more accepting of different cultures and more flexible and adaptable that I would ever imagine!!
Keep writing and inspiring!
#1069barbara » April 18th, 2010 at 1:45 pm:
hello my name is Barebara. Ihave relatives tn pescara. I hope to connect with them and then somedaynvisit beautiful Pescara I enjoyed your synoosis,
#1070Donna Brown » April 19th, 2010 at 4:48 pm:
This is amazing article for family travel. Choosing a family travel trip and find the adventures that is most exciting part of the travel.
#1071Christine Malin » April 21st, 2010 at 4:01 am:
I have really enjoyed reading your research and revelations. My husband and I decided when we had kids we were not going to let kids hold us back from exploring the world (maybe finances would, but not kids). And since having two boys we have enjoyed taking them to places such as Hawaii all the way to London and Switzerland. They are the best little travelers imaginable. They fair better than we as older folks! Seeing new sights, experiences and adventures through their eyes makes it even more amazing. And not only that, but the cultural experience and education for them is undeniable. Hope you will find the same experiences with your little one(s). Enjoy!
#1072Emily Adams » April 21st, 2010 at 8:29 pm:
Very good post, though I think I will still pass on having kids at all.
#1073steve j » April 24th, 2010 at 12:46 am:
great read! we always talk about doing some fun and different with the kids…but it never seems to happen.
#1074Christa » April 24th, 2010 at 5:43 am:
Hannah, your writing is great. It took me many years back straight into Mumbai.
I was in Mumbai many years ago. Together with a Mumbai friend we went from Juhu Beach to the city with her car and driver. I saw groups of children sitting on the pavement and listening to an older person. I was explained that this was a school. The traffic got very thick, when we were surrounded by beggars. Each of them missed one or two limbs. When one had no hands he held the banknote he eventually got out from a car below the remains of his upper arm. I was so shocked. My friend told me that they are made beggars when they are very young and missing a limb is to get money. Their boss does it or they do it by themselves. There were lots and lots of those limb-missing beggars. I can never forget to have seen this and feel so sorry for them. And then: We visited friends, which lived in pure luxury.
#1075Charity Osborn » April 25th, 2010 at 10:28 am:
My husband & I have been traveling in the US & Central America for 8 months with our two young sons (now 4 1/2 and 18 months), so I find this conversation very interesting. We are 100% glad we’ve done this trip, for many of the reasons cited above & more: we have all spent so much wonderful time together; the boys (& we) have learned so much about places, cultures & life; it has fundamentally changed who we are (for the better); we’ve all had to be creative about entertainment; the boys have become great friends with one another; and my husband & I have become much closer with one another & the boys. I love the family story we are writing with our kids: even if they don’t remember much, they will know that we are the kind of family that embraces adventure, loves spending time together, & wants to learn about the world.
BUT: Traveling with kids requires a tremendous level of energy, that’s for sure. Put simply, they don’t pull their weight at all (metaphorically or physically!), so instead of being responsible for ourselves & the things we need & prefer, we are responsible for the boys, who are in turn vulnerable & fully reliant on us for their safety & happiness. I think it’s wise to realize this as fully as possible before setting out on a trip like we’ve taken.
Simply planning for & taking care of health needs, procuring food & drink (especially in countries where food is exotic & water is not safe to drink), working with traveling & sleeping preferences, managing peer relationships (or lack thereof), & hauling everybody & their baggage around is a huge job. Plus, looking out for everybody means almost constantly prioritizing others’ needs & desires over our own. For example, for us, this has meant things like traveling around less (and with more stuff) than we would prefer; visiting more zoos & children’s museums (sometimes at the expense of visiting art museums or cathedrals) than we would prefer; planning ahead more than we would prefer; eating fast food instead of fresh or local; having less personal time than we would prefer; and staying in instead of going out most nights. It has also meant feeling like a burden to other people, at times, and facing their disapproval & my own (more substantial than I anticipated) fears regarding the potential consequences of the myriad of decisions we have to make every day in unfamiliar circumstances. Often, there is a fine line between (appropriate) risk & (inappropriate) recklessness, & for better and for worse, traveling obscures & sometimes pushes us over the line in ways we wouldn’t be pushed at home.
Basically, as some people have noted above, traveling with kids is wonderful, but very, very different from traveling alone, & I think the level of sacrifice required may (justifiably) make it unappealing to many people. I interject this not to be negative but in order to equip people to realistically evaluate whether they are up for the task.
#1076sapphire » April 27th, 2010 at 12:21 am:
The juxtaposition of the poor and obscenely wealthy in Mumbai always boggles my mind. Though I love the city and visiting family there, there’s always a sadness that the country does not deal with its problems and help its citizens.
#1077P. M. » May 2nd, 2010 at 11:54 am:
I enjoyed your descriptions. It made me feel like I was stepping on those streets. It made me feel so sad for those children. Having two of my own, I can’t understand how their lives can be so different. Thank you for the work you are doing.
#1078Phil J » May 3rd, 2010 at 2:39 pm:
Travel ’snobs’ definitely exist… but I guess it’s all in the eye of the beholder. Perhaps some are just proud. The ‘notches on the belt’ always feel good, and I am personally glad to have visited the varying cultures in this world. In any case, most nomads will inevitably encounter annoying travelers!
#1079Destiny T. » May 3rd, 2010 at 4:14 pm:
In my opinion travel comedies make the best stories rather than travel tragedies. When visiting Ireland, I had a friend who tried to clime an electric fence to ride a donkey. He was shocked by the fence but not seriously injured. Told in person it is a very good story, but I don’t think it would be as good of a story if the consequences were more disastrous.
#1080Charly T. » May 3rd, 2010 at 4:19 pm:
Interesting perspective on travel. I have always taken the circle route in the past, I guess because it’s generally easier to book tickets that way with the way many travel sites are set up.
I think I will try it your way next time though. See how it goes.
#1081Charly T. » May 3rd, 2010 at 4:25 pm:
IMO (In My Opinion) it would be wrong to charge some one to volunteer, but having a person pay for their travel, food and other expenses while volunteering is OK. That’s the cut off point for me, but I guess each is entitled to their own opinion.
#1082wl » May 3rd, 2010 at 8:31 pm:
I’ve been wanting to see Tibet.. It’s just kind of tricky (for a lot of reasons) for me to visit the place. Hopefully I can do it in the not so distant future.
#1083andrew wahba » May 4th, 2010 at 4:42 am:
This is one of those debates that will not end. I would be willing to pay a fee that goes directly to an organization as I understand that all grassroots organizations could use the funds. Also, volunteers are often willing (and have the ability) to pay. The ones that get me are the “middle man” fee as mentioned above, but some people are willing to pay those fees for the comfort factor. So, I think the bottom line is that as long as you know where your funds are going then the decision lies with the volunteer.
#1084tourist » May 5th, 2010 at 8:37 am:
Travel snobbery is travelling highest class!!!hotel suits, exslusive resturants, escotred by a limusine&your private guide.Travel snobbery is not mingling with the “natives”, actually it is like you are travelling in a glass box touching nothing , smelling nothing, hearing nothing , tasting nothing of the uniqe destination you came to learn about!!!Travelling snobbery is spending most of your stay behind barriers , I prefer staying home waching National Geographics than Travel snobbery!!!
#1085Tina » May 5th, 2010 at 4:10 pm:
Hi Ant, Great blog, I have done some travelling in Australia, mostly short trip 2 months at the most. Can’t wait until we can do a serious long trip and blog all the way, so much to see and do.
#1086Heather GG » May 5th, 2010 at 4:14 pm:
So there is a name for what I’ve felt since I was a little girl! Thanks for writing this and the links to Madison’s work. Will be doing much reading/research. I couldn’t stop nodding my head as I read Pico Iyer’s Global Souls, I’m sure I’ll feel the same about existential migration.
#1087Eva & Jeremy Rees » May 5th, 2010 at 4:50 pm:
What a stellar post — great idea and great work pulling together the thoughts of some of my favorite bloggers.
#1088Joel » May 7th, 2010 at 12:17 am:
Jason,
Thanks for a truly excellent article. As someone who is trying to build a web-based business I really appreciate your thoughts on the subject.
#1089Steven » May 7th, 2010 at 6:17 pm:
The biggest challenge when traveling with kids is how to get them occupied during the whole trip. Though you can simply provide them with activities of their own. It would actually be a better to engage them in the activities that you will be doing. This way, not only will you be able to get them interested to these, but it will also be a great bonding time for both of you.
#1090Carol Giardenelli » May 9th, 2010 at 1:26 am:
For the last 15 years, my husband and I have taken our yearly February school break to Cancun. We spend the entire 7 days reading and relaxing; never doing anything we didn’t want to do. That was great but my husband had a more adventurous desire for travel. He wanted to travel down the Amazon River. Well, that just wasn’t my cup of tea so I sent my 19 year old son with him. When I met them at the airport after 10 days in a lodge in the Amazon Jungle, I knew immediately that something had changed. They both fell in love with the jungle. To make a long story short, after returning there in the summer to do independent study, my son fell in love with a Peruvian jungle guide, got married, and built his own lodge on the Amazon. Now, my husband and I go to Peru every year. Talk about a change in travel! Each time I go, I push my comfort level a bit more so I can enjoy the beauty of the rainforest. When I talk about our trip, I can’t believe that I am the one I am talking about. It really is an adventure. I am going in June this year, at the end of the school year so I can spend more than just 10 days there. I am looking forward to some new and exciting adventures like a canopy walk and the zip line through the jungle. Well, we’ll see.
Carol Giardenelli
#1091Scott » May 10th, 2010 at 6:38 am:
Super post – really nailed all the main points. For those that haven’t considered taking a laptop on their backpacking trips, check out the nine or 10 inch mini laptops. The evil giant Wal-Mart was recently selling an Acer for $275; I picked one up and took it on the trans-Siberian. It did everything I needed it to do; wireless connection, writing tool, backed up my photos from my camera, skyped home, etc. If it ever gets busted or stolen, you’re not out a huge amount of $. And, its super light and tiny, fits almost anywhere.
#1092Naomi » May 10th, 2010 at 10:27 am:
My husband will be flying with our sixth month old soon and is worried about the pressure as the plane get’s further and further in the air. Do you have any suggestion’s?
#1093KRS » May 10th, 2010 at 3:02 pm:
Traveling with kids can be extremely rewarding, you just have to make sure that you are prepared before you go, especially with younger kids. Thing of everything that they might need or could possibly happen and plan for it. Even if they are pretty young traveling is something that they will probably remember when they are older because it can be such a great experience.
#1094Chad » May 11th, 2010 at 9:57 am:
That sounds awesome. We are planning something like this when our two kids will be around that age. That is an experience that will enrich your lives unlike any other. Very cool.
#1095natasa » May 11th, 2010 at 9:25 pm:
Sounds interesting, well I could really use that extra income to keep travelling
#1096natasa » May 11th, 2010 at 9:37 pm:
Well it’s only natural. As we “mature” we change a lot of our interests and hobbies. How would travel habits be any different? As for me I pay more attention to the nature now!
#1097Nandrin » May 12th, 2010 at 11:24 am:
yes very inspiring! thanks for posting
#1098Brianne » May 13th, 2010 at 6:16 am:
Just as a side thought…this is great information, but the statement that “travel insurance does not cover prudence” isn’t 100 percent correct. Most travel insurance wouldn’t cover cancelling for the reasons that you did, but some, like cancel for any reason policies, pretty much allow you to cancel with impunity for any old thing (including job instabilities, personal turmoil, etc). Just something that may be worth looking into, for those who don’t know that it’s out there….
#1099Akila » May 14th, 2010 at 9:02 am:
Wonderful post! I love getting the insights of people from so many different ages.
#1100Steven » May 14th, 2010 at 2:07 pm:
Though India is one of the poorest country in the world, there are people who have golden hearts who help them in their need.
#1101Hannah In Motion » May 16th, 2010 at 5:02 am:
Thank you, everyone, for reading. I’m fairly new to the world of travel writing, but being in a place like Mumbai made me feel very strongly the need to share what I was experiencing.
At first I was dubious the work I was doing could actually make a difference, but at least one of the older boys who ‘attends’ Hamara Footpath is in a computer training program and a couple others have jobs because of this education. After 40 years of familial street-dwelling there really is a chance for these kids to better their lives. More than anything though, I was happy to give them a chance to just be kids.
#1102Shawn » May 18th, 2010 at 11:02 pm:
Hey… i feel pair of jeans and some t-shirts are enough but most important of all these is “MONEY”, you must have in your wallet:)
#1103Melvin Smith » May 19th, 2010 at 12:25 am:
Sometimes all it takes is a little drop in the rain, and you see everything. It is unbelievable to fathom how great this universe is with a lot of places to see.
Thanks for the beautiful remarks!
#1104Steve Jepson » May 19th, 2010 at 1:04 am:
I suppose I can’t understand it until I have kids of my own, but I’ve never seen the appeal of traveling with children.
#1105lara dunston » May 20th, 2010 at 3:29 am:
Hi Gretchen
Nice chatting with you! Thanks for the interview!
Lara & Terry
#1106Doug Dosdall » May 22nd, 2010 at 3:36 am:
Funny that this article has just lately been getting some hits…comes up high in Google I guess.
Ok, first, yes, not Port Mann. If you want to continue cycling to Vancouver and not cheat and take the Skytrain like I did then it is the Alex Fraser you want. This does have a cycle/walk sidewalk and sineage but it is not the most pleasant cycle.
I got in some trouble for my Surrey-bashing…sorry! Surrey has indeed improved in the 10 years since I wrote this. Although given its sprawl it’ll never be the most sustainable/cycle-friendly city.
There’s still no great route from the border to Vancouver but I understand there is now a bike path called the Delta-South Surrey Regional Greenway which would cover the part between Mud Bay and Annacis Island (the Alex Fraser Bridge). I’d be curious about anyone’s feedback who’s been on this route?
I was at the south end of the Alex Fraser recently on a ride from Vancouver and the signage is a little confusing. Going south from the Alex Fraser apparently it roughly parallels highway 91 then heads southeast and comes out at the King George Hwy (99A). It would be wonderful if they added a cycle route and cycle bridge directly south to Cresent Beach. Right now only the train goes through there. That would really complete this missing link.
#1107Ashley » May 24th, 2010 at 4:19 am:
As an educator who chaperones teens as part of their education, I can’t agree with you more about the incredible value everyone gets out of traveling with children. Of course, not all parents have the time, skill, or interest, which makes companies that specialize in this kind of travel so valuable. They are more familiar than parents with the particular problems, concerns, and issues involved with traveling with teens. Educational travel broadens everyone’s perspective and increases their awareness of the differences and similarities of other cultures.
#1108Lee Palmer » May 25th, 2010 at 1:03 am:
Haha, I wouldn’t dare take anything remotely suspicous on a plane, whichever bag I put it in.
What if the staff are morons and actually think you are a terrorist?!
#1109James Clarke » May 25th, 2010 at 8:13 pm:
They are actually quite understanding at airports, if its in the main bag you can’t get to, there’s no harm in things like knives.
#1110Rose » May 25th, 2010 at 11:15 pm:
Hi Hannah,
I am from Mumbai, your post is good, shows one of the facets of mumbai, but thats not mumbai. You never know about Mumbai to be honest, as Mumbai can make a pauper, a rich man and vice versa. It is truly city of dreams. And abt people begging and children in tattered clothes and all is part of almost all countries. Even in US or GB, they too have those downtown areas where you can find such things. But in mumbai it is more, but its progressing and one day like US and GB it will only have some downtown area only with it!!!
#1111John Bardos - JetSetCitizen » May 26th, 2010 at 2:14 pm:
Great interview!
It is a very noble quest to look for a place to call home. I personally always felt out of place in my home country of Canada. At every stage in my life, I haven’t had the same interests and aspirations of peers and friends. Moving abroad to Japan was the first time I actually felt at ‘home’.
For me, feeling at home is not about fitting in. I actually prefer to be an outsider because it is more interesting that way. The difference is that in other countries it is usually good to be an outsider. In your home country you are just strange.
#1112Paula » May 26th, 2010 at 8:59 pm:
I love travelling light and hate being weighed down with luggage. I definitely agree with ditching the ipod on holiday. Okay, it’s only light and doesn’t take up much room, but it’s too convenient and too easy to fall into the habit of listening 24/7 and missing out on experiences and chanced conversations. In order to fully experience your trip you need to be focused and not ‘lost in your music’.
#1113Paula » May 26th, 2010 at 9:13 pm:
Fantastic list and a source of inspiration for travel bloggers. Thanks.
#1114Debbie » May 27th, 2010 at 1:10 am:
Fascinating! I really get what he means my living in another country is very different than traveling or working there.
I lived overseas for two years and backpackers really didn’t pick up what it was like. I could only imagine what Dave has learned. He seems to have his head screwed on right in doing this. Would make a great book!
#1115winner » May 27th, 2010 at 12:21 pm:
Yes, living and visiting is very different. In order to know local culture and custom, you have to stay longer in the place and learning their language too. It may not make you comfortable and feel not at “home.” I personally can feel at home wherever I go.
#1116WorldFriends » May 27th, 2010 at 7:29 pm:
“The streets of Bombay smell of warm piss and cooling feces”, “Her fingers are dry and grimy and she smells of dust and petrol fumes”
I really like your capture of the senses, especially the olfactory. It is indeed the smells that triggers our memory.
#1117Anny » May 28th, 2010 at 3:53 am:
Great list, but I’m not sure I agree with #8 (sorry Matt!).
Layering is key to travelling light and a jacket is a must for layering. Save room by bringing one jacket, one or two light shirts, and a bunch of small light and easily washable tank tops in different colours. You’ll look a little bit different in each picture with the different coloured tanks, you’ll still feel clean with a new shirt each day without the added weight, *and* you’ll be ready for any change in the weather.
#1118WireIndia » May 28th, 2010 at 4:38 am:
If you really wanted to travel light you can go with just your passport, tickets and wallet in your pocket and buy everything but its an expensive way to avoid extra baggage fees!
With regard to zip off trousers, sure they’re practical but as well as not being the greatest fashion statement, they do tend to scream “TOURIST” which is fine in some places, but not if you’re trying to blend in! I guess that’s why you read not to pack them in a lot of travel advice sections!
#1119Darcy Perkins » May 29th, 2010 at 3:12 pm:
There are quite a few things I don’t agree with here…
3. Jeans – My jeans a small, light weight and great to wear casually or formally. Jeans beat the shit out of those moronic zip-off pants any day.
4. Books – Not only do I love books (and love to read), but reading a book about the place you are in, or even just one that’s set in the same country/region/city can help you get a much better understanding of the place.
6. Towel – Drying yourself with a shirt is just stupid. Just get a really small towel. Dry it in your dorm or on the back of your pack.
8. Jackets – Jackets or jumpers are great, much warmer than long sleave shirts and can be taken off, done up, or worn un-done depending on the temperature.
10. iPod – I use my iPhone for checking news, checking emails, listening to music, taking photos (when I for some reason forget or cant use my camera), and lots more. Invaluable.
13. Shoes – Not only are boots impractical and stupid for everything except hiking, but they’re also damn ugly.
#1120Danny Desjarlais » June 1st, 2010 at 4:31 am:
Very informative Dear parents travellers,
We are thinking about travelling in South America in 5 years with our daughters(they will have 5 & 7 years old!)..is it too young to enjoy & take profit of this long journey or better wait for 7& 9 ??
Danny Desjarlais
Thank’s for your reply
(Would like “please”… to have some feedback from parents who have done long trip with early age toddlers!)
#1121Jo » June 1st, 2010 at 10:56 am:
Great article, I think one of the best things you can give your kids is the gift of travel. It lets them see first hand the things they read about or see on tv. I think its the best “education” they can get.
#1122Jo » June 1st, 2010 at 11:05 am:
Great article. It really is about compromise and communication. Luckily my husband and I travel really well together. I do the planning since I used to be a travel agent but I always include things that I know he will really enjoy.
#1123Susie Price » June 2nd, 2010 at 7:06 pm:
Are you really helping if you give your unskilled labour for a few weeks or months? A lot of jobs that unskilled Western tourists give could also be done by the local population who, if they were employed instead, would gain much needed daily wage income from their labours which would go some way to alleviating their poverty. I think you need to check out really carefully if your skills and time are really required by the communities you’re trying to help or you could end up harming rather than helping them.
#1124Ian » June 3rd, 2010 at 2:41 pm:
I just found your blog post. A few years too late. But the content is still valid!
I’ve read so many blogs giving packing lists, all the pairs of clothes, shoes, toiletries, guidebooks.
I agree with your packing list. You dont need shampoo and soap. They sell that stuff where you’re going. You don’t need a sleeping bag, pillow, etc. etc.
#1125Sophia » June 4th, 2010 at 1:18 am:
Hehehe this reminds me of the time I went to China for a school tip and one of my friends bought the biggest brush and hairdryer along. How practical!
#1126Renny » June 5th, 2010 at 3:38 am:
Well armed – VW is a great van – I’m sure they’ll have a lovely trip!
#1127soultravelers3 » June 5th, 2010 at 8:35 pm:
Great tips! We have been on an open ended, non-stop family world tour since 2006 to 32 countries & 4 continents so far and find family travel the very best way to see the world!
Age, how many kids, and personality of the kids and parents also affect travel. We started traveling as a family when our child was just 2 weeks old and that travel is quite different than what we can do today when she is 9 and half.
When we started our world travel our child was 5 and the travel has done so much to enrich her education ( she is a fluent trilingual/triliterate and speaks some of many languages) and gained so much confidence.
Even just using many ways of transportation from cargo ships, trains, planes, bikes, camels, sail boats, horses etc is part of the learning, fun and growth.
I’ve done solo, couple, group, 3 generations and more travel, but find family long term travel the best so far! Don’t hesitate to travel the world with your child, you will all be richer for the experience!
#1128soultravelers3 » June 5th, 2010 at 8:53 pm:
Looks like a cool book and I hope it encourages more families to do extended travel! A year goes by too fast to really deeply explore the world, so my advice is to take MORE time and go slower. That way it will cost MUCH less and one has the advantage of really immersing deeply and becoming very fluent in at least one other language.
We have been on an open ended, non-stop family world tour since 2006 traveling and living large on just 23 dollars a day per person. Today, most folks can arrange their lives so they can school and work ANY where, so one doesn’t have to rush about in just a year to see and explore the world together.
A year sounds like a long time if one is used to just a week or two of holiday/vacation, but it goes by really fast and raises costs limiting it to the wealthy.
It is a lot of work to prepare for such a trip, so why rush back home in just a year? We’ve been traveling the world non-stop for 4 years and we’ve barely gotten started ( despite seeing 32 countries on 4 continents & over 175,000 miles mostly overland). The world is big, go deep. Once you get used to the freedom, amazing education and deep family bonding that comes with extended travel, you change and it is hard to go back to a confined life. It is also the best possible education for tomorrow’s 21st century global citizens!
Steve, perhaps traveling with kids doesn’t appeal to you because you do not have any kids, so don’t understand what a great joy it is. Traveling with kids is the best way to travel in my opinion & I’ve been traveling my whole long life, so have tried all the other ways too.
#1129soultravelers3 » June 5th, 2010 at 9:15 pm:
Nice interview! I enjoy their story because we are also traveling the world with a 9 year old this year. ( OK, we started traveling the world in 2006 when she was 5, but she is 9 this year as we continue our open ended global journey).
It has been a fantastic education for our trilingual/triliterate child & we are unschoolers and have written a lot on that topic, so fun to read their take too since every child, every family and every trip is unique. I always love reading about family travels & think it’s very cool and brave that she is doing it as a single parent and demoing for others that it can be done! Bravo!
#1130Clicint » June 5th, 2010 at 10:08 pm:
I’m about to enter high school, and I’m really considering this as a way to live. I write constantly so I could be an author for my money, or a trader. I like to collect so I could have a constantly changing collection of things to sell, and keep some of the things for me if I really like them. I would travel by houseboat, keeping it well fueled from my work, and getting food this way as well.
I just want to travel the world, I want to actually LIVE before I die. There’s better things in life than working at Cellular South forever.
I talked to my stepdad and he said whatever I wanted to do in life I could do if I tried.
I think I’m gonna do it.
What do you guys think of my ideas?
#1131Indrani Ganguly » June 7th, 2010 at 3:30 pm:
Found this very steoreotyped. No new insights into either the culture or city or into Western travellers.
Australian Aboriginal people are far worse off!
How many middle class white people would submit to a dark skinned stranger intruding into their lives?
#1132Tuan » June 8th, 2010 at 12:21 pm:
I think that if you had gone many place and see everything from this journey, It will be better for your life. This is a great journey of you and your family. Thank for you to share this post.
#1133Johnny » June 8th, 2010 at 2:26 pm:
I was always interested in using the disposable camera for really artistic and almost vintage shots and this helped me very much.
#1134Mike » June 10th, 2010 at 6:44 pm:
Hi Lisa, Great work by you. i always go with my family for holidays. i have tow childrens and they always help me to find the good places for vacation.
#1135Gecko » June 14th, 2010 at 1:44 pm:
Tammie, I agree with you in fast food. It’s better to avoid them. Also we can carry a box of cereal while traveling alone. It’s a nice pass time having them and we really don’t have to bother about the annoying noise. We can enjoy munching!
#1136keiran » June 15th, 2010 at 10:45 pm:
Lol…… found something really interesting to read after a long time. I have bookmarked this blog and would love to read more articles from you.
#1137Ralph » June 16th, 2010 at 10:42 pm:
A very good read, this helps a lot of people be more open minded when it comes to the topic of racism. Indeed traveling opens up many doors with regards to this, the more people who gets to read about this the better way of avoiding racism altogether.
#1138G. Michael Schneider » June 19th, 2010 at 6:02 am:
A tourist likes to observe a culture; a traveler likes to become part of it.
#1139Jon Brandt » June 21st, 2010 at 6:34 am:
Thanks Keiran,
You can find my published writing, photography, and videos on my Web site, http://www.jon-brandt.com and always check in at my blog, http://www.ttravelguy.wordpress.com. Glad that you enjoyed the post!
Jon
#1140Greg » June 23rd, 2010 at 2:21 pm:
Great post. You are absolutely right. As adults we get caught up in the day to day grind of everyday life. Most of us have forgot the huge ambitious dreams we had as children. The problem is we are programed to this type of life style. Life is short and we should all have a bucket list as you call it. The question is…. is the bucket half empty or is the bucket half full? —-Think about it—-
#1141alyse » June 24th, 2010 at 1:38 pm:
Tammie, I admire you! I want and need a SRT so badly right now. I’m a 21 year old girl though and everyone I know thinks I’m insane and that it’s too dangerous for me. I’ve always been good taking care of myself, but everyone’s doubts are starting to get to me. I don’t know where I want to go, I just want to drive. I’ve had small trips before on my own but nothing like what I’m thinking now. How young were you when you had your first SRT, did people say the same things? How do I go about this and stay safe?
#1142Jeff » June 24th, 2010 at 7:12 pm:
I had the pleasure of meeting Artis today. I thought that he looked familiar to me, but since I rolled my truck back in 2001, my memory is not the best (thank the makers of spell check that this is legible .. lol). We had a really nice chat & I Google’d him when I got home. What can I say, …. “WOW”! I think I had seen him on Letterman, but I do remember the spoons & how he played them. Artis is a very gifted & interesting person. I hope to meet him again sometime so me can talk some more. I hope & pray that things turn around for him.
#1143G. Michael Schneider » June 26th, 2010 at 1:35 am:
For an interesting related issue about traveling with kids, check out my most recent post “Childless in Africa.”
I was the recipient of an all expenses paid, three month trip to Africa to teach a course at the University of Nairobi. Trip of a lifetime, right? Well, not when my two almost but not quite adult children (ages 17 and 14) said in no uncertain terms, “We won’t go.” So, what to do? How do you deal with the issue of a great trip but balky kids. That was my problem and a problem that many of you may also have.
Michael
#1144Hannah In Motion » June 26th, 2010 at 10:11 am:
I like to think that as I check things off my bucket list I keep pouring new things in. As a kid I never cared about properly applying eye makeup (now on the list) but performing on Broadway has fallen off as I’ve grown older. Thanks for reading. Cheers.
#1145Hannah In Motion » June 26th, 2010 at 10:44 am:
Ah yes… I love the meltdown points along the way when your brain just refuses to grab all the pretty words you were in possession of just the day before. Rather than a polite ‘excuse me?’ in Turkish, I’ve just started grunting and looking confused. They get the idea.
Thanks for the post.
#1146Derk » June 29th, 2010 at 3:27 pm:
Hehe, you remind me of my countrymen who go to the States for six months and come back speaking Dutch with a heavy American accent. It’s just an affectation.
I’ve lived abroad and spoken mostly English for 20 years now. Yet I still speak fluent Dutch without any trace of an accent. There may be some new words I don’t know but that’s all.
#1147Tom » July 1st, 2010 at 10:04 am:
Excellent article. Having taken many trips with my three children I can relate to the difficulty of planning a get away that keep the whole family happy and still gives me a chance to unwind. I love your ideas.
thanks
#1148Dom » July 2nd, 2010 at 10:45 pm:
I love the idea of this story. For me there is little in life as liberating as traveling. I think the internet is opening up travel for people who in the past would not have gone traveling. The internet is global and therefore if you are web savvy you have a global skill that can take you anywhere. I am rapidly trying to come up the ol’ internet curve to benefit from this.
I still look back a few years however, to before the internet, and look at the people who took off traveling then without the fallback of the internet. Those who trusted themselves to be OK and then learned to be OK. Making friends and enough to get by wherever they went – what freedom in mind, spirit and body – although on my own journies there have been times when I wished I was safely tucked in behind a desk!
#1149Dom » July 2nd, 2010 at 11:06 pm:
I think brilliant! Not sure why Tom is getting so angry, but for Wade to find his way and follow it is inspiring. It takes balls to do this, I think, and ultimately creates a sense of freedom. I will certailnly be remembering saving 20 bucks is easier than earning 20 bucks!!!! Thank you Wade!
#1150Tammie Dooley » July 3rd, 2010 at 2:04 am:
Brianne, could you give me a website for a policy such as this? All of us would be interested in checking this out. Thank you!
#1151Tammie Dooley » July 3rd, 2010 at 2:16 am:
Alyse, I was about your age. And yes, I’ve heard the same comments. And you know what? Getting older hasn’t changed the rhetoric. So don’t wait for that to help you out. I don’t do a lot of planning as to “where” before I begin a road trip – other than a general direction and an up to date Atlas in hand. But here’s what I believe to be the most important things you can do – make sure your vehicle is in tip top shape, keep your cell phone charged at all times (that means both a car and outlet charger), check in with someone at least once per day and let them know your whereabouts, and seek lodging well before dark. My favorite time to SRT is the fall, which means dark comes pretty early. Even if that means getting a room at 3:30 or 4:00 in the afternoon, that doesn’t mean you can’t walk around town/explore a bit after that. For the first time out you may want to do a bit more planning. GO. GO. GO. The things you’ll learn about yourself and the world will rock YOUR world.
#1152shelley cheny » July 4th, 2010 at 10:15 pm:
We have done some really great long trips with our little girls especially around Asia. They pick up everything, and accept everything. They are fascinated by the simplest and purest of experiences. Being a travelling parent is humbling and exhilarating!
I am grateful for this Blog.
#1153Travel-Writers-Exchange.com » July 6th, 2010 at 1:41 am:
It’s a matter of perspective. You could say that a female solo travelers have an easier time of traveling solo because they seem trusting or friendly. However, there are certain countries where women are constantly hit on by men. This is why most female solo travelers wear a wedding ring and carry pictures of their nieces and nephews and pass them off as their kids. Safety can be an issue for any traveler. If you’re good at negotiating, you can receive discounts.
#1154Travel-Writers-Exchange.com » July 7th, 2010 at 1:35 am:
Inspirational post! Many travelers probably forgot about creating a bucket list of places to see or goals to accomplish. You can get lost within your travels. Sometimes it’s good to come back to reality, at lease once in awhile.
#1155josie » July 8th, 2010 at 7:56 am:
brilliant insight into an experience of a glamp camp! im musing on… do I want to try glamping?? You make me think..Go for it!!!
thanks
#1156Ardi » July 11th, 2010 at 8:34 am:
Thank you very much for this superb post! I miss winter very much, especially the snow. At my country now we are experiencing the hot, hot summer and I can’t wait for the winter holidays. And the picture and the story as well are perfect!
#1157angela » July 12th, 2010 at 5:44 pm:
HI, JUST WANTING TO HEAR FROM ANYONE WHO HAS TRAVELLED WITH YOUNG CHILDREN TO THE SOLOMON ISLANDS. MY HUSBAND IS WORKING THERE FOR 3 MONTHS AND I’M WONDERING IF IT’S A SUITABLE PLACE TO TAKE OUR 3 BOYS AGED 3, 4 AND 10, JUST FOR A WEEK OR SO?
#1158MattW » July 13th, 2010 at 10:06 pm:
One rule I follow is: Will I use it more than once a week?
If not, its out… then IF I do need it, buy/beg/borrow it there.
#1159anne spencer » July 15th, 2010 at 6:55 am:
Wow, it is so nice to hear of others stories. my daughter has travelled all over the world. She married, and my first grand daughter (home birthed) in Isle De’Reunion…..off the coast of Madagascar. I traveled to see my 1st grandchild..what a grand trip. They showed me the whole island, volcano & all. Then they traveled to Madagascar for about a month with new baby, & then by foot, train, truck, bus, etc. up through Africa to France. Then they bought bikes and a baby trailer and traveled to Sweden, Finland, Germany, Denmark…….(p.s. they met me in Stockholm with my bike and gear, and we traveled Finland, Germany, Sweden, & Denmark, then I flew back to the states after a 3 weeks of awe and enjoyment) Next, they bought a 31 ft sailing boat…and traveled from St. Thomas to Panama…….for the nest 5 years. Adding two grandsons along the way, I traveled to Curacao & spent two weeks onboard their boat. Currently, the boat is in dry dock, and they have purchased an RV and are in Canada, where I plan to join them for a trip through the Rockies. I wish more people could experience what you’ve done and are doing. I agree that the children learn more away from school. Our system is not so great anymore.
nice to read your article. I wish my daughter would do a blog or post, but with 3 small children, she has her hands full…….it’s a lot of work not to have a home.
#1160Michael » July 17th, 2010 at 9:34 am:
Yyyeeahhh Matt!
#1161Michael » July 19th, 2010 at 8:43 am:
I say stop being a puss. If you can’t carry a well packed bag with all the things that make you comfortable you should stay at home. This is nothing more than a ploy to consume.
#1162Aditi L » July 20th, 2010 at 9:36 am:
I think the greatest asset we have is each other. As a woman who’s traveled on her own, I’m forever indebted to the several older women who took me under their wing, taught me some words in Thai, and drew out maps. I’ve made some of my closest friends from traveling alone- it really forces you to get out there and meet people. I highly recommend it!
-Aditi L
#1163Sally » July 20th, 2010 at 2:25 pm:
Naomi. We flew a short trip from Perth to Melbourne when our son was 6 months. Little did we know that he had an ear infection at the time and the poor bugger was in excruciating pain for the 3.5 hour flight. I suggest to anyone flying with kids that you take them to a doctor for a quick once over a day or so before the flight and NEVER travel without childrens paracetamol. We are now regular international fliers with our son (now 3) and we only ever travel with carefully thought out hand luggage (no matter how long the trip) to avoid long waits upon arrival, anything extra we need can be purchased at our destination. If it is a reasonably short journey, we take mostly old clothes for our son that are about past their life expectancy and dispose of them during the trip, to constantly keep a light load.
#1164Steve » July 22nd, 2010 at 12:14 am:
Having studied tourism and seeing the term ‘flashpacking’ come and evolve, these kinds of articles are excellent to see.
The fine line between flash / backpacking can be drawn along various elements (accommodation / technologies / shopping), but the truth might be that it is a little bit of everything and a touch of mentality.
Travel is your social currency and some want to come across as am explorer (backpacker) and others want to be seen as outgoing enough to travel to some more exotic destinations, but still likes there comfort too!
I for one would just rather be enjoying an Aussie summer (backpacking or flashpacking)than sitting in an office (or outside) for a British one!
Thanks again for the great article!
#1165Barbara Weibel » July 22nd, 2010 at 2:01 pm:
Thanks so much for asking for my thoughts and publishing my comment. I found it very interesting that Gary’s take-away was one of evolution, and mine was the experience of evolution. As he says, more will definitely be revealed.
#1166Zane Claes » July 25th, 2010 at 2:29 pm:
I feel your pain about losing proficiency in your native language while studying another… it is a phase I think we all go through. It may even be more than a phase – an unavoidable natural phenomenon. It is certainly disheartening at first.
For that very reason, though, I don’t think it is worth worrying about. There are bad days (and weeks) when it comes to learning any skill. Any neuroscientist (or optimist, for that matter) will tell you “that’s just how it is.”
I wrote a bit more about the subject of making mistakes, why they are scientifically natural, and how they can even help you on my blog.
#1167Zane Claes » July 26th, 2010 at 12:10 am:
A lot of blog writers (travel and otherwise) accept that their blog will make a fairly limited amount of money. However, once you have achieved some level of readership and fame you can (for example) write an eBook. This is where many bloggers end up making significantly more money than, say, advertisements on the site.
#1168brian » July 26th, 2010 at 7:09 am:
I think Gary’s was my favorite presentation. He made it fun while informative. And you can’t deny his credentials. TIME named his blog one of the best 25 in the world. Incredible accomplishment.
With everything learned, TBEX should be better in Vancouver for 2011. There is excitement and anticipation for it already.
#1169Dan » July 26th, 2010 at 7:19 pm:
I agree with @Barbara’s comments. As an avid reader of travel blogs, I prefer a personal narrative rather than a generalized approach to writing. Readers will always gravitate towards quality. From a marketing perspective, I think a few well-optimized articles every now and then wouldn’t hurt either. Sorry for butting in to what seems like an industry discussion, but you guys have the best jobs in the world. Cheers!
#1170Guru Traveler » July 31st, 2010 at 7:02 am:
Great read, haha especially loved the part about the toilets. Just on a side note you two seem to make the perfect traveling couple if I ever seen one, a paramedic AND a travel agent. I bet you both find the best medical and travel deals. Good luck on future travels!
#1171Pawel » July 31st, 2010 at 11:13 pm:
Hello from Poland!
My grandfather also died in Kermine (Navoiy nowadays) and he rest in polish cemetery. I have been looking informations about Kermine and this way I have found your blog. Do you have more photos from this cemetary (specially the detailed photo of name board)? It is very important for me.
I will be gratefull for help or contact.
Best regards, Pawel
#1172baghsarai » August 1st, 2010 at 9:20 am:
I haven’t had the same interests and aspirations of peers and friends. Moving abroad to Japan was the first time I actually felt at ‘home’.
#1173Jan » August 1st, 2010 at 7:19 pm:
Wow! I wish I was there to experience first hand the tips and insights the organizers have instore for the participant. Anyway, it’s nice to see you’ve posted the relevant points. Thanks.
#1174Ellen » August 3rd, 2010 at 3:00 am:
As a mom traveling with a husband and two children, i did not relish the idea of washing their clothes at the end of busy days of sightseeing. We packed enough clothes for 5-6 days and included stops in local laundromats as part of our cultural experiences. We met interesting people and observed normal daily life off the normal tourist track.
#1175Jeremy Powers » August 3rd, 2010 at 3:03 am:
This was some of the stupidest advice I’ve ever read. No shoes? Really? You’re going to walk around Paris in hiking boots or flip flops. What! An! Idiot! Heavy jacket? Mine isn’t. Paper underwear – that idea is more gross than dirty underwear. Zip off pants make you look like an idiot – not as stupid as wearing wool dress pants when it’s 94 degrees in Rome.
Fire them all!
My advice is always bring the expensive stuff: shoes, jackets, pants and minimal electronics . Socks, underwear and t-shirts are cheap, can be had anywhere and disposed of easily. Soap, razors, etc., are nearly free if not free.
#1176Bruce » August 3rd, 2010 at 4:41 am:
The one thing I never take is cotton clothing. Cotton soaks up perspiration and takes forever to dry. Washing clothing out in your room is a very different proposition with microfiber clothing as it can be wrung 99% dry and is always dry in the morning. Polyester shirts, soaks, underwear, pants, make for cooler clothing and easier maintenance on the road.
Teflon coatings make slacks stain free and they can last a couple weeks without need for cleaning. Dark colors like black or patterned fabrics do not show the dirt and the wrinkles nearly as much as light solid colors, and dark colors make you stand out a lot less like a tourist in most parts of the world.
I take basic medicine, first aid, soaps, etc. and other items because it saves time when traveling. I don’t want to be shopping for soap or toothpaste or a shirt or shoes while I am spending hundreds of dollars for each day to be traveling. I buy samples and I use my soaps until they are 1/4 size and I can put 3 different bars in one holder.
After badly cutting my hand on a defective coffee pot while in Denver on business and finding that it took the hotel staff 20 minutes to locate the first aid kit and that it only had bandaids I have started to carry a basic kit that includes butterfly bandages, liquid bandage, compression bandaging material, and broad spectrum antiseptic creme. Harder than you might think to get even bandaids in many parts of the world once you get outside the cities.
Outside the cities in many countries, including the USA, the drinking water is not safe to drink and I don’t like spending precious travel time sitting on a toilet or in the bushes swatting away mosquitoes, so a simple filter kit goes with me. In many parts of the world the plastic water bottles are refilled with tap water and the cap glued in place so it is “like new”. Buying water in a plastic bottle from a store in a small village in Asia and Latin America is not guarantee of getting water that is safe to drink. I refuse to support Coca Cola’s theft of local water supplies so I drink only beer or tap water which if suspect has been filtered.
My 4-band Blackberry works everywhere in the world and is my phone, PDA for Outlook contact info, and my GPS. It also serves as my MP3 player and photo book so I can show people pictures of my home area.
When traveling in 3rd world areas what I do make space for in my bag are a couple of new T-shirts from the USA with logos and a bag of balloons. The T-shirts are gifts for the adults and the balloons are gifts for the children. In many areas ballpoint pens are greatly appreciated and a BIC for a school child can be a big deal.
Disagree about comment made about boots. If I can take only one pair of shoes and plan to be all over the city and also spending time on trails, and I try to include both in my trips whenever possible, a lightweight waterproof pair of boots are perfect. Too many people take only street shoes and then are unable to get off the beaten path and away from the crowds and other tourists/travelers or worry about puddles or the rain and expect to go everywhere in a car or bus when so much more can be seen and experienced by walking. Day hiking types of boots that go to just about the ankel are perfect for travel when used with wool or polyester fiber socks – just avoid cotton socks. I buy Chukka style boots which are like “desert boots” and don’t give a military appearance – enough of that with the United States’ 725 military bases around the world.
#1177Paula Gjerstad » August 3rd, 2010 at 6:37 am:
Dear John in May 2010:
Such disturbingly nasty language. You disagree with some of the points others made, and find it necessary to curse them out and call them vile names. Why? It doesn’t hurt them, it irritates others (QED) and it makes you look like a true undesirable with opinions that probably don’t count at all. Quit it! I’m surprised there is no kind of supervision of this kind of thing.
Editor’s Comment: The comment by John was actually posted on May 23, 2009. Also, there is supervision over comments. I was not the editor at that time and do not feel the need for editing it at this late date. Though, thank you for your concern.
#1178Jim » August 3rd, 2010 at 11:24 am:
I always pack a money belt, but, like some other commenters, hardly ever wear it. Mostly, it is a useful way to keep gathered in one place almost everything I want to put in the hotel safe at night. (Clearly, I don’t do backpacking — I had quite enough of that in the Army, thank you.) As to those zippered “safety” pockets, I have trousers that include them, and I use them, but I don’t entirely rely on them to keep my valuables safe. On the metro in Madrid, a cute youngster almost got everything out of one of those zippered pockets, but failed because (1) he was in training, not yet skilled, and (2) my friend spotted him at work. At home, I called the company that sold me the trousers and pointed out that their zipper opens down! That makes it a lot easier for the user to fetch out a wallet, but the drawback is obvious. The trousers seller. who shall go unnamed, has not changed the design!
#1179Cathy » August 6th, 2010 at 7:12 am:
I agreed with Milton. It is how we respond. Having parents who are Chinese and being married to American really confuse a lot of people. I lived in America for 20 years. 4 siblings are married to American out of 7. People should have open mind.
I had one roommate who is black and other roommate who is Spanish in my first and second year of college. I learned that they experience lots of racism.
Does racism exist where you live?
#1180Alison » August 7th, 2010 at 1:37 am:
Wow! That would be an amazing adventure to travel the world with your kids for a year. One day I hope I can do that. To the commenter who said they don’t understand the appeal of traveling with kids-you will understand when you have them. You will want your kids to have these amazing experiences, open their minds to different cultures, foods, people etc. Traveling also gives your kids confidence to face new situations. And its a great bonding experience for your family.
#1181G. Michael Schneider » August 9th, 2010 at 2:01 pm:
Wade,
What would you think if I wrote about how to go to an absolutely GREAT restaurant and get out for less than $5 by drinking only water, not ordering anything, and eating the remains off of other people’s plates? You would think I was crazy! Well, travel to me is like a great restaurant–it can offer enormous pleasures but not if all you think about is getting out for the least amount of money. Yes, somethings are free, but sometimes you want to enjoy the food, culture, adventures of a place whose costs far exceed $5/day.
I would rather live somewhere for a few months or years earning enough money in 3,4 days of work each week so that the other 3 or 4 days can be filled with activities without the worry of always looking into my wallet. Once when I was a very young student I went to Italy, crashed on someone’s couch, ate nothing but ramen noodles, and never got to the opera. I decided then that if I am going to travel I will go for long enough to become a part of the culture and earn enough funds to enjoy it. That is the theme of my own blog, On The Other Guy’s Dime in which you live and work overseas earning enough money to never have to reach into your wallet and never once skimping on the joys of travel. I personally think it is a far better way to travel.
Michael Schneider
#1182Susan Hughes » August 11th, 2010 at 1:00 am:
I greatly admire you all :-0) Nancy I heard a story about you and your family on the radio today 8/10/2010 through “Radio Today” here in Bahrain and you are presently in Bolivia. I was meant to hear this as usually I turn my worship music on straightaway :-0). I then googled you and came into TravelBlogs where i saw this article. I hope you receive this Nancy and Anne.
I pray protection over you all as you continue on your travels. God Bless, Susan.
#1183craig | travelvice.com » August 11th, 2010 at 4:16 pm:
“…Back when I thought US$10/night for a hotel room was cheap.”
Heard this when I first started traveling full-time, nearly 5 years ago & has stuck with me since.
#1184Sam Daams » August 11th, 2010 at 7:08 pm:
Wow, some fantastic advice here to heed! They all ring so true. Especially like Andy’s: “It’s up to me to decide when my desire to go is strong enough to put the excuses aside and just do it.”
#1185TheTravelTweeter » August 12th, 2010 at 2:05 am:
Just Go. Years ago I was on a business trip to Japan and had an opportunity for a weekend in Hong Kong. Oh I thought at the time, too much trouble, too much to do, meetings on Monday, on and on. I didn’t go. It took 15 years before I actually got back to the area and to Hong Kong. It’s probably one of my favorite cities in the world! Even now though after having been to Hong Kong I regret not making the trip then, and I still do. Even more, you will regret the ones, you never get the chance to do again! I have never regretted one trip taken… not one!
#1186Mellisa » August 17th, 2010 at 2:49 am:
Planning is the main part of traveling, as you have to prepare yourself for the future difficulties. You have provided us with the useful ideas about packing, and also about the necessary things that should be kept in mind, when we are out of our city.
Mellisa,
#1187cathy » August 17th, 2010 at 9:39 am:
When I left home, a friend of mine told me: “Remember that wherever you go, you always take yourself with you”. I smiled politely, thanked him for the advice,and walked out the door, not really giving anymore thought to his words. Little did I know just how much those words would ring in my thoughts over and over again. It’s true. No matter where you go, you do take yourself with you; your thoughts, your expectations, your values, and your perceptions. I would say just be careful not to let them get in your way. Open yourself up to new experiences and new expectations. But at the same time, you can’t run from who you are so be prepared to deal with yourself in whatever place you finally land.
#1188Sam Daams » August 20th, 2010 at 5:46 am:
What a great interview; and I thought getting a visa was complicated!
#1189Laurelle » August 21st, 2010 at 2:19 am:
Thomas and Tony are two travelers who would NEVER be selected for “Survivor” or “The Amazing Race” simply because they know too much! Although perhaps they would be excellent consultants for those shows . . . .
#1190Freda » August 21st, 2010 at 6:53 am:
I agree with you, Laurelle.
Having traveled with these two several times throughout the years, their knowledge of the challenges and ongoing changes of the rules of traveling from country to country is virtually unmatched.
Freda
#1191Tony » August 21st, 2010 at 11:44 pm:
If “Survivor” wants me, I’m ready!
#1192phoebe » August 22nd, 2010 at 6:05 pm:
I can say that quitting your job might be a tough decision you made. But I can see that you are happy traveling the globe full time. It was worth it. Change is good. Finding the meaning of changes in our life is a powerful method of discovering its purpose.
#1193Hannah In Motion » August 24th, 2010 at 12:55 am:
@Travel-Writers-Exchange: I try to keep my bucket list as much about my life as about my travel. It actually helps me to remember that there are just as many amazing things to do when I’m NOT traveling as when I am. Thanks for reading.
#1194Hannah In Motion » August 24th, 2010 at 12:59 am:
@Rose – I can totally see that there are many Mumbais hidden layer beneath layer. I think every city is like that. This is the one that stuck out to me the most though. (Although I did check out a couple of little cafes just around the corner from some of these things I’ve written about.)
@WorldFriends – Thank you. Somehow it’s always smells that bring me back to places.
@Indrani Ganguly – I think the ‘insight’ I was trying to convey was that I WAS just a Western traveler – very unprepared for what I was going to see there. I’m not sure what stereotype you were referring to, but I think the piece stereotyped me just as much as the children. Thank you for reading regardless, and for your feedback.
#1195Garick » August 24th, 2010 at 4:00 am:
It’s so inspiring to watch Lainie and Miro actually LIVE their lives and I do hope to follow in their example soon when economically feasible. After all, isn’t it corporate slavery to work an entire year to enjoy the 10days vacation they give you? How come other countries are able to achieve a similar if not sometimes better standard of living with less actual work hours when employees are given 6weeks to 3months vacation a year?
#1196Ian » August 25th, 2010 at 8:14 pm:
site no longer exists
#1197Hans » August 27th, 2010 at 1:52 pm:
Hi guys,
Call me Ny Eve or anything you like really, but when you say full time travellers, how do you survive financially? Are you being paid for travel writing, is your website a source of income? I’m new to this internet game so would not know about these things.
#1198Thomas » August 28th, 2010 at 1:52 pm:
Hi Hans,
We get this question a lot. We do make money with our travel website as well as with another educational website. The income comes from advertisement on both sites. In addition, we do travel writing and other web work while we are traveling. As long as we have Internet access, we are set.
Besides, living in the developing world is much cheaper than living in our home countries. The amount we would have to pay for a one-bedroom apartment in California, where Tony is from, covers our costs for a month of traveling.
#1199Jackelin » August 29th, 2010 at 7:28 am:
Michael, I can sympathize with you, I did it too a decade ago. It’s about the hardest thing on can do- we have to vent some way…congrats on your achievement. You turned your anguish into something creative and helpful to others…smart guy.
Out of all of my pain and interweaving, I came out with a book of a different sort from all of my experience….lots of poems.
#1200Ken » August 29th, 2010 at 5:43 pm:
I really like the comment in point 3 – don’t sit around waiting for people to save you, save yourself. This is not a straight, gay or bi comment…but a comment about the human spirit.